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I really have NO clue whatsoever to get him for his 16th birthday gift. He said that I didn't need to and if I insisted to get him money but I don't wanna get him any form of gift cards or money because I don't want there to be a little competition over who got him the most money and blah blah. These are things he's into:
-He's gay
-He loves photography--like LOVES
-He's into foreign things (Speaks Spanish and German, his sisters are adopted from China, his mom, although she is caucasian [sp?] was born and sorta raised in Japan)
-He is in a divorced family if that helps much
-We're going to movies and to a Japanese restaurant
-He blabs on and on about America's Next Top Model, Flavor of Love, Everyone Loves New York (or something with NEw YOrk in it...hte girl from Flavor of love)
-He hates his cell phone because it so out of date
-He's addicted to facebook
-He likes the band tATu, Evanescence, the song Fergalicious, and stuff like that. But he already has all the CDs so not much luck there

Hope my info was good enough? I just don't know what to get him. And as I said NO GIFT CARDS/MONEY!!! And around what price range should the gift be? I'm just a good friend. Not like bffl or anything and I'm only 14 with not much money left (link)
well maybe you could hook him up with someone. cuz if your close to california im hot and available. but if not you could get him a season of his favorite tv show. you could also get him posters of evanescence, or anytihng dealing with his favorite bands.


So, there's a song I totally fell in love with. The song is "Love Me Dead" by the band Ludo. I've looked on iTunes and Purevolume, but I can't find a downloadable copy anywhere. The band used to have it on their myspace and it's on their purevolume page, but it's not loadable.

Is there anyway to access this song and download it? I know it's pirating, but you don't understand- I'm in LOVE with this song.

Someone help! (link)
i would suggest limewire i use it all the time i have thousands of songs on my ipod. its simple just enter in ludo and itll bring up every song they ever sang and music videoes pictures evereything there is about them limewire helps. just go to limewire.com and download the software.

hoped this helped,

love always so92cal


okay so I have no eyebrows.

Can you dye the hair around your eyebrows to make you have fuller eyebrows?

I've seen it on America's Top Models and on Extreme Makeover, I believe? There's hair around your eyebrows that are not dark but there..

So if I go to a salon type place.. could they fix my eyebrows?

They are pencil thin and way too close to my eyes.

Even people have noticed it. I want my eyebrows to be up higher but hair only grows on the bottom ?


I'm not asking if I could dye my eyebrows.. just the light colored hair around it to make fuller eyebrows.. Yea?
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yes you can you know thats funny you ask because one tim i died my hair and it was so dark it lookked like i didnt have eyebrows so i died the hairs close to my eye and it came out great.

hope this helped,


love always so92cal


Ok male 17 and i am tring really hard to stop masterbating so often but i cant seem to do it any tips? thanks (link)
i know exactly how u feel its hard but try to keep your mind on something else so about how many times do you do it say weekly because its very normal during puberty.


okay so my bf is a 7th grader and im 8th. and well i think i like him but idk becuz we dont really talk that much and everyone makes fun of me since im going out with a 7th grader so should i break up with him or what should i do? (link)
well its totally up to you if you like him than thats all that matters dont care what people think i went out with an older woman when i was younger and i didnt even notice because i was there for her not by what anyone else thought.


hoped this helped


love always so92cal


okay so i hate school becuz i dont get anything! and so most of the time my friends just give me there papers to copy off of and whenever i read a book or something i always dooze off and daydream and so then ive got no idea wat i just read and i can never get myself to do my homework like idk if im just reallly lazy or something but i just get frusterated when im doing it and have to take a break but then i never go back to doing it i just tell myself ill do it tomarow. is there anyway to change my habits since im already farrr behind. and how do i confront my parents about this? (link)
i know exactly how you feel i always put it off till tomorrow. I changed by telling myself that i dont want to end up on the side of the street begging for money because i didnt feel like doing my homework. Just think of all the bad things that can happen if you dont change.

i hoped this helped

love always so92cal


what are some good gifts you can get your boyfriend for valentines day?
thanksss (link)
well if he loves you alot hell be thankfull he has you but you could get him a bear or choclates or surprise him and take him somewhere guys like that when a girl surprises them.


hope this helped

love always so92cal


i like this guy alot. hes my best friends boyfriends best friend
and everyone found out i like him today.
even him
but i really dont think he likes me
and im very shy around him. and we never talk and if we do its like for 2 seconds
i act weird around him
and every time he brings something up or something i get all red and then they question me and i get reder
i dont even know what i need help with i just need some advice with this
thanks! (link)
i know it may sound cheesy but be yourself and if he doesnt like you for that then you werent ment for him. A real man likes girls for who they are

hope this helped

love always so92cal


i have a question about downstairs shaving..umm i usually get a wax done in the summer but the rest of the year i just shave and my boyfriend really likes the strip and i dont kno how to do the strip with a razor or what else can i use or how should i try it on my own... any tips? (link)
well dont worry your not the first to ask this. well you could look it up on the internet under many websites which can help you achieve your desired look.


hope this helped

love always so92cal


16/f
I met this one of a kind guy and i love him with all my heart( he treats me like any girl in love should). weve been together for 2 months now and it seems that he may not be interested in me anymore and honestly i cant tell him what it is that bothering me because im afraid hell get mad at me if i do. GRRRR is it just like a phaze? .... am i worrying toooo much? im not sure . im so use to getting my heart broken i dont want this to end its too perfect... (link)
well you should ask him how he feels about you. and im sure he will say he does if you tihnk that this is perfect. And if he gets mad at you for something so small then you two shouldnt be together. And maybe if you give your realtionship more time things will progress.

i hoped this help
always so92cal


ok so me and boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we both want to have sex but im scared that i will get pregnant i cant let this happen and hes really cool about not doing anything but i want to im jst kinda scared. (link)
well if your scared then maybe you should wait dont rush these kind of things. And if you do decide to do it then you should wear a condom. And if hes okay with waiting then maybe you two should talk it over.


hope this helped
love always so92cal


ugg i cant stop my skin from breaking out everywhere, its not from my period cause i got it like 2 weeks ago. Is there any methods to helthier clearer skin? please help me=)
p.s any advice helps! (link)
well if your a teenager thats normal i always break out but if you want to stop it i suggest proactive i use ti everyday and it works. if that doesnt work you could try oxy face wash that works. I love this stuff called morning burst it makes you feel fresh and clean and it really helps. Just try to stay away from those damp face pads you can buy because they dry out your skin and it makes matter worse.

i hope this helped, love always so92cal



I'm 22, F. My whole family is certain that my mother has bipolar disorder. Her mother (my grandmother) had it too. I've looked up information about it, and my mom fits the classic case:

-bouts of depression, paranoid thoughts/feelings

-obsession--especially about weight/food--she practically tortures my poor sister about this, to the point of almost being a spy.

- manic thoughts/actions: she frequently does things to draw attention to herself. (for example, at parties, she dances really crazy and laughs the loudest)..she also complains (abnormally) if she has even the tiniest amount of pain

-yells like a maniac when she gets mad.

- she denies that anything at all is wrong with her, and frequently accuses family members (especially my dad) of being paranoid...as a reminder, we are all normal, and she's the only one causing excessive problems.

the root cause of ALL our family problems is my mother. I swear..everyone knows it. If it weren't for her, everything would be fine. I've heard things from my brother/father, and see things with my own eyes--we all know she's bipolar, but she does not acknowledge that she has a problem AT ALL>

So, I'm 22...and I've never, ever displayed any signs at all of bipolar disorder. But I know it's mainly genetic, and I'm concerned that it could show up later on in my life, or my siblings..

Does anyone know what the chances of it showing up are, given that I'm already 22 and have never shown any signs at all?
Thanks (link)
i would so if u dont show the signs as your mother and your grandmother has then again they are older so you may develope it at an older age. But it would be good to consult a doctor now that you know your family history.


ok soo, this is my first month starting birth control.. and me and my boyfriend have sex quite frequently.. without a condom.. but he still pulls out. i know it isn't smart but anyways is the birth control affective the first month? bc im already having signs of sore breast and cramps and i spotted a little bit, and i hope its not pregnancy, and just the start of the birth control?

PLEASE HELP. (link)
well the doctor should have told you to wait more than a month to have sex. my sister did the same thing and she is pregnant. and by what your describing i would say ur pregnant but you should immediatly see a doctor just to make sure




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