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Relationship issues.
My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of relationship problems lately. All of his family doesn`t want him to be with me. Two days after Christmas he broke up with me, then he felt bad for breaking up with me, so then he got back with me. =]
We decided to start to take things slow, because we were so dependent on each other. Last night I got upset because he didn`t answer his phone and I was worried. I started crying and he broke up with me again, claiming that I made him feel guilty all the time.
So today, we saw each other. He felt bad so we made a pact. We`re dating, but we only see each other on weekends and only talk on the phone two times a day for ten minutes each.
Mutually, we both think that this will be good for our relationship because we`ll be able to spend more time alone. But, do you think it`ll really help? Thank you!
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why are guyz scheduling ur relationship? u seem dependent so instead of picking up everytime he calls, let the machine pick up. go out w/ friends more. soon, he'll want 2 spend time w/ you& wont think you are way 2 attached.
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It could help, but becasue you are so dependent on eachother, you might worry about what hes doing & if he doesnt answer his phone it could simply be becasue hes eating or something but you might think hes ignoring you. (I know because ive done that before..)
Just try not to worry about it, if it was ment to be, everything will work out!!
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Honestly I think it will not help at all. The way I see it is that you two will slowly start to drift apart and have even more problems. Try being friends, it may be easier on both of you.
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the same thing happened to my ex boyfriend and I, but I was the one who broke up with him then got back together with him because I felt bad..and to be honest..I think alone time will just make things harder because your relationship is already having troubles so communication is really important right now.If both of you care about each other ALOT and want to be with each other no matter what the circumstances, then go for it! But since you got back together because of his guilt(which by the way,doesnt mean he likes you any less) and youre having doubts..you two should talk about it some more and try it out for a while and see how things go. I'm sure everything will be fine!
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no i don't think it'll help i think your boyfriend don't kno what he want if he keep breakin up wit you and getting back wit you.
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ohkay well you guys must really care about eachother you and him are going to have your up and downs but you can work them out as it looks like and you might not see eachother alot but its wroth the try. adn time alone is great so i think thatb you and him might work out most likely so never get your hopes down,always have your head up.and i hope i helped.
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