Question Posted Thursday February 22 2007, 10:54 pm
It has been about a month since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up after being off and on for a year. Since the week after, my ex and I have still been talking to each other everyday. He has made it clear he still loves me in at least some way, but I've hidden my feelings, telling him I don't want to be with him and I love him platonically. But theres a problem. He has had a girlfriend since the day after we broke up, and he has cheated on me at least three times when we were together. Should I confess how I really feel before its too late?
HeavensAngel01 answered Friday February 23 2007, 8:58 am: NOO WAY!! Okay keep it bottled up you guys broke up for a reason and he certainly is a player (no effence) if he loved you he wouldn't have cheated ony you! Then got a chick right after you guys broke up! Listen if you tell him you love him it's juss gonna happen again. on and ff on and off you'll get nowhere. There is prob. someone else out their better then him. If he has feelings for you he'll come to you don' come to him you'll seem desprate and don't mind him cheating on you and geting played. You should have respect for yourself move on! i know it's too soon but you got to think about negative things about him to resist him! (i kno it suppost to be posetive but at this moment thats not what you need) Trying dating some other guys you think you mite "like" and see if it was just a faze you were going through or you really do love him even though he PLAYED YOU MORE THEN ONCE!!!!!!!!
vailgirl80 answered Friday February 23 2007, 1:28 am: i think you shouldn't i think you should hide your true feelings until they go away.i know no woman likes being cheated on and if he cheated on you 3 times in your past relationship who's to say he won't hurt you again.because getting cheated on hurts,i'm not saying that you guys will get back together and he's gonna cheat im saying that telling him the truth is giving him the power to shut you down. [ vailgirl80's advice column | Ask vailgirl80 A Question ]
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Thursday February 22 2007, 11:26 pm: tell him how you feel. you only get one chance at life, you never know what you could miss out on. just confess your feelings, but also tell him how you feel about the fact that he`s cheated on you and has had a girlfriend since the day after you guys broke up. try to get him to understand that you may love him, but if he isn`t willing to buckle down and commit himself entirely to you, you don`t want to be in a realationship with him. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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