16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help?
xlittlebell420 answered Tuesday January 23 2007, 12:40 pm: well first of all havin sex with a teacher is wrong no matter how hott he is.. and umm putting sticks and stuff inside you is kinda gross so i would stop that cuz u can get like diseases and shit from that.. so id watch out.. but i thnkt hat you should just tel him how you feel and you should just leave it at that and you should let him know.. quick [ xlittlebell420's advice column | Ask xlittlebell420 A Question ]
Dorkalicious answered Sunday January 21 2007, 2:03 pm: Well I think that you should tell him to lay off. But if that doesn't work go straight to the POLICE but of course don't go after school he could follow you. Go on a Saturday or Sunday don't let it get to far. You should go soon.
illdomybest answered Sunday January 14 2007, 2:16 am: hes the one whos screwed because its illegal.have this man arresed they'll be on your side hes not safe.and sticking things like sticks in you can really mess you up or kill you. i think you need to worry less about hurting his feelings and worry more about him hurting you. your probably the only one willing to put up with bull crap. if he loved you he wouldn't be getting you to do sexual things hed wait for you to be of age. this guy could really hurt you or even guys who he thinks are getting to fresh with you. you need to put aside this attraction. hes sick in the head. hes using you. you need to tell the police,a parent,or principle or counselor.your the victim wether you realize it or not.your also in danger save yourself and tell. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
Potential answered Friday January 12 2007, 7:10 pm: Try to talk to him, but the only way I see, to get rid of him safely, is to put him in jail(AS MUCH AS I HATE TO SAY THAT). [ Potential's advice column | Ask Potential A Question ]
kimandrich7 answered Friday January 12 2007, 12:01 pm: Why are you giving good answers a 1 rating ?? This leads me to beleive that you are getting off on this. dont ask for advice if you dont want it. you have extremely low self esteem. you know what you should do so do it... [ kimandrich7's advice column | Ask kimandrich7 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Thursday January 11 2007, 11:24 pm: Uh... Call the police. File a report. RIGHT NOW.
Ever hear of statutory rape? Ever hear of stalking? These are serious crimes. The fact that he is a teacher having sexual relations with a student is an even more serious crime, considering he is working with children.
Why are you concerned about his feelings? To hell with him and his feelings. HE IS ABUSING YOU.
How about your feelings? How about how you feel when he stalks you, tells you can't see this boy you like, and sticks foreign objects inside of your body? He is violating you with sticks, for crying out loud.
The fact that he is hot has nothing to do with anything. He may be good looking on the outside, but he is a piece of shit on the inside. HE IS A SEXUAL PREDITOR!
I see all of the 1 ratings you gave before me. I could care less if you rate me so low for telling you the truth. You need to hear it, like it or don't.
Everyone who has responded to you is trying to tell you that you are being ABUSED. This guy is supposed to be someone you can trust to look out for your well being. He has no right to be a teacher. He is doing this to you, he will do it to other girls. I REPEAT: SEXUAL PREDITOR!
You still have another year in school with this pervert. You can't afford to be in denial, here. This is going to scar you enough. Don't let him make it worse.
Next time he pulls you into his office, or any other private place, scream at the top of your lungs "NO!" and "RAPE!" Never leave the building with him. NEVER GET INTO HIS CAR!!!
He is so obsessed, he may kidnap you, rape you, and leave you dead in a ditch somewhere. He is obviously a CRAZY PERVERT.
caramella answered Thursday January 11 2007, 8:06 pm: Dude,a teacher doing it with you is considered RAPE.I think you shouldnt worry about this teacher and go for a guy your age.The teacher cant do anything about it,if he gets mad and tells anyone that you had sex with him hed get in some deep shit here....you should never have sex with a teacher man,he can be using you for sex!Dont you see what happens on the news?!You can end up dead one day if you refuse screwing this teacher....take care of yourself and...leave your teacher alone...itll only get you into trouble. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
xOx_aSh_bO_baSh answered Thursday January 11 2007, 7:37 pm: OMGSH! DONT WORRY ABOUT HIS FEELINGS! WHAT HES DOING TO YOU IS ILLEGALL!!! hun face it hes basically raping or molesting you!!! even if you wanted to do it hes still molesting you because its against the law until your 18! tell one of your parents or a trusted adult!! i really hope you take my advice!! cause i dont want you to get hurt ... or anyone else for that matter.
Chika answered Thursday January 11 2007, 5:34 pm: Whenever he asks or is like okay "sex time" or whatever just be like "I have to go..." and blah blah blah just make up an excuse. And then just like gradually loose everything in him, you can even try like not getting cute for school anymore so he would find to like Unattractive and not want you anymore. HOPE I HELPED! [ Chika's advice column | Ask Chika A Question ]
Addicted2Life answered Thursday January 11 2007, 4:17 pm: that is a bad situation to be in. you need to get help before you get seriously hurt! tell your parents, a teacher, a friends parents, anyone who can help you get rid of him! not only is he doing something that can permanently keep him from loosing his future career he's breaking laws that he's bound to break again with someone else later on. he needs to be somewhere were he can't hurt, a)you and b)anyone else! [ Addicted2Life's advice column | Ask Addicted2Life A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Thursday January 11 2007, 4:13 pm: hey, well you brought this issue upon yourself. you should have never started havign sexual relations with a teacher. if you have no feelings for him and wish he would just go away then you need to tell someone. a trusted adult. you could be putting your life in danger by telling him personally. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday January 11 2007, 4:07 pm: You don't want to hurt his feelings? The guy is committing a crime.
You really even want him turned loose on some other unsuspecting girl? Tell your parents, get a lawyer and have this guy thrown in jail.
You said yourself he is basically stalking you. You have every reason in the world to be afraid of this guy. He has no business being a teacher at all. Take a stand now and have him put away! Save another girl from going through the same thing. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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