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what does this mean?
There is this guy I had HUGE crash on, recently kissed me(by the fact he kissed me, I thought he somehow likes me). But for some reasons we didn't see each other since. (for about 4 months) I finally put in all my courage to asked him out early this week. He said yes, and we even pick a place and time to meet already.
In the morning of date we suppose to go out, he called and cancelled it. No reason really given.
What does this mean?
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It could be for a number of reasons. Maybe he's shy around you. Or maybe he's only playing along; it would be a shame if he was. The only way you can really tell is if you talk to him. Talking always sorts things out, you've gotta let him open up to you and let you know how he feels - and you aswell. Just ask him if he's okay around you and if there is anything he wants to talk to you about. If he's a nice guy I'm sure it'll all work out.
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This can be several reasons. If he ksised you .. then most likely he likes you. He could of not liked you that much anymore but think about it. he could of also had some busy schedule. Since this is only the first time, you shouldnt just go straight to the idea that he doesnt like you. Give him another chance. and then if he keeps doing that then.. hes not into you.
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It could mean anything. He may have been blowing you off, or he may have had a very good reason; he may even have had a good reason for not telling you why (maybe he had a really scorching rash and didn't have time to think of a good lie, for instance).
Bottom line is, he owes you an explanation of some kind. You don't mention how long ago this happened, but if it's been more than two days and there's been nothing from him, that's a pretty big strike against the guy right there.
If I were you, I would give him ONE chance to explain himself. Be prepared for an honest answer that you may not want to hear - for instance, he may have simply decided that he doesn't want to go out with you, and that's that. (If that's the case, you should tell him that he should not have said yes in the first place, that your feelings are hurt, and that you would like to be treated with more respect in the future.)
If he does have a good reason and seems genuinely apologetic, then give him another chance. However, the ball's firmly in his court to ask YOU out to make up for it. Do not ask him out again, as this will make you seem desperate.
Don't hold your breath that this will work out, though. It sounds to me like he's not a very thoughtful person, and you might do well to consider the cute guy in your Math class instead. :)
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He's not that into you. Don't sweat it. And don't waste anymore time on him. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and shows up when you have a date.
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It means you dont need him if he is goin to make up excuses.But get around and talk to other boys then when he wants you again say i have other plans!! Thats what i would do.
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It sounds like he might have a little bit of cold feet.He sounds nervous, maybe you should ask him.
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MAYBE he had a busy schedule.
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