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Is he too old for me?
22/f
Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!!
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I'm 21 and I'm dating a 35 year old guy. The age gap really bothered me to start with (but mainly because he wasn't honest with me about it). At least this guy was honest with you and looks young. Don't let the age gap stand in the way of something good! Older guys are basically better I reckon - more mature and more likely to have gotten the whole "player" attitude out of their systems. My guy treats me well and has learned what not to say and do in a relationship - which is great because it means I don't have to teach him.
One piece of advice: don't tell people his age before they meet him unless they ask. Reason? People will prejudge him based on his age. Let them meet him, see how cool he is, then later (again, only if they ask) let them know he's a bit older than you (and add that you really like him so it doesn't bother you). I made the mistake of saying, "I'm seeing this guy - he's 35!" as if it was shocking or impressive. I really regret it now because everyone in my life has prejudged him and it's my fault that this happened.
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Go for it. You're an adult and so is he, there's nothing wrong with the age barrier.
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I am 29 he is 42. Big harry deal!!! All of our friends are very accepting, we are totally infatuated with each other and we are going on 4 years. Advantages to an older man ?? Sensitivity, affection, wisdom about life, patience, oh, and amazing sex, they have had time to practice,(smile). I get hit on whenever we go anywhere, and he shrugs it off and is proud. I kiss him and let all those guys know i,m his. Now if he starts to want to settle down that is another issue, you may be too young for that. Great guys are very hard to come by. Keep him. Try it out, let your heart, not a number tell you whats right. Good Luck!!!
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Go for it honey! age doesn't matter! my friend is 19 and she's been with her 30 year old boyfriend for a year. they are totally in love and are engaged! age doesn't matter! also, it's a fact that males mature later then females so it actually works out better to date an older guy. good luck girl!
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You aren't too young to be with him; Just have fun!!
If he is this nice, funny, sweet guy, what the problem is to date him?!
Unless, he's looking for a series relationship as marriage, but you aren't. Then, talk about it with him to let him know you only want to have fun for now. To see if he wants to hang around to see if works out between you.
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At that age, age doesn't matter. I'm sure you know that the gap between a 15 year old and a 19 year old is much bigger than 20 year old and 30 year old.
You aren't too young. You shouldn't put somebody down because of their age. You are both adults, so I don't see the problem. Is it weird? Not really. It can work, but as I said, age (in this case) shouldn't be a factor. You are both old enough to know what is going on and make your own choices and everything. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Does he know how old you are? A good guy, if you look young, will ask you for your age. If he doesn't, he probably doesn't care.
That can mean that he's a creep... be VERY careful and VERY skeptical.
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age doesnt matter.....if you care about someone then its not a big deal. i see nothing wrong with it and if any one doesnt like what they see then tell them to turn your head in the other direction.it wouldnt bother me if i really liked someone.
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