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Boyfriend Trouble
Last night a guy that I just started talking to a few days ago asked me out. I said yes because we reall clicked when we started talking. But now I'm having second thoughts. I barely know him, and I usually don't go out with people I barely know! I'm sure if we took the timt to get to know each other first before he asked me out then I wouldn't have a problem with dating him, but I don't know how to explain it.. it's just like I hardly know him and I'm his girlfriend! Should I break up with him or keep going out with him and get to know him along the way?
Please tell me what you honestly think.
Thank you!!
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Well i think that if you are feeling like that then break up with him,but tell him that you arent cause you dont like him tell him you like him but you want to know him better,you should so that so you can know if it is worth getting with him
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i think you should keep on going and see whats happens with the relationship, if it doesn't go well then ya u might want to start thinking of dumping him but if it goes good then keep going. i had the same thing happen to me. i broke up with her cause it was weird but now we are best friends and always talk to each other and are always there for each other. you need to think about it and see whats right for you
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As bad as this problem sounds, it's not that hard to fix. It's evident that you two really seem to like each other, but the question is how long will this realationship last. Ask yourself this question: Is me moving my fiendship with this person worth losing because I wanted to move it up to the next level.If I was in your shoes, I would simply tell him that you want to go out with him, just not yet. Deffinatly get to know the guy better before going out again. Some people like finding things out about each other as they go along through the relationship, Me personally, I like to know the person very well, or become very good friends with them before advancinng on in the huge scheme of the relationship. Hope this helps.:)
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take him somwhere that you can talk and that is romantic (like a dinner NOT the movies)sit him down and easily, but seriously, tell him everything you feel. he will understand and you will start to talk about each other. then take him home with you and have your own movie night. 'stay close and be close' remember that it could help next time you have issues with your bf
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