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alot of my friends are going farthur and farhtur with thier bf's lately, and i want to with mine, i'm just worried about it, being self concious i mean. I shave, but how do i know if thats what he likes? will it be awkward, whatever we do? what if i'm bad at it? what if i'm wierd "down there" or something?
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if your boyfriend is any kind of a boyfriend at all, then he won't care what it's like "down there." shaved or unshaved its yours & he should be happy just to be near it in the first place. But just because your friends are going further with their boyfriends, doesn't mean you have to. sometimes waiting until marriage to do things is always the best path to choose. if you truly love him, and truly feel ready then you wouldn't be asking yourself all these questions. your first time doing anything is supposed to be romantic, not terrifying.
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First of all, you should be ready for any consequences if they happen to come before moving forward with your bf and not just because your friends. You won't know until he tells you if he likes it or not. It's only awkward if either of you are nervous about the situation. As for being bad at something, that comes with time. So after you two do more together you will get to know what he likes and he'll get to know what you like. and about being wierd down there, don't worry about that really. Everyone is different all the time.
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your choice should have nothing to do with your friends. you not being comfortable should be a sign that your not ready as far as worring about him he should feel privaleged enough that your doing anything with him. sometimes going farthur and farthur isnt always a good thing, if your feelings continue like this obviously your not as comfortable as you should be.
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first you should make sure that you want to go farther for you and him and not to keep up with your friends. Second, if you do, then just relax and go with the flow, if let him take a peek at your layout, and judge for himself. If he likes it thats great, if he doesn't, thats ok too. just talk about it and find a compremise., but if he is a normal guy, then unless you have a wierd smell down there, you wont have anything to worry about.
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ok i worried about the same things but i want to let you know that you should probably only have sex if your ready to, and also i think it should be with somone speacial so make sure he loves you as much as you love him. If he loves you he wont think your bad at it or your funny in you down there area, my first few times having sex i didnt move at all and he didnt care, you might just talk to him about these things cuz alot of times its just being scared for no reason. for more info you can message me and ask me anything.
love always & forever
<3 kristen
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