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Friend that wants to do the same instrument as me
I play the drums and me n my friends have made a small band.So one of my friend was givena oppurtunity to be in the band but he said no. But now he wants to take my place of drumming cos he sed he lyks it so much n wants me to stop drumming cos he wants to drum.I dont no what to do?Can som1 help?
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That's silly.
He is being selfish.
There is no reason for you to give up your drumming position so he can have it, especially since he was the one who initially turned it down.
Do not give it up.
If he wants to drum, he can go do do it on his own in his basement or whatever or go find another band. I'm sure he can find something.
Never feel pressured by a friend to do something like that.
Only give it up if you want to give it up, truly want to, not because your friend wants you to.
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NEVER give up something you love just because a friend or a school mate wants you to. He needs to realize that he had his chance and to cut the crap and move on. Mabye you could help him join or start another band, but dont let him take drumming away from you.
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Tell him no, you were drumming before him & there is no problem with you both drumming. Tell him that you love it too & it would be like asking him never to start drumming. He will understand. & i play the drums :) its awesome.
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