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Okay, so theres this guy that i really really like, we talk on the phone every night & he likes me too. The problem is that i just broke up with my ex bf almost 2 weeks ago now & im working on a friendship with him..and i dont want this to ruin it. plus my ex knows that i was talking to this guy on the phone while we were dating, but it was just to help me through a difficult time & i told him that now & he heard that i did like him before. So im worried that we wont be able to be friends now if i end up dating this guy & i really want to do both. i dont want to hurt my ex anymore than i already have but i really really like this guy, hes nothing like any other guy ive dated. we are planning on hanging out on spring break but not saying anything so my ex dosnt find out, atleast not yet. Also theres another little problem, one of my best friends liked the guy i like a few months ago i told her and she said she dosnt care but i dont know if shes lying or not cuz i asked another friend about it& they told me that she is kinda upset about it & i completely understand how she could be a little mad but she has been ignoring me lately & i just dont know what to tell her, she kind of hides her emotions from people, then she started telling me not to like him because he lied to her, but no one knows for sure if he did or not. but that dosnt change the fact that i really like him. So what do i do about my ex & my friend? When do i tell them that we are hanging out now? My other best friend knows everything about this, but she wasnt sure what to tell me about this. So please help!

you shouldnt have to hide this from your ex. but if you also just dont want him finding out.. just dont talk about this new person. if things do get serious between you two then go for it. if you and your ex boyfriend are really over and done with he should still be your friend. as for your friend you need to sit her down and tell her straight out that you want the truth about him .. ask her questions. if shes bothered by it give it a little while.. if she says shes fine with it and she doesnt like him anymore then go for him. if shes upset about it later, thats her fault not yours.

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I'm confused, whats the difference between kissing and making out?

kissing someone is just like a peck.. like one quick little thing like people normally do on the cheek.. or where ever you feel like kissing someone.

makeing out has tongue involved, lasts a lot longer and is a lot more sexual :]. a lot more fun too.

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my mom and older brother constantly tell me how i was a mistake and how i was the worst one and im only here because the condom broke. my mom even said if there was a chance to save my life, and the 2 dogs life, she'd save the dogs. my brother is constantly calling me names, ugly, etc. and when i was younger he used to hit me when my mom went to work. not like little hits, like punching. now he just verbally abuses me. my real dad isnt in my life, the memory of him is fading in my mind considering i only saw him one time. my stepdad is extremely lazy and is annying. i used to just accept what they said to me, and how my brother hit me but i cant anymore. i fight back-ish. i'd rather have my mom hit me than talk to me like that. i kinda edge her on to. such as her: "dont get that attitude with me, i'll back hand you across the face." so i just say "do it". she has a couple times.

everytime i hear my friends talking about how mean they're parents are by calling her "weird", but she really is weird. so im thinking "shut up." or "ohh. howww horrible" and its annoying.

after my mom usually says mean things to me and same with my brother i got in my room and cry secretly and listen to music. then like i think about everything and my wrists feel extremely weird like they are screaming "CUT ME" but i dont. i usually hurt myself some other way to release everything, but something that doesnt scar, like scratching, hitting myself, i just cant help it.

is it bad/mean how i cant stand my mom, and brother? and is it like bad for me to hurt myself other ways to relieve everything?

i cant talk to my mom about it, i dont talk to her at all about anything. same with the rest of my family. and its not like im a horrible person. my family doesnt really even know me, like at all besides facts like birthday, etc. and i get really good grades and try my hardest, im not doing drugs or anything or even in a bad crowd.

i mean like, do u blame me?

sry it was long, ANYTHING could help.

you really need to tell someone. like i really dont know what to say about anything your mom shouldnt say that. and your brother needs to stop hitting you its againts the law. you need to do something let them know that your just as powerful. try and spend as much time around your friends and stuff and let them know whats going on so maybe they can do something to help. as for me i was a cutter. but dont ever do it. you just end up scaring and scars just reminds you of the things you wanted to forget. you should stopp hurting yourself. try talking to a school councelor. cus they cant tell anyone if you tell them not to but it'll probably take the stress off of you if you talk to them.

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soo i just got my period. and im kind of confused- about everything. how long can i leave a tampon in? can i wear one to bed? and how long does it last? one week every month?


14/f

you shouldnt leave a tampon in for more then a few hours. if it starts to bother you take it out emediately, you can get infections. no youu shouldnt wear one to bed because thats more then a few hours. you wear pads to bed its uncomfortable but right when you wake up you can put in a tampon. it usually last 3-5 days. sometimes more usually not much less. you probably will have very little or a lot concidering you just started. you get it every 28 days. at first you wont have it every 28 days. sometimes youll go longer and sometimes youll end up getting it sooner. once you have it for about a year things willl start to go normally and youll have it on a scedual.

hope i helped some. if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.

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ok well i'm catholic but i masturbated and it feels really good even though feel uncomfortable i do it well cause i love the feeling should i stop? my friend doesn't know but we talked about it and she said people encourage it please help me cause i really like doing it

its a natural thing. everybody does it at least once in there life. and if they like it they keep doing it. just because your catholic doesnt mean you cant do this.

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Alright...Im a 15/f
I have a boyfriend of almost 4 months now. and known eachother since 7th grade.
I love him....
i just dont know if i like him.
When i talk to him....Sometimes i get pissed off and he hasnt really even done anything im just sick of talking to him. and then theres times where he deserves me to be mad at him and i just cant be.

I have no idea what to do!!!
Break up or not?

If you say you love him as a friend thats different then loving him like a relationship. You need to think of things before you make up your mind. try answering these questions:

-Would it bother you seeing him with some other girl?
-If you broke up would you regret it?
-Do you infact still love him?

if you answered yes to any of these then id say stick with him.

if he really is pissing you off to the point where you cant handle it try talking to him before you break up with him. hes going to get you mad thats just what guys do but if its something that really bothers you, you need to let him know.

dont breakk u p with him just yet. wait it out and deffinetly talk to him first.

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Hi, It is MariahWannabe here, and you'd probarbly guess it was me anyway.

Because I'm 13, all the songs mariah made before I was born and between 1993-1997 I don't know all the words and songs.

Please can you all help me out by writing a list of songs that she sung before I was born so I can make some cds and stuff

All I know is "So far"

Please!!!!No 2005/2006 Songs or greatest hits songs please or emancipation songs if you can help it

go to www.letssingit.com and look up mariah carey it has the lyrics date the album came out and all that stuff.

hope i helped

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well my boyfriend stopped cutting a year ago, and hes getting worried because his scars haven;t gone away. how long does it usually take for them to go away?

They wont. Before you cut you need think there are always going to be scars. i have personally expirienced it. Cutting is to relive the pain but the scars are going to be there forever as a reminder of why you did it to begin with. you can try using creams to make them fade but they wont fully go away espessially if they were really deep.

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Ok, well a couple years back I met this guy over the internet. He lives in Egypt and I live in Canada. We've been on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures weekly. Is it possible that after all this that he is a fake? Because I'm really starting to get attached to him and for our school trip we're going to cairo and we were going to meet then. Should I go through with it or what. I'm really confused by it all. Sometimes, well alot we talk about our problems and well we help eachother out, I'm just scared that I'm going to get my heart broken and never be able to trust anybody anymore. What can I do about all this?

it is possible for him to be a fake with all the technology we have these days. but its not likely if youve talked to him on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures. if he looks the same in all the pictures as he does on the webcam its likely hes not a fake. dont get your hopes up to high if he isnt as perfect as he seems. dont forgegt you can make yourself look better on computers with picture editors. also i wouldnt go alone to meet him make sure at least one other person is with you incase thigns do go wrong. but do go for it. it will be fun even if you dont exactly like him that much. he seems like a person you can trust and talk to.

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Hello. I'm in 9th grade. I have guy friends, not a lot but I still have some. Most of my guy friends are either in grades below or ahead of me. Most guys in my grade are like..I don't know they either don't want to talk to you, or they want to stare at your ass all day. I really want some more guy friends to hang out with. How can I get more? I'm a very outgoing person and I can make friends easily, so I can start conversations. Please help me. Thanks :)

i have that same problem. im in 9th grade and i have a ton of guy friends but almost all of them are in 8th grade or higher or just not in my school. i try hanging out with a ton of my friends that are girls and have them bring there cousins, brothers, guy friends a long. or go on a double blind date with one of your friends and even if things dont work out with your date, you still have a new friend. talk to more people or if you have an instant messenger go into chat rooms with your friends or on myspace add a friend's friend. there are many ways to meet new people you just need to think of the possibabilities. :]

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