hey. i'm 13/f and i think he is 14 and obviously male. we like a lot of the same things and i really like him, although i only met him last week and we only spent 3 hours together, we seemed to have a lot in common. the thing is i don't know if he'd date me since we live in different towns and he's a year older. according to my friends he was flirting with me a lot, but i saw an equal amount between all three of us. how can i try to flirt with him a little more and make him like me a little more without seeming way desperate?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Arthane answered Thursday May 31 2007, 8:46 pm: One great subttle way to flirt is to just talk to people. It sounds like you have a really bad crush for this guy, and it seems that you two would be great for each other. The only advice that I can give you is: Don't rush things,and Is it worth it. If you rush a friendship right into a dating relationship, chances are that it wont work out. Also ask yourself if moving your friendship up to the next level is worth losing your friendship totally. Flirting is always fun because for one its suspensful, and two, there's no commitments made, so nobody gets hurt too badly. As I said a great flirting tool is your mouth. Find out what you two have in common, also if you run out of topics, you can always hit the subject that guys like to talk about the most, and that's themesleves, trust me, we can go on and on on that topic. Well, I hope this helps. Good Luck!:) [ Arthane's advice column | Ask Arthane A Question ]
toriiii answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 5:22 pm: well if he really likes you then he wont care about the distance or the age difference and try to make it work out. and as for the flirting thing just kinda giggle at the little things he says but dont make it look too obvious and start busting out laughing at something little. smile and him and maybe talk about hanging out he
should get the point [ toriiii's advice column | Ask toriiii A Question ]
AskJR answered Tuesday May 29 2007, 5:04 pm: Next time, if friends are around and you want his attention more, just sit closer to him and talk more one on one about the things you have in common.
As you do, give him the flirtacious looks but don't over do them. Stare into his eyes when talking to him, maybe when laughing, touch his shoulder or leg...
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