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Age: 13
AIM: stfu x Darlingg
Member Since: January 4, 2007
Answers: 22
Last Update: January 9, 2007
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HI Advicenators :)
Okay so i have to get my wisdom teeth out IN EXACTLY A MONTH my mom just told me today.(she just booked it) I am pretty much terrified right now! I dont know what to get..the "shot" or the "gas" id rly prefer the gas b.c i hate getting shots in my arm..eww it grosses me out! But can any of you tell me which is better (expirenced answers are probaley the best) I really need to know, and can you tell me how long it will hurt after, and will it hurt while in the process. Im so scared i think ill cry..Thankyou. (link)
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Okay I have never had that done either,but my mom I asked her when she got her out like a month or so ago. and she said they put this nume[srry i cnt spell the greatest] cream on your gums and then they give you the shot to nume it fully. and then so my mom she hates pain and stuff and she tells me if it hurts and she said sometimes she would feel something but it wouldn't hurt but she could hear them ripping out the tooth. and that would freak me out,lol. so the best thing i would do is like if you have an ipod bring tht and listen it to so you can like not worry so much about the teeth yakno? i hope im helpping at all..
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Hello-sorry this may be long--will rate though
Well to start off I'm 15/f and sadly never had a boyfriend (that was real and truly "love") or a real relationship. And recently at school (I'm a freshmen so I'm meeting all these new people) but it almost seems like when I met a new guy I get a lil crush but then within a week or so I'm over it. Well, err I want to say Wednesday of last week my friend came over and we called some boys. (We called two boys one being my friend and the toher being her friend who's also friends with mine) So anyways all of us talked for awhile. And I was like hm my friends friend (the guy who well call Bob) seemed pretty cool. SO we went to the movies together him, my friend, and 2 other people, and me. I sat next to him we kinda talked thoughout the movie..he bought me a drink..and that night i was like slap happy. I had a really good night with him and the rest of my friends. So the next day which would now be Saturday my friend came over again and we called them and we talked. Then later that day he called me back on MY phone (usually he calls my friends phone) and him and I talked for ohh about and hour or so which i reallly liked. And then later that day I met him, "bob", at a school (which i had my father drive me too and pick me up from lol) and him and 2 of his friends and i hung out. And then from then on we've just talked like once on facebook. But see I don't know wether I like him for real or weather its just me being stupid wanting a boyfriend so ticking myself into liking him. And I want to call him but I read in CG! you should wait for him to call you...and ahh! I don't know what to do. Him, my friend, and another boy are hopeuflly hanging out this weekend. But idk what to do or how to tell if I like him for real or if i'm being stupid and faking myself into liking him cause hes just reall sweet. So if you could please just give me a little advise or something??
Thanks for reading and caring about my stupid boy problems =P (link)
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Okay well first thing I would do is tell him you like him,it seems like he might like, but anyways. tell him how you feel and what has been going on and stuff,like tell him you haven't had true "love" or w/e yet and stuff. and tht you havent had a real bf. he will prombly understand but before you do this kinda give him a hint you like him likw flirt with him a lil more then ussally.Be like "Hey bob i need to tell you something,I think I kinda like you,and I had never had a boyfriend before I know that you might think its werid and stuff,but i was hoping you might understand,and not jugde me by that fact,and I have been likeing guys for a week and then not anymore,and I think that you I do like... and then see what he says.
hope this helps sweetie =]
&& I hope everything works out...
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A few weeks ago I was whining in class about how i was cold, and this kid said "want to wear mine?" I was like "really" and he was like "sure just give it back before the end of the period" ; I couldn't stop smiling; and by the end of the class, I developed a crush on him. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever.
I guess he was just trying to be nice, because he likes one of my friends. But my friends doesn't like him. He flirts with my SOMETIMES, but flirts with my friend most of the time.
again, but friend does not like him at all. I haven't liked him for that long, so I'm not so deeply in love with him that I can't live without him, yet. Should I try and catch myself before I fall inlove and get hurt? What should I do? (link)
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Okay If I where you I would try and talk to him and say Hey I know you prombly don't like me but I think I might like you. Say it like that and knda like walk away slowly,don't make it seem like a big deal yakno? and if he talks to you about tht then be like i don't want to get hurt i dont wanna fall in love and get hurt and if he likes you back he will say i will never hurt you and kinda smile,i hope this help.
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Ok so I'm gonna keep this short and simple.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and everytime I see her I fall more and more in love with her. She don't like me back. I'm a very emotional person so it hurts that I can't be with her like that. I have stopped talking to her to get over her. But she and I dont wanna lose our friendship. How do I get over her and be her friend? (link)
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Okay I had this happen before.Lets make his name David. Okay well anyways I liked David alot and he was my best friend and everytime I hanged out with him I would fall in love with him even more and im and a emotional person too. So I thought he didn't like me back. Untill I told him I liked him and me and him still where friends untill he asked me out. Okay,Well I don't like you can fall out of love this easy. With you seeing her all the time its gonna kill you inside so if I where you I would talk to her about She will listen and understand. And maybe once you tell her and its off your chest maybe she will start having feelings for you, you never no but i hope everything works out.
hope i helped some
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how do you not show any friends on myspace? whats the code? or where can i get it from..not whateverlife. it still shows a little of it. (link)
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Go to www.hot-lyts.com and go to myspace codes and then it should be there.
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16/f. im really shy unless i know you REALLY well. i just moved to a new school as well. i hate this because a ton of guys think im pretty then they talk to me and realize i barely talk much and im pretty shy so they dont ask me out. how can i learn to be more outgoing and more social? (link)
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oh kay this is realy easy all you do is talk to them and hang out with them and snice there guys they will kinda have you break out of your shell don't worry about being shy just kinda forget about it i was like that in 6th grade and now im in 8th and i like talk to everyone cuz i forgot that i was shy just dont try and be so shy. It will work out and maybe you will get a boyfriend next week that would be good for you snice this is a new school..lol.
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ok so like my friend is turning 15 like next week. and like she hasnt develpoed anything yet. and she never got her period yet. shes like flat. is this normal? (link)
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Oh thats normal. You can start from ages 10 till 18 she prombly start soon. don't worry its nothing to freak out about.
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okay im crying right now because i called my friend earlier today an no one picked up, so i called 3 hours later an she picks up(i was suppose to be going to her house) she picks an says,"why d you keep calling?!!??! can you please stop!!!! like please!!!! your distracting me" i say okay an then she hangs up
well she is a really great friend but gets mad easily
im really sad because i htink she hates me now
for sure
what do i do? (link)
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Aw don't cry.
Just give her some time. like don't talk to her for awhile unless she talks to you and when she talks to you ask her what her promblem was on the fone and sound very very nice and caring.if you dont want this friend to get mad. i hope this helps.
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ive been talking to this one guy for about a month now and he asked me out the other day.. the only problem is is that hes shy! i dont know what to say or do to make this work because i really like the boy but it just gets so annoying! any ideas? (link)
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If i where you I would give him like time to opean up to you. like tell him his like shy and you where wondering if he could try and break out of his shell. make it sound nice and like you care about him.hope this helps.
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Hi, I'm having troubles with my BFF. Every time I make plans with my other friends, and then she calls and asks me if I can play. Then I say I already made Plans with (Friend). She gets all mad. Sometimes I have to lie to her! What should I do!
P.S Write as soon as possible because I already made plans with one of my friends, and she might call me later!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:) :) (link)
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I had this happen before and i told her that she would have to get over it cuz i was going no matter what and tht i would hang out with her another weekend.And so yeah just if she gets tht bad just tell her that you need to spend time with the family it works..lol hope i helped.
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well i like this boy in my class and he said he liked me so i told him that i like him too and then i was sick for a week and the day i go back to school all my friends run up to me and tell me that he told "B" he liked her so i asked him wat was up and he said he likes us BOTH so out of jealousy i've been rude to her and yesterday he asked if i still liked him (even though he still likes "B")and i blurted out NO!! PLEASE HELP AND THANX
love,
massie girl♥ (link)
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okay if i where you i would fight for your ma [lol] like just be like i didnt mean no i ment yes and if you can talk to him at all just be like im sorry i didnt mean tht and like ask him about dating and kinda hint to him you would like to date him so he could have you instead of "B" cuz you like him and you want him so just kinda flirt with him alot and stuff like that i hoe i helped.
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okay. i met this guy online named Keith, Keith and i started talking because i had just gotten out of a relationship and had my heart broken and i was looking for an easy rebound. But anyways things didn't really work out with me and keith because i didn't feel a connection, however with his friend nick, i did. Ive never actually met them but my friends have and they said that theyre both really nice guys. keith and nick only live an hour away from me and ive never seen them before....me and nick actually started liking eachother ALOT through the summer and we'd talk everynight till AT LEAST four in the morning, we'd call eachother babe and sweetie and all the gushey stuff but then once school started we didn't talk as much because we were busy, then we both started liking different people. well, long story short, nick got his girlfriend pregante only a month after we'd been talking, ((and you have to understand that we had such a strong connection and we were eachothers best friends)) he didn't wanna tell me because he was worried i would stop talking to him, but i was the one to ask him about it because keith had told me. so anyways i continued to support him and talk to him (( i had a boyfriend too)) but i still loved nick. and i could tell that he really loved me too. weve tried meeting so many times and everytime something always goes wrong. now hes a dad and being really resoponsible....and hes still with his gf only because he got her pregnate. its been 2 years since we first started talking and ive thought about him at least once everyday since then.
I am in a serious relationship now where i really love my boyfriend or so i think. but lately all ive been thinking about is nick. i havent talked to him since a couple months ago and thats just thru text, we havent talked on the phone since summer. and that hurts. Ill text him occasionaly and sometimes he doesnt respond but other times he does and says "im so sorry, ive just been busy but i really want to talk to you"...i feel like im not being fair to my current boyfriend by still feeling a love ive felt for 2 years so strong that i think about nick and my boyfriend equally throughout the day, sometime i think about nick a little more....nick wansnt only the guy i love he was also my best friend and i really miss talking to him...what should i do? (link)
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omgsh I have been here before. Well what happen is I fell for John [online dude tht i was going to meet but i found out he was moving to cali that day so i never meet him]and I was dating this guy named Joey[ex bf noww]and me and John started talking way more and then this was after like 6mnths afer he moved and he said he was going to move to p.r so that night i was cring my eyes out and then John said Katie[my name..lol] I love you and I would do anything to be with you right now and I will never forget. and so I told him I love him too. and I new that was so wrong snice I had a bf. and So later on that night I got my feelings together and I really liked John and at the time I liked John MORE then my bf. and so i was like uh oh and so I told my bf BIG MISTAKE! and so then my bf went off on me for this and crap and I mean me and John were like brother and sister close and I love him till death!! and then like after 5mnths after i told Joey about John he dumped me [not for the John reason] and so then like a couple months after this dude named Shawn asked me out and he lived by John and I meet him though John riight. So neways I didn't like John while I was dating Shawn so me and Shawn lasted a month and a half. So the day Shawn dumped me and I talked to John about this. and I had relized my feelings for him as came back.adn im like omgshh. well neways a couple days after I told John I liked him like alot. well long story short he asked me out and now im datin him.
but if i where you i would tell your boyfriend tht like you also kinda like someone eles but you still wanna keep your bf just that it feels werid cuz you kinda have other feels and tell him tht you would like to work things out and if he is caring and loves you he will understand and try and work things out i hope my story helped..lol
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what is a best friend? is it a person who stabs you in the back? secretly talks about you? or even hookup with your crush behind your back? hm i dont think so. I thought i had a best friend....what do i do? (link)
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omgsh!did someone do this to you! omgsh that is so freaking low!!!you def. need to drop her as a friend! i mean no one needs that. if she new you liked him tht no reason to go do that to you yakno? and just tell her off!
I have kinda been her before and I got tried of it and droped her as a friend.and yeah so just stab her back some how some way pain back is a bitochh!!..lol hoped tht helped.
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What do you do when you think your whole life is ruined? For example, you don't put your heart into something you thought you put your whole heart into. You say you love someone and they tell you that you are lying? I just really need help (link)
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ohkay i am confused but let me take a wild guess...
you had a bf or something and you thought that you wouldnt put your whole heart into him. and then you found out you did and then he dumped you adn he said he never really ment saying i love you.and know your just kinda really feel like dying. well guys are jerks like that at times. I know how you feel if that is what you ment.don't let him get the better of you adn just think postitive and have your head up. and don't really think about it.but if you are like me and you cry more then other people then just cry and cry. cring never hurts it just makes you feel better [well for me] don't worry about him and you never no he might go back to you. I hope I helped.
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My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of relationship problems lately. All of his family doesn`t want him to be with me. Two days after Christmas he broke up with me, then he felt bad for breaking up with me, so then he got back with me. =]
We decided to start to take things slow, because we were so dependent on each other. Last night I got upset because he didn`t answer his phone and I was worried. I started crying and he broke up with me again, claiming that I made him feel guilty all the time.
So today, we saw each other. He felt bad so we made a pact. We`re dating, but we only see each other on weekends and only talk on the phone two times a day for ten minutes each.
Mutually, we both think that this will be good for our relationship because we`ll be able to spend more time alone. But, do you think it`ll really help? Thank you!
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ohkay well you guys must really care about eachother you and him are going to have your up and downs but you can work them out as it looks like and you might not see eachother alot but its wroth the try. adn time alone is great so i think thatb you and him might work out most likely so never get your hopes down,always have your head up.and i hope i helped.
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Say theres this one girl that you like alot [this is a friendship question by the way.. im not gay.. or something] but sometimes she can be really slutty & kinda annoying.. & none of your other friends really like her too much.
but your other friends love you & you like them alot too. you have alot of fun with your group of friends & do alot more with them & are just more like you.
But, the other girl.. doesn't have very many friends, & you feel bad ditching her.. just to stay w/ the other friends.
what would you do? (link)
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tell them the truth that you feel bad for her and you dont want to ditch her becuase you aren't like that.or something like that but if you really think this girl as a friend tell her tht she should stop being all sluty and maybe she would get some friends and stuff like that but dont sound like a meany. try and sound nice and likke you care and she will most likely care.
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There's this guy and lets call him "Sean". Well sean and i have known eachother for 9 years now and he lives in a different state then me but we've always been close and we've always had feelings for eachother. I mean he's like everything i could possibly want in a guy and none of the guys i've gone out with can compare to him at all. [Sean is 16] He does currently have a girlfriend but he didnt want to tell me about her and i wasnt sure why but i didnt want to tell him about my current boyfriend at the time. It's weird. But im going away the 11th to spend the long weekend with him and his family because we are close. But im nervous because i want him to come out and tell me that he likes me but he wants me to do the same but ive been hurt so many times by guys that i hold back and dont open up easily anymore, because im so afraid of getting hurt again. But then again he lives far away so its like should i just move on? or could we work something out?
any advice is appreciated :] oxxx thanxxx (link)
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Omgsh i have been here before okay well i never like meet this guy becasue when i was going to meet him i found out he was moving to cali tht week and im like uh i cnt meet him. but me and him have always had feelings for eachother like on and off for like ever. and his name is John and me and him have the same bday so his a year older then me. and so on christmas eve his gf dumped him and like 5mins before tht my friend told him i really like him and so then after him being single for 10mins he asked me out and im like ohmygosh i would love to. So now we are dating.
I know that was random.
but here is what i would is say hey sean i want to no why you arent telling me about your gf i feel like you dont trust me and it just kinda makes me feel bad snice we are like really close and i want to know why. just like try to sound like you really care abut him and stuff. kay dont sound like your tring to get up in his face [lol]if you know what i mean just tring and see you really care [witch you prombly do.] okay. i hope i helped...
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i'm always scared to IM this kid, I mean I kinda like him, but I also just wanna be friends w/ him & i feel tottalyyy weird, just being like hey! like.. i dno. should i just IM him? or will he think im tottaly weird or something??! (link)
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omgsh i have been here before and what i did is i IMed him. Just like say you got his sn from someone and then within tht sen. ask him something about skewl and then once he answers just be like oh kay thnks.so whats up? just say something like that and he will not think your werid or something. trust me he will talk to you more it works.i hope i help...
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Ok, there's a guy I like and the story's kinda complicated. Ok *deep breath* he was my VERY best friend in 2nd and 3rd grade and after that we were still friends but we drifted apart but in 4th grade my friend told me that he liked me and I realized that I liked him and then in 6th grade another friend told him that I liked him and after that he wouldn't even say hi to me in the hallway (if we saw each other) anymore. I'm in 8th grade and I gotta do something before we get to highschool and probably never see each other again! The only problem is that we never see each other and are on completely different sides of the school! HELP!!! :( :'( Please write back. I NEED to know what to Do!
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Okay If I where you I would just find him and tell him that you like him and you would love to talk more make it sound good like dont be there going uh i uh kinda uh like uh you like uh uh alot..etc. don't do that or its gonna go bad..lol and like just kinda be yourself and relaxe. if you know what i mean by that just kinda be yourself. and just tell him your feelings,people might not no this but guys do listen to words girls say. and from what you say i think he likes you snice he was kinda shy guys do tht when they like a girl so dont worry bout him "hating" you or whatever and when you talk to him,talk to him as if he was your best friend again. yakno? i hope i helped
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Ok, so a while back,i asked if my bf was cheating. I found out he isn't, but my friend really likes him. She is my friend, and she knows i LOVE him to DEATH, but she dosen't get it. She wants him, but he can't stand her because she is always flirting! He dosen't know how to get her to leave him alone, and neither do i. How do i get her to understand he is MINE and not hers? ♥Please Get Her Away From Him♥ (link)
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Okay if I where you I would tell her to back up. and that he is yours and she can't have him and that you care about him like a lot and stuff. but don't let her get to you and him. I mean I know what you mean I went throw the same thing. just tell her that you love him like a lot more then air. and maybe she will back down and if she doesnt then just tell her this time its real and she better back down cuz she ain't gonna get him. I hope this helped you!
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