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Ok i had this friend in about 4 grade and we became best friends in 5th grade. We did everything together that you could possibly amagine, then summer came and we hung out all the time and we always said we would be best friends forever. The summer ended and we went into middle school. Then she became popular and had all these new friends and i was left out. Now we are 13 and nothing has change she has all these friends that dont like me and we never hang out any more and i really miss what we used to do and now she barley talks to me and if i tell her how i feel she might think i am weird. What should i do PLEASE HELP ! !
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Start inviting her to do things so you guys can get closer together and eventually hopefully get what you had back or pretty close. but sometimes you lose friends people grow up, change, and move on.
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Since you used to be best friends, you should be able to talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she totally rejects you or is rude to you, then she's changed a lot since when you were friends and you probably don't want a friend like her anymore anyways. If she really likes you as a person and values your friendship it shouldn't matter what other people think and it shouldn't matter thst she's popular and you're not. One of the main reasons she probably feels like she can't hang out with you is because she probably feels like you have nothing in common anymore. Its likely that you dress differently, hang out with different crowds, and do different things. Try to hang out with her somewhere she's comfortable. For example, if she loves the mall but you would rather stay home, invite her to go to the mall with you and then watch a movie at your house later. If she is rude and uncaring when you talk to her, you really are better off without her and you can find much better friends who appreciate you for who you are, not because you're "popular."
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