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i'm falling for the wrong guy and I can't help i
I went out with this boy like a year ago.. we started going out June of 2005 and Broke up Around February of 2006. So we were together for awhile. We loved each other deeply. He was my first that I did sexual things with, and he was my first person I madeout out with. Our love was strong, and we were confident we were getting married. However, he couldn't support me. He had no job, no car, and the only money he got was out off weekly allowance. He usually spent it for himself over me and whenever we went to the movies or out to dinner I had to pay. I didn't mind it for awhile until it became a habit and he was relying on me for money. He didn't get me anything for valentines or my birthday because instead he spent it on other things. He also dumped me several times, and cheated on me. So at the end, I felt sexually and emotionally used!
I know I shouldn't be with him, and I don't want to be with him again because he's basically a bum and he can't even support himself. But for some reason, I keep falling for him, and he is begging for me to get back with him. I refuse but I need to get over him!
I totally apoligize for this being so long but thanks so much for reading and trying to help out!
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let him beg let him plead w/e you do don't get back with him.cause if he could barely support himself he can't do anything for you but meet your sexual needs which you can get met if you go to a stripper club.to forget him jus ignore him and remember you can get someone that's MUCH better than that bum.keep your head high your heart in your chest and not on your sleve.and jus find another guy that won't depend on you for money.
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You said it your self, hes a bum. If you felt used emotionally and sexually its probably because you were; you should never feel like that - any guy that truely 'loves' you would never do that to you. You need to hold your head high and see what else is out there - be strong, dont let your self fall back into that mess..
♥ xo
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