hey! i love giving advice! so defff askk. ill answer any questons that you have. ♥ by the way my name is ash. [.ashley.]
love you alll. askk meeee for anythingg.
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Alright so lately, I guess you could say that things have been a little chaotic. My sister recently got in trouble for a for a minor crime, plus she's going to college soon. My mom is flipping out and I know she has a reason to because my sister isn't the best student and she did get in trouble with the law. But I think that my mom is blowing it way out of preportion. Everytime she sees my sister, she starts yelling at her and freaking out, and not only is my sister affected by it, I am too. I'm not the one who's in trouble but I feel like I am because of all the yelling. But you have to know that my mom seems to always overanalyze things; for example I tried out for a solo in dance and didn't get it, so I was like okay whatever it's alright but when I told my mom, she's all like "Don't complain about geez it's alright" and she seemed like she was mad at me, but the thing is, I wasn't whining about it at ALL and everytime I see her she brings it up. It was me who didn't make the dance solo, not her, and it's like she can't let go of anything, and everytime I do say "Okay mom, please stop tyalking about it, it's over" she doesn't listen because she's so stubborn and keeps going on and on about how it's okay that I didn't make it and she starts complaing to me about my sister and starts, like, trashing my dad... so I finally lose my temper and yell at her to stop... and then she just stops talking and says "I always lsiten to your problems, and it's mean that I can't talk to you, sometimes I want someone to talk to, too." SO then I start feeling horrible that I'm not letting my mom vent to me when she's done so much for me and has helped me and ahhh idk I have mixed feeling about this. My question is, how can I calmly and rationally tell my mom that I'm not my sister and I didn't get in trouble so she can stop talking about it to me and stop talking about my dad? I mean I don't mind talking to her but sometimes she just doesn't STOP and I have to do my homework and stuff but she's still talking... ahhh please help. :( I'd really appreciate it. And sorry this is really, really long. (link)
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omgsh im soo sorrry! my family has HORRRIBLE PROBLEMS to!!! like my brother and sister have gotten themselves into trouble and my mom tells me every last thing about it and i just wanna be like please dont tell me this i dont wanna want to no. she also says some bad things about my dad sometimes. so i no how you feel. so yah kkayy ... about your question i would just kinda get a time when shes in a really good mood and just sit down with her one on one and ask her please mom i didnt get it to trouble my sister did so please can u not take it out on me anymore and please stop talking about dad that way hes my dad and i love him so i dont like hearing all this bad stuff about him. and yes i no u need someone to talk to but can you please like talk to dad or like to one of your other friends instead of making me feel like im the one in trouble for it all. i really dont want you to be mad and i love you but im tired of hearing it and it stresses me out!just kinda say stuff like that to make her feel a little bit bad about it but not like horrible.
im really sorry and i hope i helped you =]]
♥ ashley
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16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help? (link)
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OMGSH! DONT WORRY ABOUT HIS FEELINGS! WHAT HES DOING TO YOU IS ILLEGALL!!! hun face it hes basically raping or molesting you!!! even if you wanted to do it hes still molesting you because its against the law until your 18! tell one of your parents or a trusted adult!! i really hope you take my advice!! cause i dont want you to get hurt ... or anyone else for that matter.
hope i helpedd =]]
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hey ashley!! yah im not gonna say who i am or anything but i heard you take voice lessons and yah i heard you made it into state choir. do you think your voice lessons helped you alot or were you just kinda lucky. because i mite take them if they help alot. thankss
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heyy. yeah i think that voice lessons helped alot. my teacher is really goood!!!! so yeah if you love to sing like i do then you should take themmm. :)
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whenever i change my pad or tampon at school it takes a long time and makes a lot of noise ( the crinkling paper and taking pads off)
so what are some tips on how to do this faster and quieter?
i'll take anything i can get!
HAPPY 2007. (link)
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i have the same problem. i usually just wait until someone flushes the toilet to change it or put it in the box thing. or sometimes i just wait till a sink turns on. or i just cough kinda loudly while i change it.
hope i helpedd :]
♥ ash
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will you rate theses guys on how hot they are.
mason
austin
sam
jack
bj
michael
brett
nick l.
cooper
josh p.
josh b.
sean
lee (link)
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yah i guessssss......
mason-8
austin-8
sam-9
jack-7
bj-6
michael-6
brett-7
nick l.-7
cooper-8
josh p.-8.5
josh b.-7
sean-6
lee-6
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willll you rate these people 1-10 on how much of your friend they are.
amelia-
anna
krista-
paxton-
taylor-
erikka-
amy-
katrina-
megan w.-
megan l.-
megan f.-
thanks
- nott gonna tell
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amelia.9
anna.9
krista.10!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
pax.10
tay.10
erikka.9
amy.9
kat.9
megan w.6
meghan l.7
megan f.8
♥ ash
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okay so theres6 of us. i make pretend names . so theres melissa, kait,ashlee,haley,sammy,(me)
and we all are good friends until melissa and kait decided they didnt like haley and that she was really annoying.and they used to be best firends. anyways, they pull alot of pranks on her and made her cry at lunch. she was in my next class so we talked about it. but i dont know what i should do . mellisa and kait will turn there back on me if i try to make haley feel better.ohh i dont knoww!
SOMEONE HELP ME
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wooried about having to lose a friend (link)
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i think that it seems like you dont like what they r doin to haley. i think that you should go with ur instinct. you no that its right to help out haley. do you think she is worth losing friends over. hope i helpeddd.
♥ ash
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when asking quesions on here no one is going to find out my name? right? (link)
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no. there isnt a way for anyone to find out your name unless you put your name on the question.
♥ ash
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