Hey guys! Im Alicia Rivera. I live in Westchester NY and i go to octavian country day school. i have ALWAYS been the one my friends( a group called the Pretty Comitte) go to girl for help and my advice is never wrong, I can help with anything you need and i am a total secret keeper and would never talk about your problems to anyone! i could be anything you are fustrated with, need help with, or just need to spilll and i am there!!!!i cant wait to help and give you great tips.
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If a friend you like and you told them you like them but they dont like you back and you both stay good friends.
And in the futuer they get with someone and then talks about they're sex life to you and you get mad. How can i avoid them when they want to talk about it?! i get mad and i dont want to know about their sex life!!!!!!!! (link)
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First off, noone should be sharing their sex life with you. Tell him to stop befor he goes to far.
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I play the drums and me n my friends have made a small band.So one of my friend was givena oppurtunity to be in the band but he said no. But now he wants to take my place of drumming cos he sed he lyks it so much n wants me to stop drumming cos he wants to drum.I dont no what to do?Can som1 help? (link)
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NEVER give up something you love just because a friend or a school mate wants you to. He needs to realize that he had his chance and to cut the crap and move on. Mabye you could help him join or start another band, but dont let him take drumming away from you.
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Okay, I know I'm going to sound lame but oh well hehe [: .. Okay, pretty much all of my friends are MAJOR flirts. An I want to be like that too, not like copying how they flirt or anything cause they just act like whores and thats not me. But I want to be able to flirt in like a funn way, anyone want to give me any tips? Like stuff to say an stuff like that, it'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks :D (link)
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OMG! i am so glad someone had this question! i had the SAME problem. all my friends were total flirts and bffs with so many popular boyz, i wanted to be like that! so i tried and tried, but it didnt work, but what i am about to tell you did. i started with the boyz in my classes. this is gonna sound totally stupid, but, it works, if one asks for a kpencil, dont be eager, but be the one to give it to them. if they make a jok, laugh, even if its not funny, but dont go over board with it, just a little giggle will be ok, after that, everything just starts happening on its own, they ask you questions, like math or something and even though it is related to school, its a start, pretty soon, they will start to talk bout other stuff. there is this boy in my school, and he is the most hilarious perosn in the world, and his way of flirting is making fun of you, like, he calls my friend ana anal, and junk like that, but it is his way of flirting, and theres another one , who is really popular, and he is just a total ladies man, which is his way, and slowly, the more you talk, you become friends and it will soon turn into just a normal thing. all boyz have different ways of flirting, but it is really important not to be nervous about it.
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Ok, well, this year I'm doing softball for my school. & This is my 2nd year playing softball on a team. Well, plain and simple: I suck. And, just about everybody on the team notices. I feel like quitting, because I can hear all the comments everybody makes. I really want to do a sport, it just feels like I don't belong or something, because everybody else has done this sport for more then 3 years. This is fastpitch-and I'm not used to that AT ALL!!!!! There's 2 snobby seniors on the team, if that helps [I'm a freshman]....& Sure, I do have some friends...just about 3ish maybe? It sucks.
To sum it all up, I feel like quitting because I'm not really good...& I'm being made fun of.
So my questions are:
1) How do I get better?
2) Should I quit?
...Any other advice is welcomed.
Please, Please, PLEASE, help...
Signed,
The girl who sucks at softball.. (link)
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HI! i undrstand exactly how you feel. I used to have a really hard time with well, people, i was made fun of and stuff like that, so i joined a sport, and i hated it. i wasnt any good, and i dint have any fun, so here is my advice. if you do not love the sport, dont bother. it is about getting better and having funn and if you arent having fun than you wont get better. so what you should do is join something that you do like, than , you will meet people that like the same things you like and are good at the same things your good at and you will have a much better time. i hope everything works out for you!
xoxoxo Alicia
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I'm 13 and I am pretty develpoed in the hips and brests.I haven't gotten my period yet and I just got a lot of brown guck in my under wear...its not poop...don't smell like it and its not in the right place on my underwear to be poop but it looks like liquid poop(in colour) could this be my period ? I wanna be sure before I tell my mom. (link)
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HI! i am thirteen, and i got my period, believe it or not when i was only 12, and yup, that is your period, but it is early signs of it. you havent fully gotten it yet, but it is comming, proly in the next month or two. so dont sweat it eathier, it isnt that bad, and good luck!
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okae. so this might get long + sorry if it is. but here we go. on Fri. my school had a dance.and the guy i like , joey was there. me and him went out back in oct. he broke up with me. well i got really depressed at our dance. and when lips of an angel (our song) came on i started crying. and i then said i was gonna throw up my food. but i didnt. but today being a stupid idiot i am told my best friend i did. when i would never be bolemic (sp?) - aka throw up my food. how should i tell her i was lieing. or should i just pretend to overcome my "eating disorderr?" (link)
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Hey! i totally know how you feel. it is really hard to decide wheather to finish up a lie or just tell the truth, and i know how you feel when people tell you "well she is not your friend if she doesnt understand". but wheather you want to believe it or not. now, you did tell a lie to her and that want a good idea, and especially not about food problems, because she could get very worried about you and she might even tell some one. so the truth is, you need to come clean and tell the truth. tell her that you are so sorry and that you were very depressed and upset, but you also need to understand that what you told her might have scared her and might take her a while to get over, but eventually, she will understand and everything will be ok. the faster you get telling her over with, the easier it will be to get through the day and dont worry, you have learned your lesson and if she is a good friend, she will understand.
hope everything turns out ok!
xoxoxo Alicia
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