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Hey I'm Raean(Ray-An)and I'm 13,I plan to become a Coast Guard,I love to give advice,I will give you the best answer I can possibly give.Well that is me, if you want to know anything else just ask me!Hope to hear from some of you soon!
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Last night a guy that I just started talking to a few days ago asked me out. I said yes because we reall clicked when we started talking. But now I'm having second thoughts. I barely know him, and I usually don't go out with people I barely know! I'm sure if we took the timt to get to know each other first before he asked me out then I wouldn't have a problem with dating him, but I don't know how to explain it.. it's just like I hardly know him and I'm his girlfriend! Should I break up with him or keep going out with him and get to know him along the way?
Please tell me what you honestly think.
Thank you!! (link)
Well i think that if you are feeling like that then break up with him,but tell him that you arent cause you dont like him tell him you like him but you want to know him better,you should so that so you can know if it is worth getting with him


my friend is wanting to run away and commit suicide. she was abused with drugs and is planning to kill herself by them. i am suicideal she stopped me when i tried to kill myself now im stopping her but i cant other than tell her how much ill miss her and everything but if she dies ill die right after because i cant live without her. she stopped me by doing that once and another time from cutting grabbing the knife from me and stopping the bleeding i love her. i realize all id miss but i still am suicideal. i will not go to anyone for this only our friends know and one of our friends will be with her all the time. whoever is when she is trying to run will run away with her but not let her kill herself. she was abused by drugs and physically she went from family to family all when she was very young and were 13 now. i need to help her only by our friends. if i was her id be dead by now. are we right for doing this? how else do i help her? i will not get anyone else involved its what she wants but well stopp her if not ill be with her always. (link)
Well what i think is that if you really care about her and you dont want her to die,then you would tell her parents,its the only way she will stay alive,someday she will thank you,she will noticed that life will get better when all the bad things go


ohkay so theres this guy and he likes me. all my friends are telling me to give him a chance, and they are all friends with this guy so there on his side, they arent taking in to consideration that i like somoeone else. they really dont care. so i ended up giving this guy a chance and to find out he kind of annoys me. hes trying to be soemthing hes not. or trying to act liek the guy i like. i dont know but i dont like him. so what do i do. hes gained the confidence (from my friends) to ask me to places such as the movies and dances. idk i dont liek him what do i do???? (link)
Well what i think you should do is tell him that you like him but not to go places with you like him as a friend or maybe not even as a friend,tell him that you like another guy and you want to give him a chance,you could also tell him that he isnt the type of guy you are interested in


Do you think that people choose to be gay?

or does it just happen?

I think that it isn`t a choice, and you can`t control it. I just want to see other peoples opinions.

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Sometimes people end up just liking the same gender,well i don't but i am just saying what i think cause my grandfather get stupid when it comes to that,well i also think that some people chose to be gay maybe cause their parents are or where and kids grow up to be just like their parents and they end up choosing,but a lot of people just end up liking the same gender


There's a girl who lives down the street who I've known my whole life. She's okay to hang out with sometimes, but she's very clingy and possessive, so I don't like to spend too much time with her. Anyway, I just found out that she's joining my sports team and we will be giving her a ride home every day after practice. That means she's going to expect me to invite her over every day, or want to hang out all the time after practice. I don't mind doing that sometimes, but I have other friends, and a boyfriend, who I'm gonna want to spend time with. If I tell her I have other plans, she'll be mad at me for not inviting her. Plus I won't always have other plans, I just don't want to spend every day of the summer with her. How can I avoid having to hang out with her every day, without sounding mean or hurting her feelings? (link)
Tell her that you are sorry that you cant hang with her and your friends will be mad if you dont hang with them soon so u have to go talk to them and just hang


15/f
ok so this guy i used to date for a while is just now starting to talk to me again. and i just now started getting over him, cause he took my virginity and everything so it was hard to move on.
since he started talking to me im scared im gonna end up falling for his bullshit again.
and the other guy i like is in rehab and me and him are supposed to get together when he gets back but thats in 3 weeks. and i havent really talked to him since he left.
im just scared ill end up falling for my ex again, and i dont want to cause he went out with me for sex, treated me like shit and cheated on me like 10 times.

how do i avoid this?
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Just dont talk to him back,make excuses to leave when he comes to talk to him,try to spot him before he comes,pretend to not see him and just leave(walking fast) pretending to look at your watch,just do whatever you can to leave that shithead


I just got off of school. Are there any songs that talk about summer and summer vacation?
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Uh there is
fun In The Sun


when you say "thank god" is that considered taking the lords name in vain? (link)
Any sentence with god's name is considered to be taking his name in vain


I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. I feel like when he hugs me now, it's like he doesn't want to or something. Like he's the one who goes in for the hug, but when he hugs me it's quick and like, I feel like it's not all there..if anyone knows what I mean? I used to feel like he wanted to hug me, like the hug felt right. I'm not sure how to state it exactly, but when a hug doesn't feel right anymore..does that mean something? (link)
Maybe he is starting to like you,and is getting kinda shy around you,and feels like you only like him as a friend,so he feels awkward




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