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This is going to sound stupid,
but I'm 16/f I've never had a boyfriend yet,
never been kissed.
Its pathetic right?
I'm one of those people who crave a relationship, to be loved and to love.
All the guys I meet seem to just be 'good friends' and a lot of them actually, have feelings for my best girl friends.
I usually can solve or potentionally solve all my problems with answers from myself or others.
But I dont know why I cant find a boyfriend,
I have a lot of guy friends, but none seem to be interested in that way.
I dont even know how to attract them anymore,
I'm just so confused. And I'm lonely.
I know I'm young, but can any of you relate, and if so, what happened so far?
I just feel like something is wrong with me.
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I feel your pain. When I was in high school, I worked, I volunteered, I was doing really well in school and I got my black belt in karate. Yet no guy would date me. I had tons of guy friends... but no boyfriends. I even made up a name for it... Platonic Friend Disorder.
Don't worry about it. Trust me on this; in university, all of a sudden I had guys mobbing me. The confidence and intelligence which scared off the guys in high school was like an aphrodisiac.
For now, I'd suggest that you just focus on relationships with your friends and family. There's plenty of time for dating when you're older.
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Wow, the same thing is happening to me, lol. I'm also 16 and I wonder all the time why I don't have a boyfriend while it seems like everyone else does, especially my friends. But I realize that not everyone that is in a relationship is happy. The majority of my friends have boyfriends, and I've noticed that they all gradually start to spend less time with their friends, worry constantly about troubles with their relationships, and are distracted by their relationships most of the time. You never know, one of your guy friends might think of you as more of a friend and you just may not know it. I know that sounds cliche, but it can be true, who knows? You're only 16; when you get out of high school, more guys will be more mature; you'll probably have a lot of guys interested in you... as for now, you don't need some guy to make you feel loved. Just concentrate on school, friends, and other stuff, maybe even join a club or work somewhere where you can get to know guys better. High school relationships only last for a little while, anyway; I bet when you're older you'll look back on highschool and be okay about not wasting any time on short relationships that didn't really amount to anything. Believe me, there are a lot of people out there who are in the same situation as you, including me. Just don't worry and you'll find what you're looking for. =)
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no nothing is wrong with you. boyfriends are great but sometimes it's just better to be single and have fun with friends; dont rush into love.
but you have to ask yourself is there any guy that seems interested in you or you find yourself interested in. you just need to take it slow from there because you dont want a heartbrake. maybe if your still feeling lonely ask one of you friends how they are attracting the guys
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