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My name is Jennifer, I'm 13, this is my problem
One of my friends introduced me to a guy that goes to the school I might have to switch to next year. My best friend(who goes to that school) got us together after we had hit it off really well the first few times we saw each other. Before we broke up, we talkedto each other everyday. We talked about everything, too. When we broke up we still talked to each other everyday, but about a moth after that he got a new girl friend. I stopped calling him and didn't talk to him for about 1 month. When I was going out with him my best friend who htes him, tried to get me to break up with him saying "He's not a virgin, all he wants from you is sex, and I didn't really think he would actually ask you out." And now she swears it saying I would be a whore or something to get backwith him. Then just about a week ago he calledme, saying "I'm sorry for hurting you, I never really wanted to but it was a long distance relationship and I thought I actually liked her but all she wanted was sex, and I'm not giving that to her." And I believed him. When I told my friend she said he was just faking it and that he probably wanted the sex and she wouldn't give it to HIM. I've always believed my ex, and my friend, but i don't know who to belive now. And just the other day, his brother who is my freind, one of the best ones I know, was teasing me and him because we are virgins. Who do you think I should believe and should I ask him about it? and shout I not get involved with him, even though my friend would probably kill me, but sh'e sgoing out with someone I dislike and wish she wasn't going out with. And my other friends and I have talked about it and I agreed I wouldn't get back with him until I've talked it over with her, and him both, together. PLEASE HELP ME. Thank you for your help
Jenn
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GIRL i say it is your life your friend is just gelous of you and him. i think you should go back with him if you want, u can not let everybody make descions about YOUR LOVE LIFE i don't even know him but he sounds nice to me and your friends sounds like a stupid bitch that wants what you got sorry but i have to keep it real with you. so GO BACK WITH HIM BE HAPPY AND I HOPE YOU TO LAST FOR EVER love yo gurl kandy
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Well Jenn you have a big choice to make. First you need to ask yourself if your ready to have sex with him when he is ready. Personally i think that the whole thing with him not wanting to have sex with the girl is BS but maybe im wrong. If you really care about him then you will forget what your friend is saying and do what you want to do. Then again she is probably just trying to help you out so you should'nt get mad at her if she is mad at you for dating him again. You need to tell her that she is entitled to her opinion but end the end you get the final say in what happens in YOUR LIFE. Its good that you and him can still talk to each other even when your broken up. That shows that your not just some girl he dated but your his friend. Maybe you should try it and see what happens. If you feel like he is pressuring you then you need to tell him enough. And if your friend is really your friend then she will be there for you with open arms.
Good luck
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Your friend is calling you a whore behind your back saying that you'd do ANYTHING to get back with him. Why would you believe someone who runs their mouth about you? It doesn't make sense. I would believe him. If you always could, and he hasn't done anything to break your trust in him, then you should take his word for it.
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You should talk to him about it befor taking sides. I mean i dont know either of them so its hard for me to tell you who to believe, but i mean it kindof depends how trustworthy they both are. And you should defenently get back with him after you solve that :] you sound like you really like him. I was in this part of the situation befor. Your friend shouldnt get mad for who you date, they need to get out of all your business. They dont pick who you like/love and they defenently dont make your decisions for you. i hope i helped :]
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