i thought we had something, but he keep getting other girlfr
Question Posted Tuesday January 2 2007, 9:06 pm
I'm 15/f
I had a job in New Jersey last summer at a hotel and i met a guy there. He's 15 also. He lives in Maine. We made out 3 days before he left and were kind of "dating" the over the next 2 weeks. We talked on the phone all the time after he left, but then I went to the hospital and when my friend called him and told him he didn't seem like he cared at all. My friend yelled at him and i know that wasn't good. He told me we he didn't think it was a good idea to "date" anymore. The day i got back (which was about a week after that) he got a new girlfriend. They broke up and he got another one, they broke up, but he has one again. Whenever i call him a loser (joking around) and goes "hey remember you made out with this loser." I really really like him, but i don't know if he stil feels the same way about me. I'm going to see him again this summer and i want to start things over with him. I know i should talk to him about it, but i don't know what to say. Plus, I don't want to feel stupid if he says he really doesn't like me like that anymore.
Sorry this is so long.
i don't know if it makes a difference but he calls me all the time and NEVER wants to talk about his girlfriend, but ALWAYS brings up how we made out and how awesome i am.
Additional info, added Wednesday January 3 2007, 9:41 pm: when i said "and goes 'hey remember you made out with this loser." i meant "he goes." For the ones who didn't realize that..lol
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i just imed him and he said i was his makout buddy then called me his baby?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? simmonexo answered Wednesday January 3 2007, 1:20 am: honestly - i wouldnt try it over with him.
i would play the same game he was playing. date around, but just dont call him. are you even sure hes dating other girls? he sounds like one of those guys that lie about that and hes trying to mess with your head. he wants to make you jealous.
but if he is, who needs him? because look how he treats his current girlfriends - while dating them, he calls you and talks about the past and making out with you.
would you want him with you doing that?? [ simmonexo's advice column | Ask simmonexo A Question ]
singingfrk7 answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 9:53 pm: well dont take this personal but i think he might be a bit of a man whore he likes to leave you wanting more. Think of it this way he has a new girlfriend what every week, im sure you are a very pretty girl and you can find someone better but if you are like me you arent gonna so heres my best advice when you guys talk again just be like hey can i be honost(sp) with you? and say i really like you and i would like to start over again this summer if thats alright with you? well thats the best i have hun
love always & forever
<3 kristen [ singingfrk7's advice column | Ask singingfrk7 A Question ]
illdomybest answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 9:30 pm: it he wanted to be with you wouldnt he it sounds like hes keeping you for fun. if disrespecting his girlfriend like that by telling you how good it was making out then how do you think hes going to treat you. its not a good sign. it sounds like hes using you and does have much respect for you or his girlfriend. move on. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
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