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birth control


Question Posted Tuesday January 2 2007, 1:59 am

ok soo, this is my first month starting birth control.. and me and my boyfriend have sex quite frequently.. without a condom.. but he still pulls out. i know it isn't smart but anyways is the birth control affective the first month? bc im already having signs of sore breast and cramps and i spotted a little bit, and i hope its not pregnancy, and just the start of the birth control?

PLEASE HELP.

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nenarb69 answered Tuesday January 9 2007, 11:55 pm:
you can still get pregnant on the pill. and even if he pulls out you can still get pregnant. usually right before a guy cums he releases stuff before the final blow which could get you pregnant. my advice is either use a condom or go on the shot.

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tinkerbell17 answered Monday January 8 2007, 9:02 pm:
remember ALWAYS ALWAYS USE CONDOM!
pills helps you with birth control, but thecondom prevents you from getting any disease!

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alisonmarie answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 1:33 pm:
Generally, it's safest to use another form of birth control (like a condom) for the first month you are on the pill. The pill is NOT effective immediately.

Pulling out does not protect against pregnancy, because pre-cum (the tiny amount of liquid a penis leaks from the moment it is hard) has thousands of sperm in it.

Your symptoms could be pregnancy, or they could be normal PMS. Your safest option is to consult with your doctor, who will be able to advise you more accurately.

I wish you the best.

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pinkkittykathy answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 11:43 am:
Talk to your mom now! you may be pregnant! See a doctor, don't delay talking to your mom or a female relative that is an adult. see your doctor.

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so92cal answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 5:23 am:
well the doctor should have told you to wait more than a month to have sex. my sister did the same thing and she is pregnant. and by what your describing i would say ur pregnant but you should immediatly see a doctor just to make sure

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russianspy1234 answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 2:30 am:
generarly, id say wait a week to be safe, but it might be different depending on the particular brand of birth control. wouldnt be a month though. just buy a home pregnancy test you can get it at walmart, itll be cheap

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kittykat08 answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 2:29 am:
i feared what you are afraid of now when i started (been on it almost a yr now) birth control begins to be trully affective at about 2 weeks into the pill. so if you are your good. if not then you really need to be careful because my dr. said if you do it when you first start before 2 weeks are up then its actually worse than before without pill or condom..so good luck.

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Igotamonopoly answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 2:29 am:
I remember hearing that it isn't effective the first little bit.

I'd use a condom for a month just in case, and get Emergency Contraceptive.

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