hey guys my name is kristen i feel that your problems are mine. You may be very open with me i wont judge you i promise, and most likely i will understand your problems no need to be shy. i am 15 and i have been through alot in my life. I have very many friends and i dont choose friends by there looks i choose them by there personality and i tend to get a new friend everyday by talking to random people i feel like a great person when i help people. and thats about it.
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So I kind of secretly like this one boy.
He has a girlfriend, but we had a past.
Not neccasarrily a relationship past,more of like a friendship and sex past,[yeah i know,dumb idea]
Well we both kinda act like we dont like eachother, he's kinda mean to me but not as much as he used to.
Im not really mean to him , i just act like I dont care about him,when i do.
His best best friend told me that he DOES like me and wants me to think he hates me.
I cant really talk to him because he still has a girlfriend but how can I tell if he likes me or not??!
Just by seeing him around, i see him alot.
Sometimes I see him staring and If we have to be together for school reasons, he usually messes around with me and stuff.
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ok hun, i dont wanna sound mean or whatever but its not a very good i dea to like a guy with a girlfriend.... ok i want you to think for a minute prentend you the girl hes with imagine if your boyfriend was messing around with some other girl, and he dumped you for her or cheated on you with her. what if that girl is in love with him. that could seriously hurt someone so just wait until they break up or something its not good to get yourself in that kind of mess trust me i know. do what you want but im telling you if the girl is in love with him it will put you through hell. dont put yourself through that. just be carefull ok?
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why is the beach like paradise? need some ideas for a thesis i'm writing.
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I think one of the most common reasons beach is paradise is because its quite calm and relaxing and people like the ocean or whatever the water is surronding it, i guess its just another place for people to runaway and feel happy in a relaxing area
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I like this guy, Jake.
My birthday was this past Friday, and I invited Jake to my party. He said that he could come.
On Weds. or Thurs., he IMs me and says that he can't come. I figured that he got in trouble or something legit had actually come up.
I just found out that he decided not to come so that he could go to Six Flags with a girl that would soon become his girlfriend.
I'm kind of bothered by this, but I'm not sure if I should talk to him about it or not.
If you were in my situtaion, what would you do?
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I think i would defenitly tell him how you feel and that you know about the six flags thing and if he cares he wont denie it or wahtever, and if he acts like he doesnt care hunny try to move on i know its hard but you will find better
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i didn't know what category this goes in , sorry.
but im 14 obviously a girl, and when i have my period it seems like it controls my life for that week, because im so self concious about what i wear and if anyone can see anything
and all the older girls like teens or in their 20s seem like they don't even get their period.
so what im asking is how do you deal with it?
and become comfortable in what you do and what you wear during "that time of month"?
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try wearing a pad and a tampon at the same time if that will make you feel more supported and i always freaked out about it to if you have to just go up tp a friend and be like hey did i bleed through and walk ahead of her and she will tell you if she can she anything or not.
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Okay, so this may sound really stupid, but oh well. My friend told me she was like stradling her bf making out and then her boyfriend's best friend was like "Ohh you boned (lets call him billy) Billy". And he said it to her like it was a bad thing for "Billy". and she asked me what that meant. so basically, what does "boning" a guy mean?
...andd why is it bad for the guy?
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well maybe he ment that "Billy" had a boner which i dont know if you know what that means so ill throw that out there a boner is like a way of saying a guy is turned on or wants to have sex well hope i have helped
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Here's the problem.
Since around beginning of summer last year, this boy started liking my best friend. Until maybe August/September, the feeling was mutual, until my friend, let's call her Daisy, decided the boy, let's call him Donald, was getting too serious [which he was. I believe he was considering an actual future together]. Daisy moved on quickly, but to this day [coming up on 6 months now] Donald is still OBSESSED. I've talked to him since the day this whole thing began, even when they were still 'together', and nothing's happening. It's just annoying everyone. Nothing is working. What can I [or we] do?!
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try telling him that it has been six months and its time to move on, i know this may not be true but if you have to tell him that he can do better.If he hears it a couple times maybe he will finally get the picture. or you can just stop talking to him all together but thats mean i dont know anything else just kind of try to explain the situation to him
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ive liked this kid for quite a while now
and he told me he loved me and that would never change and that i was amzing and beautiful and eveyrhting
we werent going out either
i thik it was cuase we live bout an hour away and proablly wouldnt see eacthother much
but then he goes out with this girl
and ive been very sad and its been almost a month since theyve been going out
and i seriously dont know what to do
i tried to not like him
but it takes time and i still love him alot!
i look at our conversations and our comments and messges on myspace and his voice and his looks and i just start crying
i even cry myself to sleep
i know it sounds pathetic but im in love with him and i guess he isnt with me anymore
and i seriously dont know what to do
should i talk to? and if i dont what do i say!
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you might want to be brave, call him and tell him how you feel, and if its the long distance that is holding you two apart maybe you should just try and find another guy, there are many out there and i know thats not what you want to hear. i know how it is its happend to me, but i cant honestly say i how you feel about the situation so kind of take my advie if you think its good and follow your heart babe.
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soo on my eye.. like the rim under my eyelashes and above my eyeball.. has been hurtin for a couple days and now theres a bubble on it. what is it?? is it a sti (sp)?? what should i do to make it go away?? (link)
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it is infact a sti (sp) there really isnt much you can do to get rid of it but it is like an ifection under the eye caused by make up and what not it will go away i have had one it suck and its very painful might go to the doctor hun. well hope i have helped
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What does fetish mean? I asked my friends but they left me confused.. and I don't think i was finding the right definition in the book. It said an object believed to be magic ?
Like.. "I have a neck fetish"
Does it mean that an object (fetish) is used for arousal? (link)
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it kind of means like lets just say you have a sock fetish, it would mean you are really obessed with socks. I guess a neck fetish would be like you have an obession with biting necks or kissing them.
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My girlfriend and me have sex and use condoms but I do worry about her falling preganent anyway, is it true that you can still have your period even if you're preganent because she still has her period every month. She says she has a lot of stomach cramps and because of the heat she gets dizzy and feels ill (link)
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pretty much you can only spot (have a little bit of a period every month) or you can have one period while your pregnate, but no i have thought this before, i had the same feelings but i wasnt pregnate, you might want to buy a pregnacy test from walmart they are actually very cheap well i hope i have helped
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ok so heres the deal
Yes I'm underage, I don't need to be told off about that
It's just that I think that sometime in the near future I may be in a situation where it would be very cool to know something about drinking
Like, how do you avoid gettin caught, what is te appropriate time to drink at a party, and even what are some tips on turning down a drink in a social setting?
This is an honest question, if you're going to tell me I'm a bonehead I already know that, but please help me all you can anyhow.
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well if your are asked at a party to drink and you dont want to just say "oh no thank you i cant i have to go to my moms tonight, otherwise i would." how you aviod getting caught dont get in a car with people who are drinking and drink cause alot of times cops just pull people over for no reason just to search them.At a party if its a calm party where there are like 10-15 people and its not crazy and the musics not loud i think that would be fine because cops wouldnt show up there. no actually your not boneheaded, for being an under age drinker its very responsible to ask these things.
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Today at cheering I got switched to one stunt group to another. So all of a sudden this little immature girl in the group that flys sees that i'm her backspotter and automatically goes "woooah" and turns around, and starts raising her eyebrows and saying something to her other friend thats the front spotter. The front spotter is like "i miss taylor" (the old backspotter) and raises her eyebrows to jen the flyer. This is even before I have started doing the stunt. Well all throughout the stunt i'm doing my best and the two girls just keep whispering. In my head i'm like "OH MY GOSH. DO YOU ACTUALLY THINK I DON'T FLIPPIN' NOTICE YOU?"
So finally i'm so pissed off, after one attempt of saying ever so nicely "if i'm doing something wrong, jsut tell me." So finally I say "You know i can just leave now if you want." and I say it in a pissed off tone. The coach is like "DON'T TALK TO YOUR TEAMMATES LIKE THAT." then she asks what is the problem. I say "I would really appreciate it if they just tell me when i'm doing something wrong so I can be better." My question is do you think I was rude/ a bitch? (link)
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oh no hunny lol i have this problem all the time, i guess it tends to just happen when your on a team and the girls become buddy buddy and leave other people out. Then they only want there friends in a stunt group i think what they did to you was very bitchy now you on the other hand were not bitchy i would have been way worse, now please dont take this the wrong way but next time try to wait untill your done and go tell the coach, and if she doesnt do anything then start screaming lol. i hope i have helped
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okay well i started my period 2 days ago on new years eve and it has been pretty heavy but i am sooooo itchy [down there] and i dont know if that is normal but i can't stand and i am scared to go back to school have to scratch all the time :\ and is it bad if the blood gets on the place where you pee out of?
and how long do 1st periods start?
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well i think its pretty normal to be heavy and to ich a little but i found out about a year ago that you pee from your clitorious and you bleed from your vagina so im just giving you a heads up on that but you prolly already knew that
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16/f
I met this one of a kind guy and i love him with all my heart( he treats me like any girl in love should). weve been together for 2 months now and it seems that he may not be interested in me anymore and honestly i cant tell him what it is that bothering me because im afraid hell get mad at me if i do. GRRRR is it just like a phaze? .... am i worrying toooo much? im not sure . im so use to getting my heart broken i dont want this to end its too perfect... (link)
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try to ask him how he feels it may not be what he wants to here but trust me if you dont ask him it will be harder on you if he doesnt love you anymore, if you have to just be like you still love me right? and see what he says. im sure he wont get mad just say i want to ask you somthing please dont get mad, and continue it from there
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I'm 15/f
I had a job in New Jersey last summer at a hotel and i met a guy there. He's 15 also. He lives in Maine. We made out 3 days before he left and were kind of "dating" the over the next 2 weeks. We talked on the phone all the time after he left, but then I went to the hospital and when my friend called him and told him he didn't seem like he cared at all. My friend yelled at him and i know that wasn't good. He told me we he didn't think it was a good idea to "date" anymore. The day i got back (which was about a week after that) he got a new girlfriend. They broke up and he got another one, they broke up, but he has one again. Whenever i call him a loser (joking around) and goes "hey remember you made out with this loser." I really really like him, but i don't know if he stil feels the same way about me. I'm going to see him again this summer and i want to start things over with him. I know i should talk to him about it, but i don't know what to say. Plus, I don't want to feel stupid if he says he really doesn't like me like that anymore.
Sorry this is so long.
i don't know if it makes a difference but he calls me all the time and NEVER wants to talk about his girlfriend, but ALWAYS brings up how we made out and how awesome i am.
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well dont take this personal but i think he might be a bit of a man whore he likes to leave you wanting more. Think of it this way he has a new girlfriend what every week, im sure you are a very pretty girl and you can find someone better but if you are like me you arent gonna so heres my best advice when you guys talk again just be like hey can i be honost(sp) with you? and say i really like you and i would like to start over again this summer if thats alright with you? well thats the best i have hun
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ok stupid question but here it goes: what are good ways to pleasure yourself? 15/f if that helps (link)
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um i think the best is vibrator but its hard to get one at this age you can buy them at spencers
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ok well when i watch porn i prefer to watch lesbian girls make out than girls and guys. but im attracted to guys and not girls. ive had sex with my boyfriend and it was very plesurable. but ive never made out with a girl. does this mean im bi? or should i maybe try it out with a girl and see how it works out??
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i like to call this situation bi curious i actually have made out with girls and im straight bassically we are in the same boat. if you have a close friend talk to her about it i bet she is the same way and if you want to try it get a bunch of your girl friends and play truth or dare and dare someone to kiss someone else and it should go around where your all dareing eachother to do the same thing, well hope i have helped
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well at lunch, my best friend got this boyfriend so i always sit with her at lunch and we sit with his friends, and im friends with the girls hes friends with which is good but the guys are really hott and stuff, well i like my best friends boy friends best friend, and someone told him and his friends and everyone and im not sure what to do becasue they are cool and i dont want them to gang up on me and make fun of me i get embaresed wicked easaly
so what should i say if they say stuff to me
and how do i stop getting so red when they embares me (link)
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umm if they say ooh you like him! Say yeah so what if i do and simply walk away or say no i think your the one who likes him. even if there guys saying it and try to have your best friends boyfriend talk to him to see if he likes you
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alot of my friends are going farthur and farhtur with thier bf's lately, and i want to with mine, i'm just worried about it, being self concious i mean. I shave, but how do i know if thats what he likes? will it be awkward, whatever we do? what if i'm bad at it? what if i'm wierd "down there" or something? (link)
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ok i worried about the same things but i want to let you know that you should probably only have sex if your ready to, and also i think it should be with somone speacial so make sure he loves you as much as you love him. If he loves you he wont think your bad at it or your funny in you down there area, my first few times having sex i didnt move at all and he didnt care, you might just talk to him about these things cuz alot of times its just being scared for no reason. for more info you can message me and ask me anything.
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what are signs that a guy likes you
and what are signs that they dont
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Well there are very many signs of both,
signs that he does:
flirting alot,
always smileing at you,
or in that matter asking for your number.
signs of maybe not:
he flirts with all the girls,
looks at all girls like he looks at you,
or he talks about how hot another girl is in front of you.
well if i wasnt specific enough you can message me or comment me and try to make me understand a little better
i hope i have helped you atleast a little.
love always & forever
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