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im a little scared!!
ok so me and boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we both want to have sex but im scared that i will get pregnant i cant let this happen and hes really cool about not doing anything but i want to im jst kinda scared.
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it's normal to be scared at first.
but planning ahead, taking cautious steps & following procedures will help prevent pregnancy.
make sure you are going to have sex at a time when you aren't fertile, it lowers chances.
use a condom, and if you want, double up. layer two just in case one breaks.
& if you are really scared get on birth control. it's very secretive & they don't have to let your parents know.
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well theres really nothing to stop you from getting pregent except not having sex but you can try bith control and to be really safe use a condom but before he comes tell him to pull out
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if you were a condom then you98 percent protected.thats the bst thing touseor make sure he dosnt cum in you.
or get on birth cntrpl
lots of love,lizzie
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You`re not ready yet. It`s good that your thinking of the consequences first & he`s waiting & laid back about the situation. Just wait till your ready. :) ♥
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The key word you just used was "sacred." That should set off an alarm signal in your head. when it comes to something like sex if you are feeling scared about any aspect of it DON'T do it--at least not now.
Talk with your partner more about it, learn about contraceptive devices and plan. If you are too fearful of sex or anything about it and you end up having it odds are you will not be safe and furthermore won't enjoy it.
I would (with him) go get info on birthcontrol or get yourself on a method of birthcontrol nd keep talking about sex together and build up your security and knowledge, erase the doubt and fears and have a good time as that's what it ought to be about or it's not worth it. Protecting yourself is paramount--pleasure is secondary.
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Don't go too fast. You can always get each other off without sex.
Now when you do have sex, use a condom, get on the pill, or see an herbalist. (Contraceptive herbs are safer than the pill).
Take care and good luck,
AAG
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its always gonna be scary ...there is a risk of getting pregnant...but hey thats what protection is for!...i think you should go for it if you feel comfortable with him and ready to take this step with him...theres nothing wrong with bein a little scared...what can also help is bein in an enviroment where you feel comfortable doin this...but its up to you...:)...hope everything works out;)
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I hate to say this because you probably dont want to hear it, but if you have to ask and youre THIS scared and nervous, youre not ready. Its probably not best to just jump into sex. Also, theres always a chance you can get pregnant during sex (of course wear a condom if you do!) If youre SURE you want to do this and its not just pressure, then make sure youre protected. Make him wear a condom and if you can, buy birth control from a health clinic or youre doctor. This is the only way you can be pretty sure you wont get pregnant - besides abstinence.
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well if your scared then maybe you should wait dont rush these kind of things. And if you do decide to do it then you should wear a condom. And if hes okay with waiting then maybe you two should talk it over.
hope this helped
love always so92cal
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