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what is a best friend?


Question Posted Saturday January 6 2007, 12:03 am

what is a best friend? is it a person who stabs you in the back? secretly talks about you? or even hookup with your crush behind your back? hm i dont think so. I thought i had a best friend....what do i do?

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday January 6 2007, 3:53 pm:
Realize that there is no such thing as a bestfriend. And always remember it's every man and/or woman for him/herself!

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Brandi_S answered Saturday January 6 2007, 11:21 am:
A best friend is someone who treats you with the utmost respect. They care about your feelings, they don't do things to hurt you.

Back stabber = not any kind of friend.

Does things to hurt you, weather behind your back or in front of it = not any kind of friend.

Talks smack on you = not any kind of friend.

Kicks ass and takes names for someone doing this to you and treating you in this
manner = your best friend.

You deserve to have someone who is honest with you and treats you in the same outstanding manner they treat themselves to call your new best friend.

Excuse my crudeness, but you need to tell this person to bite your ass. They are using you for a rug to wipe their feet on.

But, unlike the previous advisers, don't sink to your un-friend's level. Don't publicly humiliate them and don't resort to violence. Would that really make you the better person? Uh... HELL NO.

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kimberlygal answered Saturday January 6 2007, 11:06 am:
Dump her!! Find another bff!! don't wait for her to dump you!!

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mariahwannabe answered Saturday January 6 2007, 9:50 am:
Hey that was a best friend gone bad.Dump her.Find some better friends.If I was you, I'd get it out in the open, even in public and humiliate her!

A best friend is
-loyal
-kind
-sticks up for you
-supports you
- makes you feel comfortable
-dont stab you in the back - noones perfect though

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stfuxdarlingg answered Saturday January 6 2007, 2:41 am:
omgsh!did someone do this to you! omgsh that is so freaking low!!!you def. need to drop her as a friend! i mean no one needs that. if she new you liked him tht no reason to go do that to you yakno? and just tell her off!

I have kinda been her before and I got tried of it and droped her as a friend.and yeah so just stab her back some how some way pain back is a bitochh!!..lol hoped tht helped.

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ASHLEYLOVEEE answered Saturday January 6 2007, 2:39 am:
girls these days. i think you should blow this girl off, i mean really, what kind of best friend talks about you, backstabs, and hooks up with your crush? that isn't a best friend. thats just a girl who is looking for trouble. you need to not be best friends with her.

A Best friend is someone who has your back, knows you well, and spends time with you. and doesnt judge you.

im sorry about your "friend"

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BeMyPrInCe22 answered Saturday January 6 2007, 2:26 am:
well if she did all this too you, i'm very sorry, that's a hard thing to go through. but if your best friend is this kinda person, don't be best friends with her, and i know thats hard. you should ask her about it first though, unless you already did, see what she has to say, than if you don't like it, she's not worth yuor time.

and a best friend, is someone who you can trust and be around, it's hard to say. they talk to you cuz they want to, and dont care what people say and dont let boys get in the way.

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