A few weeks ago I was whining in class about how i was cold, and this kid said "want to wear mine?" I was like "really" and he was like "sure just give it back before the end of the period" ; I couldn't stop smiling; and by the end of the class, I developed a crush on him. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever.
I guess he was just trying to be nice, because he likes one of my friends. But my friends doesn't like him. He flirts with my SOMETIMES, but flirts with my friend most of the time.
again, but friend does not like him at all. I haven't liked him for that long, so I'm not so deeply in love with him that I can't live without him, yet. Should I try and catch myself before I fall inlove and get hurt? What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ashmoe2 answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 8:33 pm: okay well let's see here how can i say this......just because he like your freind doesn't mean you can't make a move on him....i mean she doesn'tl ike him right? You should tlak to him more...and yeah that whole jacket thing was so sweet. And girl watch out becasue if he is as sweet as the guy i like then you'll tottaly fall head over heels for him....but that's just my opinion but hey i say go for it and tlak to him some maybe flirt a little and then see what happens i mean it can only get you xcloser so what's the harm? [ ashmoe2's advice column | Ask ashmoe2 A Question ]
L0CACiiTA answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 6:14 pm: I think you should def. talk to him more, if your friend doesnt like him at all then she should have no problem about you havin a crush on him. Flirt with him, talk to him, hang out with him. Dont make yourself look desperate or anything but you know what if you push yourself back from liking someone everytime you start to develope feelings then you will never have a boyfriend because your to afraid to get hurt.
hope i helped
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runawayxlove answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 5:57 pm: hey, well you guys should talk more and maybe even hang out as friends to see if some type of love connection develops. you should let him know how you feel. just so you dont keep it all botteletd up inside and so he knows too. who knows, maybe he likes you too? [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
stfuxdarlingg answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 5:15 pm: Okay If I where you I would try and talk to him and say Hey I know you prombly don't like me but I think I might like you. Say it like that and knda like walk away slowly,don't make it seem like a big deal yakno? and if he talks to you about tht then be like i don't want to get hurt i dont wanna fall in love and get hurt and if he likes you back he will say i will never hurt you and kinda smile,i hope this help. [ stfuxdarlingg's advice column | Ask stfuxdarlingg A Question ]
singtomebaby answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 4:57 pm: If I were you, I'd just play it cool for a while. Flirt with him, and flirt back when he flirts with you. if you're friend doesn't like him, he'll eventually get the hint and move on. Be there for him when he needs someone, and become good friends and just be really sweet and nice back to him. When you two are really good friends then tell him you like him. good luck! [ singtomebaby's advice column | Ask singtomebaby A Question ]
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