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- Rae
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Location: Hannah, Montana
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Age: 16
Member Since: June 10, 2008
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okay so my best friend and i have sorta split up ever since her old bestfriend has been coming back into her life again. it really hurts and i dont know what to do anymore. for the past month we have fought alot and its so stressful for me. im just not sure whether i should let it go. work it out. or just move on. please help me! (link)
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it takes two to tango, if she hasn't been responsive theres a reason behind it. invite her over, give her some tea and crackers, and have a serious discussion. Make sure to communicate or assumptions will be made and you know what assumptions do.
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I want this guy to like me, and he kind of does but not enough to go out with me and I asked him out and he likes one of my friends. What do I do? I still want him to like me but I want to go out with him too but if he just wants to be friends I dont want it to be awkward. (link)
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slow and steady wins the race. Basically, it is known that high school relationships usually dont last very long, and the fact is you just gotta wait it out. I know some people would hate me for saying this, but Justin Bobby from the hills once said "Truth and Time tells all" which is totally true ! Basically, wait to see how it turns out with your crush and your friend. If they go out, it probably wont last long. If she doesnt like him back, great! You just need to wait it out. and while your waiting, look at all the other fish in the sea, and maybe you'll catch an eye of a cute one. Good luck and i hope i helped!
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my summer vacation is europe for a month and it has already been 2 weeks. a bunch of people would kill to go to europe for a month but me... i would rather be home.
i am so homesick right now i cant even describe it. I dont get to go anywhere because all of my relatives are busy with work and school etc. and i came here only with my siblings and they are always with their other friends and they dont want to include me with their plans.
my question is what should i do. I feel like im wasting my summer by sitting at their home on the computer and watching movies all day long. i am still very jetlagged so i go to sleep way early in the morning and i wake up in the evening. so i can really do anything during the day and i cant do anything at night because everyone is sleeping and ill make noise. please help??
oh and the last week im going to be in a country where there is beaches and im going with my dad and siblings (brothers) and i think it will be a little akward because the only thing we will do is go to the beach for about a week. what will i do?? i want to go shopping but they are all guys and they will never take me. i need some fun in my life! (link)
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You're in Europe!! This sounds like an awesome opportunity for some exploring. Why dont you try renting a mo-ped and traveling the countryside with you and your camera, or trying new foods. It seems like you have a lot of family in this country, do you know the language well? Basically, stop being a couch potato and explore the land you're in!! As for the beach, why dont you make a list of fun things you can do, and try and complete all of the tasks. For example, going for an early morning jog, a polar bear swim, and hey whats wrong with shopping in europe by yourself!?! Its not like you're going to see anyone from you school there. Enjoy your summer!
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So long story short, i did something i shouldnt have dont to my best friend. and now her and my closest friends either hate me, wont talk to me, or are not as close as they used to be. my old best friend has a new best friend too. ive tried a couple of times to say sorry and make things right but they already seem to be used to everything with out me. i really miss them but it would be hard for all of us to be together again and the truth is i dont feel like i have any other friends that would accept me as well as they did.
so should i just leave it and try to find a new group of friends or keep trying to make it better? (link)
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Hey there!
If they wont except you again, get over them. Nicole Richie has a really great quote that i think would work great in this situation: "You just have to go after what you want and if it doesn’t want you back then so be it. It doesn’t deserve you, anyways." It sounds like you've apologized a lot, and if your apology isnt getting through their heads, then there is obviously something wrong with them. Surprisingly I went through something like that but I had a lot of friends to go back to. And you know what i have found? I've experience so many things that I would not have experienced if I had continued hanging out with them. Maybe this is your fate. Go find some new friends who will except you for who you are, live your life like you never had, and accept your mistakes and move on!!
Hope i helped!!
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Okay, well i like this guy and ived liked him for 3 years goin on 4 now but idk if i should tell him or not...idk if im scared of rejection or not ready to tell him...what should i do???
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Go for it! its summer, if he does reject you don't sweat it. Just tell him that you needed to get this off your chest and all guys respect honesty from girls. It shows that your willing to put yourself out there and don't care about the answer. so just go for it and say whats on your mind, whats the worst that can happen? rejection? eveyone goes throught it but its not a big deal :) Good Luck!
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hi, i'm have a small sleepover at a hotel with some friends, there is one girl whom i've known since the 5th grade (i went to the new school and the teacher put me next to her) we haven't even been CLOSE we just happen to hang out with the same people although NO ONE in my entire class likes her, i guess its just her attitude, and she is a tattle tell, she can also be immature (by the way we are eighth grade)my mom wants me to invite her because she "is a part of the group" like i said no one likes her, i know if i didn't invite her and she saw pictures we take she will feel bad, and i will feel bad
but at the same time i don't want to invite her and have her annoy everyone else (including me)
another thing, she has a medical problem (not terminal or anything serious) but i know her personality and i don't want her to go all crazy on me (knowing her she might confront me and get very man)
i hope its not too long, or complicated
but please help! should i invite her so i don't feel bad, but feel stupid for inviting her
or should i not invite her enjoy my party, but feel bad for not including her (or get guilt tripped by her)
thanks so much
-kelsy (link)
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Sounds like you aren't that close with her, everyone strongly dislikes her, and she will flip out on you no matter what you tell her. But her down softly, and explain to your mother your dilemma. Hope i helped!
~rae~
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I have friends with a girl for a year. The next school year i met a new girl who became my best friend. My new best friend and my old best friend hate each other,and are always fussing over me. I am scared they will both end up hatting me! What do i do? Please help me.
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Sounds like you are in a bit of a dilemma. Think about the route of the problem: what caused these girls to hate each other in the first place? honestly, i think you should talk to them seperately and try and figure out where the problem is. Whatever you do, dont choose a side because you will end up losing one of them :(
Another thing you could do is invite them both for pie without telling them and then they will both be there and will be forced to solve their problems... while eating pie! what could be better?
hope i helped and message me what happens.
~rae~
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