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Okay so today my bf fingered me for the 1st time and i wanna give him a handjob or blowjob but im really shy about that stuff. like i dont know how to start it, i mean i dont just wanna be like 'hey pull down your pants' lol but yea im not sure how to let him know i want to and get it started. Please help
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If you two are making out then like feel him up and he'll know what your getting at- or you can kiss him real passionatly then pull away like a tease& start to undo his pants.
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Start rubbing him while you both are kissing. Slowly start to un-zip is pants and just go for it. If he don't want you to, he'll stop you, if not have fun lol. Just remember to be safe, and if things go to far, please use protection! -Adorkable
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You should just be honest with him here. Tell him you really enjoyed what you did the other day and want to make sure you returned the favor.
Then, have him guide you and show you what he wants and likes. Let him know that this is new terrority for you and that you were shy and it took a lot of confidence even to ask him.
He'll understand and in the end will appreciate everything. Guys/girls know that there is always a first time for everyone at everything thing. As long as you communicate before, after, during you'll be fine.
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you have a couple options.. you can talk about it before hand (he iwll be thrilled and will be dying to see you) so then he'll know before hand (mention it at a good time tho haha) or you can rub outside his pants like everyone else said and see what goes on orrr while you are making out, kinda mess around there and unzip his pants and just go for it. <3
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I would joke around and say smoething like hey i wanna give you a bj or sumthing weird. But them b like jp or watever and say welll that would be a good idea lol. Start kissing him and do exactly like that girl said below....start rubbing the outside of his pants n stuff....i bet hes been wanting that so whats the worst he will do....push you away? no he wouldnt so try it.
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tease him a little. when yall are kissing and such start rubing his penis [[one the outside of his pants]] then start messing with his pants like your going to take em off; or his penis out. give him the cute lil flirt smile and start to go down on him. you'll drive him crazy trust me =]
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You dont have to tell him what you want to do..you can hint at it. While you guys are making out you can maybe move your hand down there..maybe pull away and smile or lick your lips (haha) as you undo his belt. He will deffffinately get the picture! :)
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