about

My name is Megan. Im pretty much your normal girly girl, my favorite color is pink, i love to shop & Abercrombie is my all time favorite store. I have an obsession with painting my nails & im extremely organized. I hate reading books. I don't really like boring people either, I live to have fun. I love guys who smell good. Even though I'm 16 I'm still afraid of the dark. Twiggy, Marilyn Monroe & Audrey Hepburn are my role models.


I am very good at smiling. I want to be a model & I love getting my picture taken. I really can't stand liars or commercials. Thunderstorms are amazing. I dont like when my routine gets messed up, I tend to worry about everything. I hate being late, but I always am. I go to the mall alot, & love designer things - Chanel, Coach, Juicy Couture, Dior, Louis Vuitton, Burberry, Tiffanys, Prada, DKNY, Kate Spade, Dooney & Bourke = ♥


I cant spell to save my life, yes i know. I am always hyper. I think it should be a law that you have to wear flip flops all year long. I love to laugh! I am extremly random, but it dosent bother me. Im addicted to texting, taking pictures, mascara, & shopping. Everyone gets along with me & I'm extremly nice, unless you give me a good reason not to be. I love giving advice, & helping people; Ive been through alot so I can help =]
anything else, just ask ♥ xoxo

advice

Hello....lol
background: I have a guy friend and he says i'm one of his best friends. I told him i liked him like 5 months ago..but it didn't ruin the friendship. Then about 2 months after that, I asked him did he like me more than a friend and he said no...i only asks becuz i thought he really did like me....

Ok..So i have this guy friend named david and we are good friends and i use to crush on him but he has a GF.

NOW: I was talking to my guy friend on the comp about 3 days ago. I told him, "I'm think i'm gunna ask david to come with me to church this saturday." He said, "Ok..like i care."...and i said, "why so you always act like this?!" He said, "becuze i'm not interested."
What does that mean?...after that happened i signed off and we haven't talked since. I'm not talking to him. He can call me..and then i'll talk.

also..one time we were passing notes in church adn i was telling him what i thought david was gettin me for x-mas. and he wrote, "cool"...when i asked him why..he said he was jealous. So the next time he said cool after i talked about a guy..i asked himm why he says cool...and he got defense and asked me who asks what cools means..he said cool is just cool....Is he jealous or does he like me?..i'm really conufused.

Yeah hes def. jealous.

Theres not much you can do about it either, but if hes jealous, that means he def likes you!

You just have to pick were to go from there.
♥

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i dont know why im still really upset. my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago because were too long distance. i was so upset. i cried so much. we were together for 5 months and he was my frist boyfriend and kiss. i never liked anyone like i liked him. i still do. i agree that we lived too far away and i knew it. i was just felt like i took the whole thing for granted. i imed him saturday which was a big step for me and he said he regrets the breakupp. he said he still likes me. i got closure. i understand why were broken up. i dont know why but im still sad inside. im thinking its cause it just hit me last night when i took our pictures off the wall. i want to express myself to my friends but i dont really know what to say cause i dont really exactly know why im still this sad. i feel like i still need to cryy. but it doesnt come out. im so confused with myself. why am i still sad? how can i express it? all help would be appretiated.

thanks;;
hopeless

Im sorry for your loss. I just recently went through a break up as well - a year and 5 month relationship.. I know how your feeling. You said you got closure which is a BIG step.
You guys only broke up a week ago, thats practically yesterday, your allowed to be sad for at least a month, I dont think you will still be sad after that.

For me I just called up my best frined any time I thought of him, or wanted to call him or anything. We had a lot of girls nights out, and Taylor Swift's Cd became the sound track of my life (and i dont even like country music!) Go out and by her cd - its worth it. at the bottom of the cd it says something like "to all those boys who thought it was okay to go break my heart, heres 11 songs written about you. HA."
Music and my best girl friends seemed to be the remidy for me.

My ex goes to my school and i have to see him every day, and when I do or whenever I think about him, I tell my self just think of the future, whats next? whos next? because the future holds so many better things to be discovered! Since your ex dosnt go to your school, that should make things ALOT easyer!!

hope i helped, keep your head high!
meganclary@msn.com you can email me if you want!

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I need clothes sooo bad. I need some Ideas on what to buy. Here's what I already have:

Maroon Hollister Short sleeve tee
Light pink HCO SS tee
White LS tee shirt
Green HCO Hoodie
Cream SS Skull hoodie
HCO light wash flare jeans
Black Aeropostale SS tee
Black & Silver Nike Shox
Light wash Angel capris
Purple and Brown Nike Air's
Pink HCO SS tee
Aqua HCO SS Tee
Khaki mini skirt
Industrial Cotton Medium Wash Jeans
Leight wash Levi flare jeans
Strawberry lace tank top
Dark wash Angel Jeans
Blue Aero SS tee
Blue/Green American Eagle Polo
Light Blue HCO SS tee
Navy blue 3/4 sleeve Am.Eagle shirt
Orange HCO SS tee
Green Abercrombie SS tee
Geenish Blue HCO SS tee
Navi blue sweat pants
Grey Southpole Jeans
Blue basketball shorts
White/blue/orange Nike Air's
Green Khaki pants
White/black/pink customized Nike Shox
Red leather purse
Large white purse
Pink ballet flats

Thats's like all my clothes, so what do you think I need to fill it up cuz i'm runnin' low. I'm very casual preppy. That's about as pricey as I go, so no Louis Vuiton or anything like that. Thanks sooo much.
15/f

Those arnt boring!
But here are a few things you could throw in ;

Dark Skinny jeans (Erin by Abercrombie & Fitch) Which look amazing with flip flops, ballet flats, or boots.

Maybe try a button down from hollister, wear that over a lace tank top, with a mini skirt and leggings and boots.

Uggs - total must!

For a change of purse's try a wristlet - Maybe Coach or D&B they are about 45-50$ but so worth it. They are good for shoppign trips or partys.

Try shopping in other stores like Wet Seal or Forever21 personally I dont like alot of what they have, but if you look hard enough you can find really cute things - cheap!

Victorias Secret also have very cute clothing ; their entire PINK line is adorable!

Im sure I could think of more; hope that helps!
Any other questions just leave them in my inbox or email me Meganclary@msn.com !

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http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u140/bumarse/eyeliner.jpg

The Pic above...
How can I do my eyeliner like that girl has...
I mean I'm not a stupid 10 year old asking how to USE eyeliner..
I've just been trying but can't achieve those eyes :(

So generally...just how to do that :)

Thanks.

Line your top and bottom lids with a black liquid eyeliner (if you dont have liquid, use regular).

Take a shadow liner brush and dust it in some black or charcole eyeshadow. Run the brush just above the eyeliner on your top lid, do the same on the bottom. Swipe a lighter shade on your entire eye lid and blend togther.

good liquid liner:
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P35210&categoryId=S10505&shouldPaginate=true

Brushes that I use:
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P12775&categoryId=S4700&shouldPaginate=true

Or

http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P102827&categoryId=S4700&shouldPaginate=true

Hope that helped - any other questions just leave them in my inbox! =]

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are thongs uncomfortable? would it be better to wear boy shorts or thongs to not have the lining of your underwear show up when you are wearing pants? i dont understand how anyone would ever get used to having a string there.

Once you get use to them, you cant feel them at all!!
Boyshorts and thongs are great if you want to avoid the underwear line when you wear pants.

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Where can I get this dress? http://www.teenvogue.com/style/market/feature/2008/01/valentine_20080103?slide=3


Teen Vogue didn't give any details except it was a Peter Jensen dress for $240. Why do they showcase clothes no one can find to buy? (or afford for that matter)?

You could search for "Peter Jensen Dresses" online some where; if that dosnt work here are a few site with really pretty affordable dresses!

http://www.windsorstore.com/index.aspx

http://www.edressme.com/

http://www.edressmeprom.com/

Hope that helped!

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okay so i have a very shiny forehead, but its not even oily. i have tried many things, and i even use face powder and wash my face evryday and that still doesnt work.. what can i do to make it stop shining?!?

For most of my skin facial problems i use Clinique. They are amazing - try this Pore Minimizer T-Zone Shine Control;
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?categoryId=C9385&paginate=true&id=P122906

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how do you exfoliate skin, especially the face? and what does it do?

exfoliating is just a big word for cleaning your face really well. It cleans down to your pores.
There are special products that you can buy for exfoliating.

Try Clinique
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P122718&categoryId=S15110&shouldPaginate=true

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15/f

when you shave down there lol
are you suppose to shave the top
OR
just by the opening of the vagina and around it?
what do most girls do

i would say do it all. thats what most people do.

any other questions just write me in my inbox.

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13/f.
Warning: Very long.

In school I play it cool, when I'm by my family I'm neutral, but when I'm by myself or talking with my boyfriend I completely loose it. My entire family has a long line of deep depression for the females on my mom's side. All of my family members take anti-depressents. My mom, my aunt, grandmother, cousins, my great-grandmother used to take them before she died. She was crazier than anyone could ever imagine - she'd spent five years in a mental institution. I my self have been in one for exactly 8 days before they released me because, just like I do in school and in front of my family, I play it like nothing's wrong.

I've begun to continually cut myself. I know I need to quit. Half of me wants to quit, because I know it's what's right, but the other half loves it too much to get rid of it. It's like I've become a dependant on it - or on my boyfriend, also. When I'm constantly talking to him, I'm perfect. Happy as happy can be, but the second he has to go to deal with his own life I fall apart. I need to depend on myself to make me happy, but I can't seem to find the strength too. I don't want to. I want to depend on someone or something. But I can't; I need to find a solution.

I've been diagnosed with clinical depression and have tried just about every anti-depressent out there or all different doses - none have ever worked for me. I currently take 30 miligrams of the generic brand of Prozac, along with Adderall for my ADD and Seraquil for my acclaimed "bipolar" disorder I've also been diagnosed with - even though I don't have mood swings. The only different moods I have are mask neutral and depressed.

I've tried overdosing in an attempt to kill myself three times. I've tried shooting myself twice, and I've tried countless of times to kill myself by means of slicing any main vains - I want help, I need help, but I can't get it from the "professionals" because all they'll do is stuff me in a white jacket and into a room with squishy walls. I don't want that. I want help. Actual help, but I don't know how to get it. I'm just so overwhelmed. I want to be able to get on with my life. I want to be able to be a kid while I still have the chance, to be able to laugh with my friends and have it not be fake. I want to be able to act stupid and mess up while it still doesn't matter.

I'm not sure exactly what my question is, except for a cry for help.

Im not too sure what to say, but if you ever need anyone to talk to you can email me at Meganclary@msn.com ...sometimes just talking about stuff helps...
♥ xo

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I went out with this boy like a year ago.. we started going out June of 2005 and Broke up Around February of 2006. So we were together for awhile. We loved each other deeply. He was my first that I did sexual things with, and he was my first person I madeout out with. Our love was strong, and we were confident we were getting married. However, he couldn't support me. He had no job, no car, and the only money he got was out off weekly allowance. He usually spent it for himself over me and whenever we went to the movies or out to dinner I had to pay. I didn't mind it for awhile until it became a habit and he was relying on me for money. He didn't get me anything for valentines or my birthday because instead he spent it on other things. He also dumped me several times, and cheated on me. So at the end, I felt sexually and emotionally used!

I know I shouldn't be with him, and I don't want to be with him again because he's basically a bum and he can't even support himself. But for some reason, I keep falling for him, and he is begging for me to get back with him. I refuse but I need to get over him!

I totally apoligize for this being so long but thanks so much for reading and trying to help out!

You said it your self, hes a bum. If you felt used emotionally and sexually its probably because you were; you should never feel like that - any guy that truely 'loves' you would never do that to you. You need to hold your head high and see what else is out there - be strong, dont let your self fall back into that mess..
♥ xo

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me and my b have been going out for awhile but now i dont really like him that much, i sorta lke some else ): i was thinksing of saying " i dont think we should go out anymore" but that seems a little cliche. anyone have any suggestions?

Tell him the truth, he'll find out eventually; so its better he hear it from you in the long run.
♥ xo

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13/f
well i have a friend thats a boy that i knew 4 a while and i would usually go to him when ever i needed help with my life.so me,him and my other friend sit together in science class and me and her would always steal his hat.when ever we stole his hat he would be like give it back and w/e and we wouldn't.so when i stole his hat he was like give it back and i was like no and he was like im not ur friend anymore you can't have my hat give it to vanessa(my frind that sit next to me) and i was like fine w/e but now im really starting to get irratated cuz he's still not talking to me and i don't even kno wat i did wrong.i wouldn't be so pissed if i at least knew wat i did wrong.so can someone help me out her please and thank you.P.S.when ever i talk to him he act like he don't hear me.

Hes just being immature. Try not talking to him for a while, that will get him to talk to you again. He probably likes having your attention & having you keep trying to get him to talk to you.
Hope I helped - anyother questions leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo

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OK so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a while now and hes never made a move on me. Eh I dont know if should feel bad about this but I kinda want him to already. He is very lovey dubby and love is great and all but jeez and need a little lust every now and then too you know? Anyway any advice on how i can maybe lead him on to making a move, because i would never make the 1st move. so please help.

Maybe he dosent think you want him to make a move, or maybe hes nervous. Just hint at it, like ya no, give him reasons to want to make a move on you. You never know, maybe hes waiting for you to make the 1st move!!
dont worry though, it will happen!
♥ xo

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what are good ways to flirt? I kind of do but i'm really not confident at all, because i'm about to get Braces and guys dont usually say im hot like my other friends and stuff like that. all my friends are huge flirts and i can be when i want to but i want to do it better because i love guys but sometimes it doenst show. thanks!

Laugh !! Smile EVEN when you get braces, be your self & have fun, even if you are shy, dont show it. Act like you are the most confident person in the room. Confidence automatically makes you hot. No one will be able to tell your shy if you act confident in your self. =]
(im very shy as well & that worked for me!!)
Any other questions feel free to ask me in my inbox!
♥ xo

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I'm looking for a song about a guy and a girl who live a long distance apart and love each other so much and she misses him like crazy even though he's only been gone a little while. It would also be perfect if the song was about them loving each other but neither of them has said it yet, like they aren;t actually together, but they have strong feelings for each other. And she just wants to tell him.

I'd really really appreciate anyone who can help me. Thanks s0o0o0o0o much to anyone who can.

xx

Incubus - Wish You Were Here

I dig my toes into the sand
The ocean looks like a thousand diamonds
Strewn across a blue blanket
I lean against the wind
Pretend that I am weightless
And in this moment I am happy...happy

I wish you were here
I wish you were here
I wish you were here
I wish you were here

I lay my head onto the sand
The sky resembles a backlit canopy
With holes punched in it
I'm counting UFOs
I signal them with my lighter
And in this moment I am happy...happy

I wish you were here
I wish you were here
I wish you were here
Wish you were here

The world's a roller coaster
And I am not strapped in
Maybe I should hold with care
But my hands are busy in the air saying:

I wish you were here
I wish you were

I wish you were here
I wish you were here
I wish you were here
Wish you were here


I love that song; theres also


Nickelback - Far Away
This time, This place
Misused, Mistakes
Too long, Too late
Who was I to make you wait
Just one chance
Just one breath
Just in case there's just one left
'Cause you know,
you know, you know

[CHORUS]
I love you
I have loved you all along
And I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreaming you'll be with me
and you'd never go
Stop breathing if
I don't see you anymore
-----------------------------
On my knees, I'll ask
Last chance for one last dance
'Cause with you, I'd withstand
All of Hell to hold your hand
I'd give it all
I'd give for us
Give anything,but I won't give up
'Cause you know,
you know, you know

[CHORUS]
That I love you
I have loved you all along
I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreamin you'll be with me
and you'd never go
Stop breathing if
I don't see you anymore
---------------------------------
So far away
So far away
far away for far too long
So far away
So far away
far away for far too long

But you know, you know, you know
I wanted
I wanted you to stay
'Cause I needed
I need to hear you say
I love you
I have loved you all along
And I forgive you
For being away for far too long
So keep breathing
'Cause I'm not leaving you anymore
Believe it
Hold on to me,and never let me go
Keep breathing
'Cause I'm not leaving you anymore
Believe it
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
Hold on to me, never let me go
Keep breathing
Hold on to me, never let me go.


hope I helped!!
any other questions leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo

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okay so im blonde. and people sometimes serouisly think that im dumb - just because im blonde. and it kinda pisses me off at times cuz they treat me like im just stupid. and im not. i get A's and B's on like everything and get pretty upset if i get like a ac or lower. and still even if i tell people that im smart, they just think im stupid. what should i do?

Theres nothing you can really do - its just a stupid stereo type - dont let it bother you !!
♥ xo

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there is these 2 boys in my class and they stare at me and my friend all the time but they look me in the eye they deny that they like me online.but they wont talk to me in person its like theyre scared too.one of the boys talks to the other one about where they live but the other boy already knows where he lives.they also talk about other girls like trying to get me jealous or something he says " i wanna go out with " so and so but idk what hes tyring to do ... do you think he likes me ? or my friend what other signs would a boy do if they liked me ? my friend and i pass notes back and fourth and they try to look .. and what does that mean if boys call me "ugly" because i'm guessing some of them just say it because they like me ?

They probably do like you, they are young and will tease you to get you to even take a second look at them. Dont worry about him calling you 'ugly' he has nothing else to say & he knows youll get upset and say something to him & he wants your attention.
♥ xo

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hey ;;
ima 13 // f
and im in love with this guy .
he nos that i like him
but he doesnt no how strongly i feel
and he doesnt even care that i do
he makes it rilly awkward but we used to be friend before i told him
and recently i told him that i didnt like him, and now its even more awkward and we rarely talk .
hes been ruining my life and i fell so hard for him .
ive been cutting my wrists and my friends have been very supportive .
but i just dont kno waht to do .
because i love him, but i dont want to scare him off or anything, so please help ?

sorry if its long i didnt mean for it i just tried to explain as well as i could
please leave advice :]

If he is the same age as you; he could just be scared - scared to like you back or scared to admit that he likes you too. Boys when they are around like 11-14 are still in the "girls have cooties" kinda thing. Your friends seem like amazing people being there for you, you should really ask them to try to help you stop cutting. NO BOY is EVER worth hurting your self. NOTHING is. Just remember that.

You should tell him how you honestly feel, but dont expect him to be like OMG i love you too. Boys are stupif @ this age about that sorta thing...

dont worry though...everything will work out.
any other questions leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo

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There is this Boy Called Tom*
WE started walking down from school together as he lives up the road. we really got to know each other and talked on msn everynight . one night he asked me to come up the street with him , i did and everything went ok... untill we met people from our school he is a year older than me so the boys were all older. being boys they stated saying stuff etc The day after Tom told a friend that we went up the street , his friend started this rumour about us and Tom started not talking to me as if he did someone would say something. the only problem is i really like Tom and cant stop thinking about him ! I told him i didnt like him though to stop all the rumours now he doesnt like me ! he is kind of a "freak" to all of my friends so telling them is a no do .



Please help !! i know this sounds stupid and its a long message but i do need help ! any will do !!

Well the only thing you can really do is tell him how you feel, tell him the truth!
And dont worry about what your frineds think, i went out with someone before who was definately a freak to all my frineds (he had piercings and wore eyeliner & stuff) and im like the preppyest girl alive, but they all got over it. Dont let your friends stop you from following your heart!
Any other questions about anything leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo

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