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I am REALLY stupid.
okae. so this might get long + sorry if it is. but here we go. on Fri. my school had a dance.and the guy i like , joey was there. me and him went out back in oct. he broke up with me. well i got really depressed at our dance. and when lips of an angel (our song) came on i started crying. and i then said i was gonna throw up my food. but i didnt. but today being a stupid idiot i am told my best friend i did. when i would never be bolemic (sp?) - aka throw up my food. how should i tell her i was lieing. or should i just pretend to overcome my "eating disorderr?"
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Well, friendship is built on honesty. When your friend talks about the problem again, just say, oh jeez i was just playing! Oh mi gosh! you take everything so seriously. I swear I was joking!
You can also tell her that since you cried like crazy you threw up. You went to the doctor and he/she said it was because of crying.
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Hey! i totally know how you feel. it is really hard to decide wheather to finish up a lie or just tell the truth, and i know how you feel when people tell you "well she is not your friend if she doesnt understand". but wheather you want to believe it or not. now, you did tell a lie to her and that want a good idea, and especially not about food problems, because she could get very worried about you and she might even tell some one. so the truth is, you need to come clean and tell the truth. tell her that you are so sorry and that you were very depressed and upset, but you also need to understand that what you told her might have scared her and might take her a while to get over, but eventually, she will understand and everything will be ok. the faster you get telling her over with, the easier it will be to get through the day and dont worry, you have learned your lesson and if she is a good friend, she will understand.
hope everything turns out ok!
xoxoxo Alicia
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You have to options:
Tell her the truth. THat you were really upset and you weren't really thinking. Tell her you hope she will forgive you anf forget abuot it. It has been hard for you.
Or tell her that you think you cried to much you threw up. It has happened to me before.. I cried so much and so hard I threw up. Make sure its clear you are not beliemic.
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Tell your friend exactly what happened. You were just really upset that night. Admit that you just said to sound more dramatic and that you're NOT bulimic. If she's a good friend she'll understand.
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