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Should I go out with him?
15/F
I've liked this guy for a couple of months and a few weeks ago I found out that he likes me back. A group of my friends and one of my closest friends friends (Sorry if that's confusing) met up at the mall yesterday, and I found out from my friend that he's bisexual. And I still like him. I just don't know if I would want to go out with him anymore. I don't have anything against people who are bisexual, it's just that I've never dated a guy like that before and I don't If I would want to. Am I being unfair? I'm so confused. What should I do?
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I can tell you what to think.....but how about if he broke up with you to go for a guy? now how would you feel...i dont think its right. but thats just what i think....if you like him then go for it. It all depends on if you care what people think of you, some might think its gross some might not even care. Oh and it would really be wierd if your w/ him and hes flirting w/ boys...i just think you will feel uncomfortable
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it shouldn't affect your answer because he likes you too, so what's the worst that could happen ?
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You are definitely being unfair. If you don't have anything against bi-sexual people, why are you letting your opinion about him change? He likes you, and you like him, so why does sexuality matter? I'm bi-sexual, it doesn't stop people from dating me, and if it did then they're dumb.
If you like this kid, then go out with him. Sexuality is nothing. It's how he treats you & makes you feel. It's also personality and attraction. Don't let his sexual preferences change your mind.
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knowing that he is bi shouldn't affect your opinion of him. being bi just means that he likes guys and girls. and he just happens to like you, a girl. you said yourself that you still like him, so then i think you should still go out with him.
you shouldn't think of him any different then a straight guy. what are you afraid of? the fact that he is bi doesn't mean he is more likely to cheat on you, be mean to you, or treat you any different.
sorry is that wasn't what you are looking for, i'm just being honest :]
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