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I know my life is no perfect than anyone eles's, but when I want advice,I expect the truth and nothing sugar coated. That's what I do.I tell you exactly how I feel or would do in that situation. In the end I would never judge anyone.
Gender: Female
Location: new york
Occupation: hairstylist
Age: 29
Member Since: November 8, 2006
Answers: 5
Last Update: November 10, 2006
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im soo bored wiht my hair i either wear it straight or scrunched is there sumthing funner i can do with it? (link)
sounds to me like you already do different things with your hair... but if you are looking for a change (i'm not sure how long your hair is) you can do something simple and suttle like highlites, or more drastic like having a stylist texturize your hair (alot) so when you wear it straight you can flip it up and out and get a great new look. If you wear it curly you would get alot of fullness as well. Good Luck!


Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers (link)
i have many friends who are divorced or ended a relationship where they were able to remain friends. They also knew why they ended their relationship. While you and your ex don't know why it ended, i think you will have problems remaining friends. When one of you starts to go out with someone else, i think there will be jealousy or anger toward the other person. I would figure out why it ended before you wonder if you can remain friends, because maybe it hasn't ended yet...


my man and i have been dating for three years. I have caught him lying a few times about where he has been. One time he took his son to a concert 30 miles away. Problem, I called him to ask where he was, he said he didnt want to drive all the way back home so he was going to go hang out at a bar and wait. I said ok,well he came home and the next morning i found a receipt on his dresser it was for a restaurant, I yelled and he admitted he never went to a bar he hung out in a mall and ran into a former female coworker and they just caught up, my suspicion is he set up a meeting all along, i forgave him and moved on. A year later, he was supposed to meet his son at the mall to buy him a pair of shoes. When he got home he smelled of cig smoke. i asked him if his son got a good deal, he said yes, i left it at that, the next day I ran into his son, i asked him if the he liked the new shoes, he said he never met his dad there. I confronted my b/f and he said he waited there for him but he never showed, asked him why he smelled like smoke, he said cuz he went to get a sub and friends of his were smoking outside while talking to him.LIE?one week ago, he got a suspicious phone call, told a total lie about who it was, turned out to be ex.girl. He said he had been talking as friends for a while. Bt he couldnt tell me cuz I'm so jealous! Also I found out in the beginning of "us" he was taping us having sex. I told him no more, he said ok, last week I found a new tiny camera set up.OOPS, he also secretly taped other girls and i told him to get rid of the tapes, he said he did, When I did laundry one day the drawer came out a little too far, there were the tapes!!! He is caring and sensitive and supportive otherwise, why do guys do this???????helppppp (link)
It's not why do guys do this??? It's why do girls keep puting up with that? You don't have to be no rocket scientist to know that your man is nothing but a lying, cheating, no good piece of you know what!!! I don't care how much a man is sensitive and supportive, there's no reason why you should put yourself through all this stress. And it sounds to me like he's a pathalogical liar who believes his own lies.. As far as him taping you and him having sex without your permission is even more reason to tell you to get the heck out!!! (don't forget the tapes too) Good luck, and sorry for sounding a bit harsh


KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
It all depends on how committed you and your boyfriend are. Think back when you first met your boyfriend. Did you feel the same attraction to him like you do with this guy? Was your boyfriend sweet and made you smile when you first met? It's always great in the begining, but after time you will have your arguments and misunderstandings. If you feel that you really don't see a future for you and your boyfriend now(i don't know how old you are) or down the road, i would say go for it and see where that attraction takes you and the other guy. But don't forget 11 months is a long time to just throw away if you honestly love your boyfriend as much as you say. You have to know the difference between true attraction or some guy that is just flirting with you.


is there any way to get hair dye out of your hair? i rescently dyed it adn i don tlike how dark it is so im trying to just fade it because i dont want to redo it so soon and end up damaging my hair
ughh pleasee help
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Once you color your hair, there is no way to get it out.. but if your hair is too dark and you want it to be a little lighter (after waiting a week) go to a drugstore, and pick up i believe is revlon or loreal highlite effect or lowlites effects (you want the highlite obviously) just put some streaks in with the little brush they give you. it doesn't bleach out your hair and make it dry. it knocks the shade down a notch or two, but will make your hair look not as dark. best part is the stuff colors over any boxed color you used! good luck!




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