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There's this guy and lets call him "Sean". Well sean and i have known eachother for 9 years now and he lives in a different state then me but we've always been close and we've always had feelings for eachother. I mean he's like everything i could possibly want in a guy and none of the guys i've gone out with can compare to him at all. [Sean is 16] He does currently have a girlfriend but he didnt want to tell me about her and i wasnt sure why but i didnt want to tell him about my current boyfriend at the time. It's weird. But im going away the 11th to spend the long weekend with him and his family because we are close. But im nervous because i want him to come out and tell me that he likes me but he wants me to do the same but ive been hurt so many times by guys that i hold back and dont open up easily anymore, because im so afraid of getting hurt again. But then again he lives far away so its like should i just move on? or could we work something out?
any advice is appreciated :] oxxx thanxxx
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If he still has a girlfriend and/or if you have a boyfriend I would try to move on, he does live in a different state. But if you both are unattached you could try to make it work. My sister lives in FL and is dating someone she met in PA before she moved, they recently had their 1 year anniversary, so nothings impossible!!
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there's a strong chance he won't open up to you currently cause he has a girlfriend.but if you guys r right for each other then he will at the right time.i kno wat what you mean when you say you don't want to be hurt nobody does but take a chance and a different approach.like instead of givin him all of you all at once try givin him, small pieces of you as your realationship grows. but never give all of you unless your really sure about him.and it really depends on how he is to say if you can work sumthin out,if he alway thinks he's a pimp and all this other crap i doubt it but if he's sweet,honest,loyal to you,and treat you right then yea you can work sumthin out
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Omgsh i have been here before okay well i never like meet this guy becasue when i was going to meet him i found out he was moving to cali tht week and im like uh i cnt meet him. but me and him have always had feelings for eachother like on and off for like ever. and his name is John and me and him have the same bday so his a year older then me. and so on christmas eve his gf dumped him and like 5mins before tht my friend told him i really like him and so then after him being single for 10mins he asked me out and im like ohmygosh i would love to. So now we are dating.
I know that was random.
but here is what i would is say hey sean i want to no why you arent telling me about your gf i feel like you dont trust me and it just kinda makes me feel bad snice we are like really close and i want to know why. just like try to sound like you really care abut him and stuff. kay dont sound like your tring to get up in his face [lol]if you know what i mean just tring and see you really care [witch you prombly do.] okay. i hope i helped...
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