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Ive lost my closest friends, should i try to get them back o
So long story short, i did something i shouldnt have dont to my best friend. and now her and my closest friends either hate me, wont talk to me, or are not as close as they used to be. my old best friend has a new best friend too. ive tried a couple of times to say sorry and make things right but they already seem to be used to everything with out me. i really miss them but it would be hard for all of us to be together again and the truth is i dont feel like i have any other friends that would accept me as well as they did.
so should i just leave it and try to find a new group of friends or keep trying to make it better?
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Hey there!
If they wont except you again, get over them. Nicole Richie has a really great quote that i think would work great in this situation: "You just have to go after what you want and if it doesn’t want you back then so be it. It doesn’t deserve you, anyways." It sounds like you've apologized a lot, and if your apology isnt getting through their heads, then there is obviously something wrong with them. Surprisingly I went through something like that but I had a lot of friends to go back to. And you know what i have found? I've experience so many things that I would not have experienced if I had continued hanging out with them. Maybe this is your fate. Go find some new friends who will except you for who you are, live your life like you never had, and accept your mistakes and move on!!
Hope i helped!!
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I think you should find a new group of friends because they obviously havent forgiven you yet and i dont think thier worth following around apoligizing to so just foeget about them its better to move on and i dont think they are very good friends if they dont forgive you for making one mistake this is just my opinion the rest is up to you good luck!!!! :)
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You should do both .try harder to apologize and really make an effort .if things just aren't working then move on .whatever you did to make them leave was the mistake and you hurt them bad enough to loose them .you can try to make it better but no promises .so make new friends, which is always a good thing .you may have relied on your friends so much that you feel like it will be hard to get new ones .well it really isn't .just find someone and be nice and funny and be whatever you think they like .you've made friends before you can do it again.
xoT ;p
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