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was i a bitch
Today at cheering I got switched to one stunt group to another. So all of a sudden this little immature girl in the group that flys sees that i'm her backspotter and automatically goes "woooah" and turns around, and starts raising her eyebrows and saying something to her other friend thats the front spotter. The front spotter is like "i miss taylor" (the old backspotter) and raises her eyebrows to jen the flyer. This is even before I have started doing the stunt. Well all throughout the stunt i'm doing my best and the two girls just keep whispering. In my head i'm like "OH MY GOSH. DO YOU ACTUALLY THINK I DON'T FLIPPIN' NOTICE YOU?"
So finally i'm so pissed off, after one attempt of saying ever so nicely "if i'm doing something wrong, jsut tell me." So finally I say "You know i can just leave now if you want." and I say it in a pissed off tone. The coach is like "DON'T TALK TO YOUR TEAMMATES LIKE THAT." then she asks what is the problem. I say "I would really appreciate it if they just tell me when i'm doing something wrong so I can be better." My question is do you think I was rude/ a bitch?
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You go girl! You definately did the right thing. If you ask me, THEY were the bitches. But next time to avoid the whole 'coach yelling at you' thing, go to the coach before you piss at the other girls, it might just work better for you. I know this because when I was in cheerleading, I was the most hated girl on the team, and everyone wanted me to quit, but just to piss them off without me doing anything (score!) I stayed. Well for a while it was worth it but then they started being even more bitchy to me when it came time to competitions. At that point they wanted me NOT to quit, so I did...ha ha
Sorry about the personal aside but it was to show you that you don't have to piss off at someone to piss them off. Just keep doing your routine and what your supposed to and they shouldn't have any reason to be like that to you. And if they do start being like that, just go to the coach, but not too often because then they'll call you tatletale(SP?) and you don't want that. Hope this is what you were looking for. =]
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oh no hunny lol i have this problem all the time, i guess it tends to just happen when your on a team and the girls become buddy buddy and leave other people out. Then they only want there friends in a stunt group i think what they did to you was very bitchy now you on the other hand were not bitchy i would have been way worse, now please dont take this the wrong way but next time try to wait untill your done and go tell the coach, and if she doesnt do anything then start screaming lol. i hope i have helped
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<3 kristen
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No, I think you absolutley did the right thing.
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no i dont think you were being rude/bitchy to them because in that situation they deserved it. They were the ones being the bitches in this problem!
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Yes, but it was well-warranted.
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that kind of happened to me today when we did chairsits, and one of the stunters go..I miss Mega. And yeah, I got pissed off, but I just kept it to myself.
About your coach, hopefully she isn't like my coach because mine is a heartless bitch. But any hoo, talk to your coach about the attitudes of the other teammates towards you. It's totally disrespectful for them to treat you like that. But if they say anything, it's better to keep your mouth shut and go to your coach and talk to her after practices.
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