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boyfriend is shy
ive been talking to this one guy for about a month now and he asked me out the other day.. the only problem is is that hes shy! i dont know what to say or do to make this work because i really like the boy but it just gets so annoying! any ideas?
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well if he really is as shy as you say he is, you are probly going to get bored. if it is really going to bug you that much, it is probly a good idea to avoid a bad situation
hope i helped
luv, emi
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If i where you I would give him like time to opean up to you. like tell him his like shy and you where wondering if he could try and break out of his shell. make it sound nice and like you care about him.hope this helps.
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If he's shy, he will deffinitely enjoy you taking initiative. You need to make the first moves. Trust me, if he's shy that's exactly what he's hoping to god you do.
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take it slow. it takes effort and time. my bf was kinda like that and if you like him enough.. he'll be wortht he effort and wait
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Just take it slowly. Make sure you don't put any words in that would make him nervous. Don't talk about what might happen in the future until you really get to know him.
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You have to take control over this, I mean this in a "good way", make him in a "in-direct" way come out of "shy-ness", make him talk and answer you, make him do things he doesnt normally do, who knows when your "one on one" it might be different......give it a chance , he did have the "BALLZ" to ask in the 1st place...right..
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Just hang out around him more and make him comfortable nest to you. Go ask his friends what they usually do or what they did when they first met him to be less shy around them
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Hm, well some people are shy and that is that! But, think about it: Do you make him feel comfortable? Im not trying to say that in a mean way..Im just saying. Maybe he needs a bit more time to warm up to you. Perhaps he's had bad relationships in the past and is afraid to get too close to people too soon or maybe hes self concious and nervous around you! Im guessing thats it. Try to make him feel comfortable. Go slow and dont rush things! Ask him easy "chit chat" questions and keep the conversation going. Or let him know he can open up around you and that youre a very nice person. :]
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