Member Since: January 3, 2007
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ok so heres the deal
Yes I'm underage, I don't need to be told off about that
It's just that I think that sometime in the near future I may be in a situation where it would be very cool to know something about drinking
Like, how do you avoid gettin caught, what is te appropriate time to drink at a party, and even what are some tips on turning down a drink in a social setting?
This is an honest question, if you're going to tell me I'm a bonehead I already know that, but please help me all you can anyhow.
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dont drink. it makes you look REALLY bad.
at parties - bring a redbull or some energy drink. because itll keep you awake. you see, people only drink at parties when its really lame. they think its "fun" to drink and its a way to "hang out". if youre not drinking, youll be super bored until everyone is totally wasted and doing stupid things. so you need something to keep you awake instead of leaving to go to bed.
turning down a drink - just say no. its easy, it doesnt make you look stupid. there are plenty of other people that do the same thing.
avoiding getting caught - there is no way. when youre drunk, youre drunk. which means your actions are very unpredictable. last time i drank, i lit my neighbors bush on fire and rode a skateboard i lit on fire down a really steep hill and scraped my whole leg. after looking like a complete dumbass getting arrested for the bush and having my leg bleeding everywhere while i had drool coming out of my mouth, i decided its something really stupid to do.
just dont do it.
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I do not know Jake good enough to say hi in the hallways or do anything like that. I JUST got his last name from my friend today. She saved my butt on the bus, but her friend will be mad because my friend said she liked him instead of me. And if she said I liked him (witch i do) I would kill her!
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okay, this is confusing.
but i say - do what you feel.
dont worry about some stupid bitch who cant handle a little competition.
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Ok, my freind wanted me to ask what you guys think about masterbation. Is masterbation healthy, perverted or what? Why? (link)
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most girls would say they dont, THEY DO.
my boyfriend got me to do it and before i thought it was disgusting. its normal and feels good? ha.
ALL guys masturbate. i dont care who he is, they all do.
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Oh my godd. My boyfriends mom saw his hickie that I gave him!! When he gave me my 1st one my mom found out and wasnt so mad, but his mom was upset when she saw it!! I have no idea wat to do. Now wat if his mom hates me. I already thought she did even though i was very polite and try and act normal around her and she caught us making out today too!! Oh my godd!! What should I do im gonna be so humiliated next time I see her!!! What woudl you do if you were in my place? (link)
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yall are dating! what does she think is going to happen??
well, she might not trust yall together so much alone. so expect her to want yall to be under supervision for a while.
respect her desicions though and dont be rude, not even behind her back. itll eventually catch up to her.
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One of my best friends has a boyfriend and have been going out for almost a month. She can never seem to hold on to her relationships because she gets bored easily and her boyfriends no matter what they do she gets annoyed. Hes a really cute guy and very nice but she is starting to not like him. She's been asking me how to dump him because a lot of girls already hate her for going out with like the hottest junior in the whole f**cking school. And now she's afraid more and more people will hate her more if she breaks up with him and shes just a freshman and she doesnt want people hating on her. So if you were her and in her position, how would you break up with him? (link)
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tell her to break up with him!
shes a freshman and if she breaks up with him through you then thats a downfall. im a junior and breaking up with people through friends is middle school crap. dont bring it to highschool. she needs to buck up and tell him. shell learn though.
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Ok, so a while back,i asked if my bf was cheating. I found out he isn't, but my friend really likes him. She is my friend, and she knows i LOVE him to DEATH, but she dosen't get it. She wants him, but he can't stand her because she is always flirting! He dosen't know how to get her to leave him alone, and neither do i. How do i get her to understand he is MINE and not hers? ♥Please Get Her Away From Him♥ (link)
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i had a friend like that. its a really long story.
i just got rid of her. she wasnt too good of a friend anways.
before you do anything like that - consider this : who has done more for you, him or her? who has been there for you the most? who is the person you can ALWAYS turn to? and how long have you dated him?
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Okay, so I'm 14/f and I'm in 9th grade. I'm taking all IB Prep Courses and that's keeping me up until at least midnight all the time. I'm in strings, forensics team, key club, ruriteens, violin lesson...
Key Club doesn't take much time. Ruriteens takes a little bit of time. Violin lesson I have every Wednesdayafter school for an hour. Forensics team takes dedication--we meet every week and practice all the poems we'll be doing for competitions. Strings is iffy when it comes aruond the Strings Festival time where we go on trips, compete, blah blah and it takes time to practice. IB Prep, ohhh don't get me started on it.
the problem is on top of that, i want to join the color guard team [is it "color" guard?] heh. i've heard that it takes up a lot of time and i know that it interferes with strings stuff and clubs and my hw. but i really really want to do it!! but i don't know if i can manage to fit that into my hectic life right now. should i just forget about it or do it next year, blah blah what should i do about it> (link)
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i have a friends on color guard. she has a class for it during her 1st period and she practices after school sometimes. but she has to sit through football games, even though they only perform during half time. she still has to sit with all of the color guard/band the whole game.
if youre an a student through your whole schedule, i say go for it. it takes a LOT of dedication and practice. if you want to do it, start it now! because youre young and its not easy starting color guard later on in highschool.
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any have any tips to get clear skin?
my skin is VERY VERY sensitive so I can't find a product that won't make my skin turn all red and get dry.
and i want to get rid of my pimples because they make me feel very self-concious. : / (link)
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my skin is the same way - it took me 6 years to find something PERFECT.
there are these exfoliating sponges you can buy for $2 at walmart for your dry skin. they're gentle but use it only twice a day while washing. it takes away the dead skin, and also - use moisturizer before you put on makeup. you dont want any dry skin! and you dont want saggy skin at 25 now do you?
anyways, nature's cure is the best product everyone's told me it was great. so i tried it and it works nearly overnight. nature's cure - vanishing creme.
i love that stuff. and good luck!
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hey well i need some major help...
im think im kinda fat and i wanna lose weight like 20 pounds!as fast as possible but i dont know how! i tried eating less and i walk to school everyday (as a way of excercise) and somtimes i go on bike rides i dont know it seems like im not losing weight does anyone else have some simple or easy way on how to lose weight at all???
sincerely
wanna lose weight!!
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There's no simple way of loosing weight. It's all very very tough.
What I found easiest - eat breakfast and dinner. NO SECONDS!!! Go out running after you eat breakfast (get up 30 minutes earlier each morning) and target an area on your body you hate the most. Go onto Google and search on excercises for example (excercises for the stomach). Then just add those excercises onto your routine and keep doing ALL OF THEM! After a while you'll loose that weight real fast.
You just have to keep it up.
...or you can always stick to celery sticks.. 5 calories each stick.. :]] haha, do you want the easy, anorexic way?? kidding. dont go that route.
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well a few days after my perios me and my boyfriend almost had sex. he didnt go all the way in, only the tip, but he said that he might have bust and i could feel the cum over my legs after. im starting to feel realli paranoid cuz i relli dont wanna be pregnant at this age (17)and my lower area looks like its swelling and my stomach always feel full up, does this mean im pregnant or is this jus happening because im realli realli scared (link)
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Same thing happened to me.
17 years old, didn't go all the way in, paranoia.
Get a pregnancy test to be sure of it, get 2 - the kind in the double pack.
But it's probably paranoia. Theres this thing I found out that you can show symptoms of being pregnant because you keep thinking that you might be. There's some woman that actually lactate because they think about it so much. I didn't have my period because I was so paranoid until two days after I took the preg. test.
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I love hollister. Torn mini skirts with uggs and leg warmers and a cute sweater is my fave outfit. But a lot of people I dont pull off the "prep" look? Is that even possible? Ugh, and why do people even CARE what I wear..is it really their business to tell me what I should and should not wear. (link)
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When I think that about other girls - it's usually because they're makeup just doesn't go with what they're wearing. Do something simple with that kindof clothing. A little eyeliner and some mascara. Or I think that way because they're pale, and Hollister mini skirts show a bit of skin. And it all makes me think "That person just threw on those clothes but didn't bother with anything else.
But if you're one of those girls who used to dress differently than the Hollister look, people say that. You just keep wearing and doing what you're doing and eventually they'll back off.
And calling bands Emo. That's kindof what they all are - emo is a genre of music. People are taking it to a clothing style and getting the wrong idea of it all. If you look under emo genre, My Chemical Romance is under there.
Just keep doing what you feel comfortable in and they'll leave you alone.
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ok. i used to have a myspace, but i deleted now, but anyways, me and this boy would like alllllways talk. it was like we were best friends even! but since i deleted my mypsace [cuz i wasn't suppose to have one] me and that guy never talk anymore. and we have one class together. but i do see him a lot during passing time. and i want to keep in touch with him too cuz i like him. like him like him. ++i'm really shy. how do i talk to him? (link)
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It was a good thing you deleted that Myspace because it gets you to being used to using that as your main source of communication.
Practice your communication skills in a different way - pass notes with him and talk to him. Wait for him to ask for your number - you don't want to come off..slutty by asking for his number. Or you can always say "Hey, i'm going to do (whatever you do on weekends), do you want to kick it with me for a while?" And he'll most likely say yes if he talked to you bunches before. So go for it!
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My mum says I have big breast...! I think I have pretty normal sized ones but she says mine is too big for my age and that it will keep growing until im 18 (im 14) and when i have kids..it will get bigger and hang. I have 36B...sometimes (different brands) a 36c fits too. Is this huge for my age? ALSO I'm kinda fat...so I suppose there is fat that's making my booobs huge!
PLUs my mum didn't relly hve huge ones and she was thin...and I'm half asian...and asians don't relly hve 'boobs'! Is it too big? What can I do to stop it from growing? (link)
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There's nothing to stop them from growing. There's always surgery or loosing the weight, but you're 14 and way too young for that stuff.
But that's just it, you're 14. You're still growing. You'll get taller and some of that fat will go away.
Look at it this way - I was always tall, thin and had NO boobs until sophmore year. And now i'm starting to gain weight and its going every where else BUT my boobs.
Don't worry.
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Can someone tell me more about the religion, Wicca? I just recently found out about it and it sounds so much like me even though I never heard of that religion before (link)
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Google has a lot.
It's a VERY complicated religion because of the mulitiple Gods.
But it's not just about the spells, it's about the religion. Remember that! Because most people get caught up in spells and those types of things. Look into it, it's an interesting religion. Def use google for that. It's too much to explain, unless you have one descriptive question - which you most likely will. Ha.
Good luck
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i know everyone doesn't care but i'm doing my social studdies homework and i can't really do it cause its impossible to find answers in the textbook.
SO DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY
CAUSES AND EFFECTS OF THE SPANISH-AMERICAN WAR?!
anyyyyythinggg to help me.. thanksss so much! (link)
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GOOGLE IT.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=cause+of+spanish-american+war - - cause
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=effects+of+spanish-american+war - - effects
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Well i need help fitting in at my school. I dont have the kind of popularity like the other kids do. So if you can help me to fit in please help!!! (link)
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Sit somewhere new at lunch in your school. Just walk to a table that has someone you'd been wanting to meet and ask if it's alright to sit there. Then just join into the conversation. Don't not talk, otherwise they'll think you're boring and their first impression of you will be that. When you get to know them, you get to know other people. Make connections.
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well alot of these questions have such young girls talking about sex and all that stuff. im 13 and ive never had sex. i finger myself but can only fit in one finger in with out it hurting. i mean i guess im tight and all. but should i be able to do more with myself? and when ever i finger myself i feel this little thing inside my vagina which makes me scared to go in father, what is it?
i no it sounds gross, but i need the help.
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YES, youre hitting the cervix.
youre 13, thats good that youve never had sex. trust me, you get anxious and cant wait till it happens. but once it happens, youll wish you waited until marriage or until you were ready emotionally.
fingering - - im 17 and could only do one finger until i lost my virginity. dont worry about that. youll be able to use two after a while.
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I'm 15/f
I had a job in New Jersey last summer at a hotel and i met a guy there. He's 15 also. He lives in Maine. We made out 3 days before he left and were kind of "dating" the over the next 2 weeks. We talked on the phone all the time after he left, but then I went to the hospital and when my friend called him and told him he didn't seem like he cared at all. My friend yelled at him and i know that wasn't good. He told me we he didn't think it was a good idea to "date" anymore. The day i got back (which was about a week after that) he got a new girlfriend. They broke up and he got another one, they broke up, but he has one again. Whenever i call him a loser (joking around) and goes "hey remember you made out with this loser." I really really like him, but i don't know if he stil feels the same way about me. I'm going to see him again this summer and i want to start things over with him. I know i should talk to him about it, but i don't know what to say. Plus, I don't want to feel stupid if he says he really doesn't like me like that anymore.
Sorry this is so long.
i don't know if it makes a difference but he calls me all the time and NEVER wants to talk about his girlfriend, but ALWAYS brings up how we made out and how awesome i am.
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honestly - i wouldnt try it over with him.
i would play the same game he was playing. date around, but just dont call him. are you even sure hes dating other girls? he sounds like one of those guys that lie about that and hes trying to mess with your head. he wants to make you jealous.
but if he is, who needs him? because look how he treats his current girlfriends - while dating them, he calls you and talks about the past and making out with you.
would you want him with you doing that??
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well at lunch, my best friend got this boyfriend so i always sit with her at lunch and we sit with his friends, and im friends with the girls hes friends with which is good but the guys are really hott and stuff, well i like my best friends boy friends best friend, and someone told him and his friends and everyone and im not sure what to do becasue they are cool and i dont want them to gang up on me and make fun of me i get embaresed wicked easaly
so what should i say if they say stuff to me
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dont worry about it. think of it as a thing in the past. if theyre as cool as you say, theyll probably just shrug it off like nothing.
maybe youll get a little smack from it but dont worry.
as for being red, dont think/talk about it. i noticed when you talk about something embarrassing after it happens - it gets worse.
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If you shave your vagina
is it better to use cold or hot or warm water?
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hot/warm. it makes the hairs softer.
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