There is this Boy Called Tom*
WE started walking down from school together as he lives up the road. we really got to know each other and talked on msn everynight . one night he asked me to come up the street with him , i did and everything went ok... untill we met people from our school he is a year older than me so the boys were all older. being boys they stated saying stuff etc The day after Tom told a friend that we went up the street , his friend started this rumour about us and Tom started not talking to me as if he did someone would say something. the only problem is i really like Tom and cant stop thinking about him ! I told him i didnt like him though to stop all the rumours now he doesnt like me ! he is kind of a "freak" to all of my friends so telling them is a no do .
Please help !! i know this sounds stupid and its a long message but i do need help ! any will do !!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? chrissabelle37 answered Saturday January 27 2007, 11:56 am: Hey. Well he probably got really hurt when you told him you didn't like him and figured that if you don't even like him why go through all this trouble. He was probably mad that all of these rumors started about him over someone who doesn't even like him. I would tell him how you really feel about him and tell him what happened. Say you were really hurt too that this happened to you guys and how much you like him. All the rumors should stop once they see what a great couple the two of you might be. Remember, people who start rumors are really insecure about themselves and want to turn the blame towards someone else. I really hope this helped and good luck! =) [ chrissabelle37's advice column | Ask chrissabelle37 A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Saturday January 20 2007, 12:06 pm: hey, well you should have never told him that you didnt like him anymore if it wasnt true. set the facts straight and tell him how you really feel. go to his house since you basically are 2.5 seconds away from it. go up to his door and ring his doorbell. once he sees you he wont shut the door in your face if hes not a jerk. if he does shut the door in your face then dont even bother with him anymore. that would be a really low class thing for him to do and you dont need someone like that in your life. if he comes outside to talk just tell him how you feel. if he is sensitive to your feelings then give him another shot. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Saturday January 20 2007, 11:54 am: You need to talk to this guy. Go to his house, he lives up the road from you.
Start trying to talk to him again on MSN every night.
You need to tell him how you feel. You should talk about such things in person. Find out why he acted the way he did when his friends started saying things about you guys hanging out.
xyourheart answered Saturday January 20 2007, 9:09 am: Well the only thing you can really do is tell him how you feel, tell him the truth!
And dont worry about what your frineds think, i went out with someone before who was definately a freak to all my frineds (he had piercings and wore eyeliner & stuff) and im like the preppyest girl alive, but they all got over it. Dont let your friends stop you from following your heart!
Any other questions about anything leave them in my inbox!
♥ xo [ xyourheart's advice column | Ask xyourheart A Question ]
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