Hello ! My name is Kim. I am 29 yrs. old straight female, I have 3 kids and a boyfriend, I have been through quite a bit at my age and have alot of life experience. I love giving advice and getting it. You name it I've probably been through it. I am a very caring and understanding person. If your a teen in trouble, if your man is cheating on you, if you've been hurt emotionally, if you're a single divorced mom, I feel your pain. Nothing bad lasts forever.Always remember that.If you want a face to go with the advice look me up on myspace at kimberly7777@hotmail.com...
Gender: Female
Location: Cleveland
Occupation: Administrative
Age: 29
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Member Since: November 9, 2006
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Is there anything I can do which can tighten my vagina? x (link)
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dO KEGEL EXCERCISES. It sounds funny but when you pee, stop mid stream and hold it, do this every 2 seconds until you are done "going". Women are told to practice this after child birth. After having 3 kids I can tell you it works!
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what are the pros & cons of breast feeding? (link)
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The pros are you don't have to get up to make and heat a bottle, breastmilk is portable and you can't leave it at home when you go somewhere! It does help you lose baby weight alot faster.. Cons are, you have to feed the baby, your man really cant, pumping breast milk is a chore, the baby might have problems latching on, give it a try, it might come naturally for you, if not switch to bottlefeeding, Oh, and the best pro of all formula will cost you an arm and a leg, breastmilk is FREE.Hope I helped!!
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i heard this new term the other day a guy asked me to give him road head-- at least thats what i think he said. please tell me what it means- if anyone knows any sex languo that only those really hot people know please let me know that tooo. thanx (link)
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I beleive it might mean to give him oral sex while he is driving, although I have never heard this one myself!
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what happens when you eat too many vitamin tablets in one day? i just ate 3 and i wanna eat another becuause they taste so good! lol its the childrens ones.. its kinda like the flinstones tablets but they are kinda bigger. it says to only eat 1 daily though.. what could the side effects be? idk.. (link)
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Not a good idea, there have been children who have eaten too many and had iron poisoning and died!!
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I figured out that I'm a lesbian. and i'm so afraid to tell my mom cause I'm afraid that she will hate me. What do I do? (link)
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I am a 29 yr old mom of girls ages 10 and 9. I have always told myself that if they are bisexual or lesbian i will accept them no matter what and will be fine wtih their relationships. As long as their significant other treats them and me with respect and love that is all that i want for my daughters.I wish that all mothers could have my free thinking. Unfortunately that is not the case, I agree with fishing the idea around with her for a while rather than coming straight out.Keep your relationships low key, just let her think you are too shy to date guys for now and have sleepovers maybe??? You have to feel the situation out for now... if she loves you there wont be any love lost..
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Ok, 'mental health' isn't the right category, but I couldn't find anything close to my prob.
I'm terrified of human beings. Male and female. I only have around 5 close friends, no one else. Whenever it comes to ordering food, I panic, start crying and refuse to call the place to ask for delivery - even though it's on the phone! I make my friend pay for the shopping I do (i give her the money, of course) because I'm just scared to do it myself. Everytime I'm at the mall and I get lost (i get lost all the time...=() I start crying and shaking because of the crowd around me.
I live in a pretty safe and quiet country (the only war we've had was between the bedouins and camels) and I should have nothing to worry about but my case is getting really bad. Because of my fear, I'm not driving, I'm not meeting new people and going to university every day and sitting in the classroom with all those people is just so stressful...
I'll be 18 next week. I'm in deperate need of help here...am I losing it?
Note: I was kinda kidnapped when I was a child. But that was years ago, I can't even remember what happened. Could that thought still be haunting me?
How can I get over this?...
Thanks. (link)
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you are suffering from severe panic disorder, i have had it for years, and it does stem from a trauma in your life as i have known many hard times, seek counseling honey...
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22/f
Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I am 29 he is 42. Big harry deal!!! All of our friends are very accepting, we are totally infatuated with each other and we are going on 4 years. Advantages to an older man ?? Sensitivity, affection, wisdom about life, patience, oh, and amazing sex, they have had time to practice,(smile). I get hit on whenever we go anywhere, and he shrugs it off and is proud. I kiss him and let all those guys know i,m his. Now if he starts to want to settle down that is another issue, you may be too young for that. Great guys are very hard to come by. Keep him. Try it out, let your heart, not a number tell you whats right. Good Luck!!!
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Ok!!! Im tryin to find a really cute nickname for my bf!!! I really suck at thinking of them... And he has like 6 or 7 for me and i hate it.. PLZ help me figure some out.. If u have any good ones thank you (link)
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I know it sounds silly but my boyfriend and I have an awesome relationship and I call him "sweetface", punkin, sugarbean, baby doll, we have fun with it, we try to think of different nicknames every time we call each other, kindve like a private joke.I agree that the usual baby honey sweetie can get old. Good luck and have a sense of humor with it.
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16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help? (link)
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Why are you giving good answers a 1 rating ?? This leads me to beleive that you are getting off on this. dont ask for advice if you dont want it. you have extremely low self esteem. you know what you should do so do it...
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Okay so tomorrow im hangin out with this kid and he obviously wants to have sex because hes really horny all the time and hes like open about it.
he says i love you to me but i highly doubt it. he told me he gets made fun of cause hes a virgin but i think thats the only thing he wants from me. how do i tell if he really does love me? he says he doesnt want to rush anything and hell wait until im ready but i dont know. should i trust him? (link)
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Oh my goodness, you want to know if he loves you? You started out by saying Im hangin out with this kid. Whoa!!! Stop right there. You have to b in a relationship for him to love you. My guess is he is gonna lose his virginity to u and let u go. No you shouldnt trust him. He can say he loves you but he has to show you. Tell him that sleeping with him requires a relationship, if he doesnt like that tell him to go elsewhere, good luck!!!
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I'm still not over my ex after seven months. It still gets me down. So does anyone have any sad/heartbreaking/makes you want to scream/that type of love songs? Anything EXCEPT rap and r&b. Thanks! (link)
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I'm sorry about your loss, a good song is, what hurts the most by rascal flatts. You will be ok.
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im 14 i lost my fist born over the summer and im pregnant again it broke my heart when my daughter died i refuse to get an abortion what can i do (link)
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Where do you live and who are your parents? Why in the world are you pregnant at 14 for the second time???? You are not even old enough to have a job. You need to have an abortion and get a future intact, a stable one with a job and an education before you bring a child into the world!! Welfare is not as easy to collect as it used to be. Sorry to be so blunt but love yourself first. take care of you before a baby.
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my mom and older brother constantly tell me how i was a mistake and how i was the worst one and im only here because the condom broke. my mom even said if there was a chance to save my life, and the 2 dogs life, she'd save the dogs. my brother is constantly calling me names, ugly, etc. and when i was younger he used to hit me when my mom went to work. not like little hits, like punching. now he just verbally abuses me. my real dad isnt in my life, the memory of him is fading in my mind considering i only saw him one time. my stepdad is extremely lazy and is annying. i used to just accept what they said to me, and how my brother hit me but i cant anymore. i fight back-ish. i'd rather have my mom hit me than talk to me like that. i kinda edge her on to. such as her: "dont get that attitude with me, i'll back hand you across the face." so i just say "do it". she has a couple times.
everytime i hear my friends talking about how mean they're parents are by calling her "weird", but she really is weird. so im thinking "shut up." or "ohh. howww horrible" and its annoying.
after my mom usually says mean things to me and same with my brother i got in my room and cry secretly and listen to music. then like i think about everything and my wrists feel extremely weird like they are screaming "CUT ME" but i dont. i usually hurt myself some other way to release everything, but something that doesnt scar, like scratching, hitting myself, i just cant help it.
is it bad/mean how i cant stand my mom, and brother? and is it like bad for me to hurt myself other ways to relieve everything?
i cant talk to my mom about it, i dont talk to her at all about anything. same with the rest of my family. and its not like im a horrible person. my family doesnt really even know me, like at all besides facts like birthday, etc. and i get really good grades and try my hardest, im not doing drugs or anything or even in a bad crowd.
i mean like, do u blame me?
sry it was long, ANYTHING could help. (link)
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Oh my god i was so you as i was growing up. there were 5 kids and i was labeled the black sheep. the retard, the idiot, ugly, moron. you name it. my mother also hit me.On a daily basis. there were wrestling matches in the living room with my brothers and sisters beating me up. When I would cry, she would call me a wally whiner whatever that is. Turns out she was constantly drunk. Eventually my way out was attempting suicide. I went to school counselors for help and the dumbasses would call my mother. when i got home she would beat the hell out of me. It is a proven fact that verbal abuse leads to physical. Please go to the police yourself. they will get you in a new home be it with a relative or a caring foster family. Your life will get better. Now I have 3 beautiful kids and a wonderful fiance. And there isnt anywhere we go where people dont walk up and tell me Im beautiful, guess mom was drunk. now shes a withered old bag. charma does exist. good luck sweetie. write me if you need to. kimberly7777@hotmail.com.
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I heard the OC is gonna be over in february. Like forever, as in not comming back. Is that true!? (link)
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The OC has been cancelled and will be over in february. Sorry!!!
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Okay, I'm having trouble with what to get/make my boyfriend for xmas. He's the kind of person who doesn't expect anything, and when he does get something he kind of doesn't know how to react. Haha..so I don't wanna be a total doofus and make him some mushy gushy card and have him not really care about it or react the way I'd hope he would, which is fine I don't care haha. So, he's really into music, so I'm thinking about getting him a children of bodom CD. I've heard him talking about how he wants it and stuff..but is it a good idea? And any other suggestions of like what you've gotten your boyfriend for xmas would really help, cause I'd like to get him more than just a CD. :) Thank you. (link)
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If you have been dating awhile and might know a thing or two about what he likes and where he likes to shop get him a gift card, I dont know anyone who doesnt like those, that way you can be sure he gets something he likes.
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I've gotten all of my Christmas shopping done, except for one person: my mom. I have no idea what to get her! The problem is she doesn't want anything, and what she does want she buys herself. Could I have some ideas please? Maybe some gifts you got for your own mother? Thanks! (link)
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Try a gift card these are great for the hard to buy for!!
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What should I ask him?
I know it could be cold feet, but he didn't even brother to explain why he cancelled on me. I feel it's embrassed even more if I keep asking him the reason..... (link)
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Maybe you need to let this one go. If it was meant to be he would jump at the chance to be with you, Im sure you are so much better than that. have you ever heard the saying "If you love someone set them free, if they come back to you it was meant to be" well stop chasing him and see if he calls, if not, oh well. there are so many more great ones out there that will give you the respect of an explanation, good luck honey
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Hey.
I'm 16 & my boyfriend is 24.
I've been dating him now for 4 months. We've been having sex & we decided to tell my parents, because we can't keep lying to them. So, I told them on Sunday, and then on Tuesday they told me I couldn't even see him anymore until I'm 17. Which I thought was OKAY, I mean I wasn't happy with that decision, but atleast I could still talk to him. And then last night my SISTER who doesn't live with us called my boyfriend and told him that he couldn't even talk to me on the phone anymore. :(
I'm soo sad, because I don't know what to do! & I'm in love with my boyfriend and I just feel sad all the time, and I'm not usually a sad person.
What can I do!?!
I understand that it's illegal by the way, it's just I asked my mom if I could still see him on friend-to-friend basis without having sex because he's grown to be one of my absolute best friends that I can talk to him about ANYTHING.
Please help. :( (link)
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The age difference is definately an issue. I can see where your parents are coming from, he is an adult. Just be happy they didnt say 18! The situation with your sis was wrong. Ask your parents if this was their decision before calling him as this may fire your parents up more.When I was 16 I dated a 22 year old. My parents did like him because I made an effort for them to get to know him.17 is the legal age to have sex with a adult and that is probably why they chose that age. Ask them if he can come over for dinner or have a talk with all 4 of you together. Your parents do have your best interest at heart, but I know it hurts.I am sorry they are trying to split u up. If he truly loves you he will wait around for you.good luck
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There is this guy I had HUGE crash on, recently kissed me(by the fact he kissed me, I thought he somehow likes me). But for some reasons we didn't see each other since. (for about 4 months) I finally put in all my courage to asked him out early this week. He said yes, and we even pick a place and time to meet already.
In the morning of date we suppose to go out, he called and cancelled it. No reason really given.
What does this mean?
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It sounds like he might have a little bit of cold feet.He sounds nervous, maybe you should ask him.
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My partner and I have a mortgage and a cat and although we have two jobs, because of various problems with our flat, we have very little money this Christmas.
Of course, our families and friends understand and keep telling us not to spend much money but that's really hard for me, especially because I always take Christmas as the one opportunity to really spoil everyone and splash out on them and it really breaks my heart that I can't do that this year. Instead, I'm limited to around £20 per person. Not much.
So instead, I was looking for alternative ideas. Is there anything I could perhaps make for the people I care about? Something that's quite easy but would mean a lot? We have craft stores near where I live so I can get supplies but I'm not creative so please, any ideas would be great. (link)
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A christmas picture of the two of you nicely framed or put in a card, Bake cookies, make candies(or buy them) and get some pretty tins and make a gift tower, get three sizes of tins to stack fill them with 3 different goodies and wrap a pretty ribbon from the bottom to the top.They sell things like these in the stores and they can be quite expensive. Just remember these are the holidays and it is a time for family and love, not so much about how much money you spend.
This can be about a $15 project. Hunt the everythings a dollar store if you have one.
Hope I helped and happy holidays.
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