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fingering
13 f
well alot of these questions have such young girls talking about sex and all that stuff. im 13 and ive never had sex. i finger myself but can only fit in one finger in with out it hurting. i mean i guess im tight and all. but should i be able to do more with myself? and when ever i finger myself i feel this little thing inside my vagina which makes me scared to go in father, what is it?
i no it sounds gross, but i need the help.
thanks
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It doesn't sound gross.
Sooner or later you won't be really tight. If you continue to finger yourself, you will most likely stretch yourself out. Since you're only 13.. you still have some growing to do and maybe in a few years.. you could do more.. But until then.. I wouldn't personally try to force fitting more fingers if it hurts.
You are touching your cervix.
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YES, youre hitting the cervix.
youre 13, thats good that youve never had sex. trust me, you get anxious and cant wait till it happens. but once it happens, youll wish you waited until marriage or until you were ready emotionally.
fingering - - im 17 and could only do one finger until i lost my virginity. dont worry about that. youll be able to use two after a while.
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Anythig about sex is perfectly natural and not gross including masturbation. I hope you are not ashamed or others reading this are of anything like this. Tons of girls do it, same with guys.
I think I may have (being a guy I hope I got it right) found out what you are describing. I think you are hitting your cervix there if t feels cone like or hard. Definition from Wikipedia: The cervix (from Latin "neck") is the lower, narrow portion of the uterus where it joins with the top end of the vagina.
"It is cylindrical or conical in shape and protrudes through the upper anterior vaginal wall. Approximately half its length is visible with appropriate medical equipment; the remainder lies above the vagina beyond view. It is occasionally called "cervix uteri", or "neck of the uterus".
That sounds ike what I think you are talking about. I'm not sure what to recommend about more than one finger. Maybe you need to relax more before trying two. I hope this helps you relax a little more and have fun rather than worry over it.
Trust me, if it were not your cervix or something that is supposed to be in your vagina you would be feeling pain or sick by now because when something is wrong there's a hell of a lot of warning signs.
If there are none present I would just relax or mention to your mom what it is. Foreget about feeling embarassed there as she was your age once and knows about this stuff. or ask an older female you trust Also google Scarleteen on the Web as it's designed for teens to help answer these kind of embarassing questions with a staff of experts there. This is not to advertise as I have nothing to do with them but when confused sure, i turn to 'em and friends do also.
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Well because you're young your vagina doesn't have expierence not so stretched out basically. You really shouldn't be able to do more finger amount because you are still virgin however some girls can. You don't have to worry about it. What you feel is probably just the inners of your vagina. If it's round and circular and hurts? If it itches? Or if it's realllly hard and you cannot really move it I would consult a doctor.
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