I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. I feel like when he hugs me now, it's like he doesn't want to or something. Like he's the one who goes in for the hug, but when he hugs me it's quick and like, I feel like it's not all there..if anyone knows what I mean? I used to feel like he wanted to hug me, like the hug felt right. I'm not sure how to state it exactly, but when a hug doesn't feel right anymore..does that mean something?
iwantthetruth answered Saturday June 2 2007, 2:34 am: yea i know what you mean. the same thing started happening to me a while back because my best freind thought i liked him so it was awkward for a while. only for a few days though then he got over it. that might be it. but maybe theres something else going on in his life right now. if hes ur best friend then you should ask him if hes okay or if somethings up. i know you probly care about him a lot and this is bothering you. tell him how you feel about this.
CheerCandi answered Saturday June 2 2007, 12:00 am: well its possible that its all in you head but if your sure then maybe you 2 should take a break. still be friends but maybe hes over whelmed with own issues. its good your being supportive but just back off a little more. or he just starting to think your boring and uninteresting. let him know that your a fun loving person. do something together thats super fun. and tell him whats going on because after all you could just be paranoid. say that you feel strongly about whats going on and thats its worrying and hurting you. for additional help >> [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) << [ CheerCandi's advice column | Ask CheerCandi A Question ]
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