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my mom and older brother constantly tell me how i was a mistake and how i was the worst one and im only here because the condom broke. my mom even said if there was a chance to save my life, and the 2 dogs life, she'd save the dogs. my brother is constantly calling me names, ugly, etc. and when i was younger he used to hit me when my mom went to work. not like little hits, like punching. now he just verbally abuses me. my real dad isnt in my life, the memory of him is fading in my mind considering i only saw him one time. my stepdad is extremely lazy and is annying. i used to just accept what they said to me, and how my brother hit me but i cant anymore. i fight back-ish. i'd rather have my mom hit me than talk to me like that. i kinda edge her on to. such as her: "dont get that attitude with me, i'll back hand you across the face." so i just say "do it". she has a couple times.
everytime i hear my friends talking about how mean they're parents are by calling her "weird", but she really is weird. so im thinking "shut up." or "ohh. howww horrible" and its annoying.
after my mom usually says mean things to me and same with my brother i got in my room and cry secretly and listen to music. then like i think about everything and my wrists feel extremely weird like they are screaming "CUT ME" but i dont. i usually hurt myself some other way to release everything, but something that doesnt scar, like scratching, hitting myself, i just cant help it.
is it bad/mean how i cant stand my mom, and brother? and is it like bad for me to hurt myself other ways to relieve everything?
i cant talk to my mom about it, i dont talk to her at all about anything. same with the rest of my family. and its not like im a horrible person. my family doesnt really even know me, like at all besides facts like birthday, etc. and i get really good grades and try my hardest, im not doing drugs or anything or even in a bad crowd.
i mean like, do u blame me?
sry it was long, ANYTHING could help.
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Try talking to your school guidence counsler, or a trusted teacher. Tell your friends how you feel. Talking to someone (other then a stranger on this thing) will help. Let it all out. Go somewhere (where you can) and scream as loud as you can. (not like swear qwords just a scream) Let it out.
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you need to talk to a school counselor. i really don't know what qualifies as abuse but my friend treid to kill herself several times and it begun kinda like your situation did. ask your mom why she is so mean to you. if you stopped her from achieving something and why she can't show a little affection.
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Oh my god i was so you as i was growing up. there were 5 kids and i was labeled the black sheep. the retard, the idiot, ugly, moron. you name it. my mother also hit me.On a daily basis. there were wrestling matches in the living room with my brothers and sisters beating me up. When I would cry, she would call me a wally whiner whatever that is. Turns out she was constantly drunk. Eventually my way out was attempting suicide. I went to school counselors for help and the dumbasses would call my mother. when i got home she would beat the hell out of me. It is a proven fact that verbal abuse leads to physical. Please go to the police yourself. they will get you in a new home be it with a relative or a caring foster family. Your life will get better. Now I have 3 beautiful kids and a wonderful fiance. And there isnt anywhere we go where people dont walk up and tell me Im beautiful, guess mom was drunk. now shes a withered old bag. charma does exist. good luck sweetie. write me if you need to. kimberly7777@hotmail.com.
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you really need to tell someone. like i really dont know what to say about anything your mom shouldnt say that. and your brother needs to stop hitting you its againts the law. you need to do something let them know that your just as powerful. try and spend as much time around your friends and stuff and let them know whats going on so maybe they can do something to help. as for me i was a cutter. but dont ever do it. you just end up scaring and scars just reminds you of the things you wanted to forget. you should stopp hurting yourself. try talking to a school councelor. cus they cant tell anyone if you tell them not to but it'll probably take the stress off of you if you talk to them.
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i dont blame you for not being able to stand them...but you know what? you know for a fact that NONE of the stuff they tell you is true!youre here for a reason and mean alot to many people so when your brother or mom say those things,stand up for yourself! they have no right to treat you that way but if you stay strong and find ways to release your frustrations in ways besides hurting yourself, i promise it will be alot easier on you. try out some things that release your feelings and if any of them help,stick to that! hurting yourself may seem like an answer..but its NOT because you are so much better than that than to do that to yourself..if you show them that youre confident and able to be happy..youll feel amazing..and when you turn old enough to move out..youll be ready to face anything..just go to your friends whenever you need advice because friends are always there for you and never wanna see you down..everythings gonna be okay i promise..just keep your confidence and find a new release..do things that make you happy and no matter what they tell you..NEVER BELIEVE IT
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First off, there's no body to blame but your mother and brother. Their behavior is irrational, insensitive, and just plain WRONG. She has no right to abuse you, verbally or physically. I totally understand why you can't stand them...I don't even know them, and I can't either.
Secondly, you are not alone for wanting to hurt yourself. BUT it isn't normal to do something like that. You need to talk to someone about this. Physically harming yourself to take the pain away is dangerous. Go talk to a school psychologist for starters...trust me, it's worth it. They know a lot more about this and can really help you out.
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