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okay. i love my boyfriend to death. i feel like i love him a lil to much. i trust him i really do. he has showed me that i could trust him and that i have nothing to worry about. we pretty much spend every day together. but when i leave him and i'm not around him, in the back of my mind something feels werid. this is the 2nd guy i have been in love with. the 1st one moved outta state. could i be holding back how much i really love him bC of the last relationship? yes, i have talked to him about this, he understands me and listen to me, he is pretty much what i have been waiting for to come into my life. i just don't know what i need to do i don't understand why i'm so scared to leave him everyday and be away from him, i've never had this feeling before (link)
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your scared to leave him cause your scared that might be the last time you'll see him again like with the last guy.your feeling this cause you gave your heart to a guy before and know your heart it putting it's guard up to try to prevent being hurt again.it happens to a lot of people whose first love broke their hearts
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how do u delete everything youve veiwed on the internet? (link)
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on your keyboard press ctrl+h a toolbar sshould pop up at the side that say history right click and delete
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my girl freand and i have a Weird relationship she and her freands constanly make me feel like i shouldn't be around them becuse of they way they treat each other and how she just pulls me back in to the relationship even though she once before broke up with me and now she is back with me. the reason for this is because i wanted her to and i thought she loved me now her freand tommy a muscle bound jerk picks up the phone while i am talking to my gf and says don't you call again after that my frist instinct was to delete her number. two days later she dosen't even remember it and i am sick and tired of this and i want to break up with her but i feel that i can't what should i do? (link)
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she do remember when tommy picked up the phone she's denying it so she wouldn't have to explain herself to you.call her up and tell her you guys are over it will hurt you cause it's something you don't wanna do but why stay with her when she don't appreciate you and is probably cheationg on you.if you can't find yourself to call her and dump her then write down all your thoughts,emotions,and what you wanna do with her on a piece of paper and you can give it to her or you can ask one of your friends to give it to her.good luck Hope i helped
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ok so recently my bf has been ignoring me when he's wit his friend..(not answering my calls texts)..wen he's wit me he's great and very attentive..we've been togethere for a year and a hafl and..this has happened in the past..but we fixed it..and now it is starting to happen again.. He gets really mad at me for really stupid reasons( like if im running a few mins late to his house) but whenver i get mad he for some reason gets mad at me for being mad becuase he doesn't think my reasons are legitimate. For examplle tonite he basically ditched me to hang out with friends. I wanna put my foot down but i'm afraid he won't take my seriously, or will just get mad at me..what do i do? (link)
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he won't take you serious cause you don't put your foot down and if your scared that he'll get mad then how do you expect him to take you seriously.when you get mad at him and he tell you your reason isn't legitimate you simply chuckle and "say my reason isn't legitimate..."and bring up something stupid he got mad at you for.and when he wants to get loud and angry,you get louder and angrier to prove your serious and that you mean business
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okay im ganna like right this really simple..:
theres a girl in my class.. mostly all
all the guys like pay attention to her
and not me
im not ugly. people from other towns think im hot.
but i guess not in the town where i live.
what can i do.
so that they stop paying attention to her.
and me.
shes really pretty and laughs at like anything.
and lets them touch her.
what can i do so that they pay attention to her and not me
the thing is that like...i feel.. ugly aroudn her so i dont even try.
thanks!!! (link)
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first things first it's all about the attitude people from other towns talk to you cause you give them attitude that belongs to you the people in your town don't see that attitude that much so give them the attitude and guys like it when girls are or ct dumb cause it makes them feel smart.so you can do that.if you don't feel comfortable with guys touching you don't let them cause it's giving them pleasure and you discomfort.
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ok i went out with a guy this summer he was pretty much the definition of asshole - i was unexperienced and um, not very assertive, so he ended up using me, cheating on me with AT LEAST 3 girls in a period of 2 months, and smoking right in front of me after i told him over and over how much i hated it. and we hardly even talked. it was the stupidest relationship ever, and unfortunately my first, but at least i learned a lesson. we go to different schools so we hardly hung out when we were going out, and i havent seen him since the day before i broke up with him, we dont talk much... i try to be nice to him if he like messages me or anything but its usually just a "hey whatsup" conversation. anyway now, 4 or 5? months later he decides to talk to me on myspace again. and hes telling me that he misses me and his friends think we should go out again (im not that stupid). he said he really wants to see me again (meaning he really wants to see if he can get with me again) and i dont know what to tell him. i would hang out with him as a friend but it would be sooo awkward cause my friends and i and him are so different. and we hardly talked when we went out so now with this awkward situation it would be worse. i dont know how to tell him i dont want to see him again though. i told him i like another guy. hes not taking the hint. any suggestions? (link)
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don't go out with him it'll give him a idea that you like him.remind him of the crappy way he treated you when yall was going out and tell him you don't wanna be treated like that again.and when he says he changed tell him to prove it
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13f. this is long srry. i cant get a therapist. i just need advice. i have nobody else to talk to. i am totaly different at school and home. at home i am so mad all the time at school i am just either acting happy at least tryin or i am when i talk to him exept when someone gets me mad. i have never got detention i never get in truoble and no i will not be a snitch. nobody understands me at all anymore. i have no idea who my real friends are. ive been in every clique. my mom gets so mad at me when i wear black or chokers. but i useally do but when she wont let me i cry bc its all i feel good about. nobody at all has seen me cry exept my mom and brother my mom even said i didnt cry that much at all even when i was a baby. is something wrong with me. again srry no therapist. im shy but im starten to get louder. i get along with anybody. bc i only have 1 real friend at least i think? hes a guy hes been kinda close for about 7 years. he used to come over but now my mom found out i loved him and he loved me. but i think it was bc hes all i have. so he could never come over or i could never go over we couldnt see each other. but we would 'casually' hehe meeting w/ alot of people at the mall. he used to actually say best friend so i thought he realy was my bff. but is he just sorry for me. we havent been as close since i am so deppressed. hes a blonde dumb nerd lol we joke about that. im kinda in the group of all the gothic people who everyone hates. i never really talk to guys exept him and other guys who hate me and i hate them seriosly hate they would like come up and call me like a bitch or kick me then i do try and like kill they practically. if someone makes me really mad theyd regret it. i have knocked the air out of like 3 people. but not at school. i have enamies. whenever i think i have a friend they always turn out fake. ive been acting so deppressed lately. every1 says im gothic BUT IM NOT! atleast i dont think. i dont wear chains i dont dress all black usually jeans and black shirt and ALOT of jewelry. me and my mom dont get along. i have no chores ppl say im spoiled. and i just hate my life. any advice on..
what im deppressed about. if it was real love.
if hes a real friend. was he just sorry for me at first. whats wrong with me. am i gothic. how to become friends with all my old friends. why every1 hates me. why our parents wont let us see eachother i told my mom i didnt love him anymore he was just my only friend then she just got mad. and anyothers i forgot that i wrote at the top. no therapist or phyciatrist or whatever. ~help me~ (link)
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to answer all your questions im gonna list them below
*yes he is a real friend
*at first he wasn't sorry for you at first he wanted to be your friend then evolved to your best friend
*no your not gothic.ppl think the same thing with me cuz i wear alot of black n belt chains but im not gothic i just like the color black
*you don't need your old friends.if they left you without a good logical reason then you can't even call them friends.they probably left you cause they were starting to believe you were gothic real friends don't care what you are if they like you as a friend.
*everyone hates you cause your old so called friends or someone else started a rumor about you,but found a way to keep it from getting to you so you don't hurt them.when someone bother you don't try to kill them cause that'll get you in trouble with the law just beat the crap out of them or until they know not to mess with you again.
*your parents won't let you guys see each other cause they don't want you to come home one day and say your pregnant.a parents worst nightmare is their kid getting pregnant when they still have to legally support them.your mom don't believe that you don't love him cause yall were so close and your mom got mad when you said he was your only friend cause she don't want to believe it every mom want their daughter to have either alot of friends or at least one friend of the same gender.
*your probably depressed on the matter that you want your old friends back and your mom don't want you to see your only friend.your depression will get better just forget all the people that hate you forget the people that was your friends and deserted you and focus on you and having fun with your friend........hope i helped
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okay im in this like musical theatre club.
13/f
like i had to change into a skirt and some different shirt since like they were doing some scenes that i wasnt in and it was kinda boring to just sit there with the other people who were watching the scene so i was painting with paint that wouldnt wash off your clothes. then like it was my part and i didnt have time to change back so we like sat on the risers, i was like at the top... i was wearing like a long skirt too like inbetween my knees and ankle,and some guy was looking up my skirt!!!! its so gross and i didnt even notice cause we were singing like i saw him looking at me but i didnt think of it, and then my friends told me so i moved over to the other side to my other friends and then later he moved too and then i moved back and the saem thing happened t hen i moved behind some random guy.... its sooooo gross!!!! im neva wearing a skirt to that club again, hah. like was sitting on the bleacher like below me since i was like sitting on the stage.and my feet were even close together! what a sicko i wanted to tell him but one of my friends convinced me not to since he'd be embarrased??? whateva next time i'll yell it in his face jeez why are some guys soo perverted
and should i have slapped him? and i'll see this guy like almost everyday since we have a lot of practice cause our show is soon.. how do i act around him? and i dont like him.. i dont think looking up someones skirt is very attractive. but idk if he likes me cause hes also a 8th grader.. but thats.. just.. gross that he did that!! ugh! advice, PLEASE!
PS: and i dont really know him that well and i just thought he was okay and now my perspective of him totally changed.. i might be overreacting but idk!! (link)
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*i say if you wanna wear a skirt wear one don't let one guy looking up your skirt stop you from being comfortable next time you wear a skirt and he try to look kick him in his head and see if he'll try to do that again.
*guys are so perverted cause guys brains have a larger area that's dedicated to sex or have them think alot of sex.
*i think you should treat him like shit if you treat him the same he's probably just going to think you were ok with him lookin up your skirt
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ok so this is getting really crazy i'm a 13 year old girl and i'm in 8th grade and there is a guy i really like and that i see every single day and i'm always mad when he's not at school anywho theres this other guy i kinda like and he new he's really cool but some of my friends dont like him cause he's bi but whatever moving on and then theres this other guy i like but he's dating one of my friends and it's soooo frustrating likeing all these guys is it wrong for me to be likeing alll of them i mean teh first on i mentioned i really like and his friends have asked me out for him twice now but i said no the first time and nothing the secind the second time cause i thought they were joking cause i dont think he would ever like me but then all my friends think ehe likes me and i told myself i would forget all about this cause i cant talk to him cause i feel so incredibly stupid and well yeha i need help my friends think he like me for alot of reasons but one is because the first tiem his friend asked me the guy i like was sitting right behind me and i said no and then the guy i liked seemed kind of upset and his friends were like oh i know whats wrong errrr some help i'm so confused (link)
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no it's not wrong for you to like all those guys at once it's perfectly normal for a 13 year old.i think you should go out with the first guy and if you feel stupid about asking him,why don't you send one of your friends to ask him.if you wanna go with the second guy it's your choice don't worry if your friends like him or not their not the ones that like him
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My best friend and I have been really close. We used to tell eachother anything and everything. We always stood up for eachother and we always taught eachother new things. Basically we were best best friends. She has a boyfriend which she has been going out with for over a year now. They are really good for eachother. They used to get into fights because she always flirted with other guys (majorly one time she gave 2 guys a shoulder rub for no reason) but he'd always come back and appologize. I always tried to help her with their problems and I hated when she was upset.
But a girl in school made up a rumor about me being a total flirt. I didn't really mind because all the guys were on my side BUT then my best friend (lets call her Nikki) started going along with it. She started agreeing with the girl and tormenting me about it. Months went by and slowly people forgot. Near Christmas time we bought best friend necklaces and I have never taken mine off.
After christmas break however she started the rumor up again. When I confronted Nikki about it she started yelling at me about how I flirt with this one guy (lets call him....James) all the time. I have liked James for months and he is the only guy who has ever really been there for me in almost everything. We fought but made up. The problem is she keeps bringing up the flirting topic all the time.
About 3 weeks ago I started noticing she always seemed mad at me. Her voice was snappy and she barely told me anything. She also made it her duty to try to get James to hate me along with every other guy. I also know she has talked to other girls and gotten many to look down at me. I have asked the guys and they say all I do is talk to them and I barely ever flirt. I have also asked some girls. She alwasy gets angry when im around the guys and especially when im around her boyfriend. Her boyfriend and I are really good friends and he also used to tell me everything about their relationship. He is also one of the only people im close with in half my classes so bottom line I talk to him quite a bit.
Lately she always makes me feel bad and tells me I cant stay away from the guys. The problem there is I have about....5 girl friends and about 20 guy friends. And ALL my girl friends have been staying inside for recess and i love recess so I go out. Also they are on the basketball team and I am not so many times Im forced to be with them. I have tried my best not to do anything that looks like flirting anymore and once publically humialted myself doing so. But everything I do seems to have no effect. She then says I do stuf for attention. Its driving me crazy and lately ive been crying almost everynight because of her.
I dont want to change for her but I feel as if I have to. I would rather have her as a best friend throughout high school then a boyfriend. I care about Nikki soo much. I really dont know what to do anymore. Its really hard for me.
About 4 days ago we sat beside eachother on the bus because we were forced to. The ride was pretty much silent except for two sentences. I turned to her and asked "Do you hate me?" and she replied "A little." those words hurt me so much. Then on the busride home out of nowhere she started yelling at me and telling me how horrible I was. She ended off saying "You have no idea how many people hate you" I have barely talked to her since. Ive been crying constantly. I try so hard to get us back but she keeps pushing me away. I dont understand it! What happened? What did I do? Please help! (link)
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i say she's being a bitch for trusting the rumor that girl started about you.she's probably acting this way because she think your gonna try to flirt with her boyfriend to take him away from her,also she's trying to make everyone hate you because she do and she feel it's everybody's duty to feel the same way she soes about you.i think you should ignore nikki for about a week or two(when i say ignore i mean completly don't talk to her,don't look at her,and when she talks don't listen to her.i know this will hurt you but it's to make things better)then confront her and ask her what the hell is her problem tell her you did nothing wrong and that you demand for her to tell you why she started being such a bitch to her best best friend
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ok first off i`ve liked this boy [let`s call him joe] since i`ve met him & i`ve met him about 3-4 months ago . he`s been in A LOT of relationship`s maybe like 4-5 since i`ve known him . now he`s one of my guy bestfriend`s . now in his profile he said`s he likes someone new ! and i was hoping it was me , then today he IMed ME for a change . because usually i`m the one who has to IM him first , but twice today he IMed me 1st :] haha i just felt special . and he was like "we have a lot in common!" because we were both from kentucky! and i tried to flirt a lot so maybe he would flirt back . but on his hero`s on his myspace . i`m LAST on his list . & i think it goes in order because every time he get`s a new gf , she always ends up first , then when they break up , about 8th on the list . but anyways , to the point . my bestfriend [who went out with him before] told me he break`s a lot of girl`s hearts and hurt`s a lot of girl`s , like he did to her . so i dont knoww . and i don`t know if i should tell him i like him , or not or if he even like`s me , uhggg i don`t know what to do , he`s all i think about . can someone help me out ??! (link)
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i know what your going through cause there's a guy like that in my skool all the girls liked him and he would go out with them dump them and go out with another girl we call him a man whore and that's what joe sounds like a man whore whose hormones are too high.but if you still wanna go out with him then don't tell him you like him until you have enough evidence that he likes you as more than a friend cause if you tell him to early he might take advantage of you
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It seems that lately my friends have been letting me down. They always say I am being walked over by people when in fact it usually ends up being them doing it. I have been dating my boyfriend for several months now and I love him alot, and he makes me so happy. That in mind, my friends don't like me dating him and always criticize me for it and make me feel like crap because he is relatively older than me. Aren't friends supposed to be happy for you? Well mine aren't. I know they see it as lookign out for me, but I don't and neither does he. This is where my problem is. He tells me to not stay friends with people who treat me like this and almost gets mad at me for putting up with it. I'm just so confused lately, what should I do? (link)
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your friends are trying to protect you because they care about you.don't stop hanging out with your friends just because your boyfriend tells you to you should remember that if a guy breaks your heart your friends will always be there to help fix it.i think you should ask your friends and find out exactly why their so worried with this guy,there's gotta be a reason cause if you was dating someone that was 30 you think they will automatically be like oh he's 30 so were worried about you dating him
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It has been about a month since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up after being off and on for a year. Since the week after, my ex and I have still been talking to each other everyday. He has made it clear he still loves me in at least some way, but I've hidden my feelings, telling him I don't want to be with him and I love him platonically. But theres a problem. He has had a girlfriend since the day after we broke up, and he has cheated on me at least three times when we were together. Should I confess how I really feel before its too late? (link)
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i think you shouldn't i think you should hide your true feelings until they go away.i know no woman likes being cheated on and if he cheated on you 3 times in your past relationship who's to say he won't hurt you again.because getting cheated on hurts,i'm not saying that you guys will get back together and he's gonna cheat im saying that telling him the truth is giving him the power to shut you down.
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Hi,
Alright...I've always been known as a tomboy. But in 6th grade I started liking this boy. I would NEVER tell anyone. But, I told myself that I shouldn't care what people think of me, just ask him out. But I can't do that because he's BEST friends with all my friends (that are boys)!! Especially my BEST BEST friend who've I've been friends with since pre-school!!! So, it's been 2 years and I still like him! He talks to me a lot and our lockers are RIGHT next to eachother! So I don't know how my friend would feel. But lately he's been asking ME what the homework was and talking to me when he's near me. On top of that, my BEST BEST friend (that's a boy) told me that the boy I like thinks I'm cool (but he doesn't know[no one does]). And on to of all THAT, I've been hearing his name come up more with my friends (girls and boys). So, I don't know if he likes ME now or not. But now, I'm going to move at the end of the summer, and I figure that on the last day of school I'm going to ask him out. IVE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND BEFORE! Should I ask him out? Does he like me? Would my other friends feel awkward? I'm so condused! (link)
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i think you should ask him out and take a chance i mean the only way you can have a boyfriend is if you chose to take a chance.but i think unless your gonna be able to visit him after you move that(if it last to the point that your still dating when your getting ready to leave)you guys should break up cause distant relationships are very hard to deal with and cause alot of drama.it seems like he really do like you and i think your other friends won't feel arkward because from what you said it really sound like their encouraging the relationship to happen.
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a few months ago my best friend max transferred schools. he was a great guy and i miss him so much. he spent his last day just hanging out with me, and i didnt even know he'd be gone. the day i found out i was so depressed. i started crying in school. everytime i think about him i cry!! i secretly liked him as more than a friend and the sad thing is, i KNOW he liked me too, but then i heard from this girl she was going out with him. and i guess i have to believe it. nobody else can tell me really. unless i asked and that would be sooooooo intimidating to anyone!! weeks ago i thought i was over him but just now i thought of how he used to look at me. one time in the hallway he was on his way to english and i was going to geography and he was staring at me so i looked back then he tripped. i cant get him out of my head. i've had dreams about it, ive been crying for so long and i'm sick of it!!!!!!
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i think you should instead of rushing up to somebody and asking if max goes out with that girl,you should start talking about him and start breezing pass his relationships in the past and then start thinking out loud and question your self asking i wonder who the new girl is.you have to find your own way of forgetting about him cause everybody thinks differently,i know this might not be something you wanna hear but i can't give you advice on how to get over somebody cause i don't know you.i had the same problem and writing poetry helped me get over my guy,you just need to find something that will work for you.
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he is a sweetheart
he is 17 soon to be 18
he is a senior
and im a freshman and im 15
i loike him a lot
i got over him and now i like him again
we were kinda going out
but then yeah . . .
it all went from there
haha
but yeahh
today it was raining and he asked me if i wanted a ride home .
and i was like uh no its ok and he was like come on its ok
and my friend was coming over to my house
and he is a sweetheart
and he gave her a ride to my house also
i reallly like him
and he supposrts me and i support him
but yeah
we only hugged in the past
haha
but today
i gave him a hug saying thanks for the ride
. . .
and he gave me a hug
and i thought he wanted a kisss.
and now i regret not kissing him
iono
i reallly like him
but i hate the fact that he is a senior
but i know he will wait for me
he loves me and i love him too
he really is awesome
its just
i feel like a regret not kissing him
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your not a regret you should never regret anything cause everything happen for a reason.you should try when your more comfortable in the situation cause if you were really comfortable you would have kissed him.
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Okay I MIGHT like this kid named Steven. I stayed back and he's in my grade now. He stayed back a long long time ago in like the 2nd grade so he's 8 days older then me and I can't like him. When I mean cant i seriosly cannot like him. Im not the most prettiest kid OR the most populariest now. Dont tell me I probably look fine because i know i dont so dont bother.. Steven also has a girlfriend and they go out like everyother week its pretty gay but Olivia already thinks i like him when I keep saying No i dont... no, and a bunch of other reasons and Stevens awsome and deserve so much better. I cant tell him that cause we talk but were not good good friends. Olivia also get wicked jelose really easily. Yesturday at lunch steven sat next to me waiting for Olivia to sit down too she sat across the table and started yelling at ME. Saying a bunch of crap and that she would like rip all the hair outa my head if i didnt leave him alone RIGHT infront of him... Steven started yelling too at Olivia. And rebecca told me to just stop flirting with him untill they broke up {again}....
The biggest reason is everyone in my Now grade hate me. They talk to me but they still give me dirty looks and think I dont shower! They start stuff they cannot finish. and Steven has stuck up with me before but Its strange when I walk to my locker and he just stops talking to a kid.. Like he was just talking about me.... so i donno and i dont want to like him but i donno its weird. I like Josh a grade higher in the same grade im saposed to be in... and he will never like me so i understand that but ... ahhh (link)
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so whats your question
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what are periods and why do girls have them? (link)
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2 save you the entire science lesson i'll just give you the short version.it's when a egg in a female break.the egg sits at the top of her fallopian tube waiting for sperm and when it don't get any it breaks.so that's why girls get them.
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well i like this guy letz call him A , but he left 2 high school last year. he had a best friend letz call him M and he goes in my class. they r still friends and stuff..l o l
anyway last year A liked me 2. he even told me. but M seemed like he hated me. now since A left he always lookes at me a lot and a friend of mine told me that when i don't look at him he stares at me like he's madly in love with me or something. i belive her cause she's ma best friend. i just don't get it. last year when we were in 7th grade he acted like he totally hates me , always hung out with A (the guy i like) and looked at me in a weirdish way when i was passing them. now in 8th grade everytime i see M he stares at me like he really likes me. he always react when i pass him. like his friends say something and then he turnes around 2 look at me.
i don't get it. i thought he hates me?! seriously and he always walks around with his new friends and when they see me they wink at eachother and look at M. but he actes like he doesn't care then. but when he's alone or when his friends arent being so stupid he always lookes. and yesterday he was standing by his locker and thought i didn't c him and he totally stared at me. then i looked , he blushed and looked away!?
I DONT GET IT!!!!!!
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in 7th grade he liked you but he knew A liked you so he was trying to be loyal to his friend by not admitting that he like da same girl so he thought the only way he could do that by not giving any clues to liking you is by acting like he hated you.Now since A is gone he can admire you without worrying if he's being loyal to his friend.His new friends probably know that he likes you and tease him around you on purpose that's why he act like he don't care.
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I want to buy some more clothes. Can anyone tell me the name of a website that sells really cute (and cheap) clothes (price isnt as important though). All of my clothes are Abercrombie, and i really want some new clothes because everyone has the same abercrombie clothes.
THanks so much!! (link)
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you can try jcpenny.com,target.com,gap.com,aeropostal.com,macys.com,urbanoutfitters.com,
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