How do I get over a boy who was my first love & ripped my heart out by text & on aim he yelled at me & said WE R OVER finished byby!? I just cant get over it. And the weird thing is is that i wanted to break up with him weeks ago but, i couldnt find the heart & then he shocks me & said " listen there's no easy way of saying this but i want to break up with u" thats low. HOWW? & the worst part is is that he is going to summer camp with me. He also told me he loves me still but yet broke up with me. I NEED SERIOUS HELP! Our anniversey is 4-22-08 ( i know its short but we liked eachother for 2 years ) anyways every where i look the number 22 is there i just cant get over him & i am loosing precious beauty sleep over this. (: I dont know why i still love him. I hate that i love him. Some days i just sit on the couch listening to Me & his song eating cookie dough crying. i am being a female dog to my family cus of this. I had a dream that he was my first kiss too. i just cant!!!
Additional info, added Sunday June 29 2008, 8:31 pm: Now i think he goes out with his ex & we just broke up a day ago im starting to think he never loved me.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? luv_nelly_06 answered Monday June 30 2008, 12:34 am: its so hard to get over a breakup.. and i know cause im dealing with one at he current time...my sitution is a un-live-able one, so i know you can survive this. he might still like you so dont be so sad. if he has a new girlfriend it might mean he is trying to make you jelous or that he might have feelings for someone else. you never know , but your best bet is to stay strong and do things that will talk your mind offf of him . (any more questions message me:)
shootingstar2609 answered Sunday June 29 2008, 11:15 am: Breakups are terrible.
I think what makes it really tough is the confusing things, like the fact that he says he loves you, but still broke up with you. I know, it keeps playing over and over in your head, and you just try to understand.
The best thing, is to try to move on. I know it's easier said than done, but if you keep trying to get back with him, it's just gonna feel worse.
Join a club or team, and meet new people. Do things to keep your mind off of him, and find other reasons to be happy.
Plus, any guy that breaks up with you on AIM or by text, is NOT worth it! =) [ shootingstar2609's advice column | Ask shootingstar2609 A Question ]
lr0xo answered Sunday June 29 2008, 10:40 am: The best thing to do is do something to get your mind off of him trust me, if thats how he is you can do better. does he not talk to u anymore? if he still talks to you, ask him what it was that made you guys break up, dont make it sound like you care too much .. say that you "thought it was the best idea too" (even if you dont)if he gives you a good reason, that might help but if he has no reason & he honestly likes you try & win him back at camp!
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