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Okay so tomorrow im hangin out with this kid and he obviously wants to have sex because hes really horny all the time and hes like open about it.
he says i love you to me but i highly doubt it. he told me he gets made fun of cause hes a virgin but i think thats the only thing he wants from me. how do i tell if he really does love me? he says he doesnt want to rush anything and hell wait until im ready but i dont know. should i trust him?
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no way.no WAY.If hes been getting teased alot nowadays about being a virgin,its these days hes telling you that he loves you.Ask yourself these questions...has he ever noticed you before???If he hasnt then obviously he just wants your virginity.If he wants to lose his then it shouldnt be on you,youll start liking him and might end up pregnant from a guy that dont even love you.Hell go around and brag and tell his freinds that he got laid to...YOU!!
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Coming from a guy, the only way to truely know what a guy is up to (when it comes to sex) is to see what happens. If he *doesn't pressure you at all* about it, then getting into your pants isn't his main priority. If he *focuses on you & only you* then he probably loves you. But there is only one sure way to know if someone loves you and thats to feel it in your heart. The way you described him it doesn't sound like he should be the one you have sex with. But I could be wrong. If you need anything else feel free to send me a message.
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Hang out with him? No
Trust him? Hell No
have sex with him? Fuck no
Calling him "this kid" can tell alot about your relationship with him. It doesn't even sound like your friends. You need to be more specific also. like when you met him, your relationship with him, etc. He tells you he loves you and he barley knows you? he's full of shit. People throw the phase "i love you" around so much. He's probably telling you all this so he can get you in bed with him. Actions speak louder than words. What desperate loser. Guys do this all the time, believe me. You say he says he doesnt want to rush anything but yet he tells you how he wants to have sex with you and that he tells you he get's made fun for being a virgin? Like i said, he's only trying to make you feel bad for him so he can convince you to sleep with him. Look, just know what you're doing before you do it.
Make the right decision, but if i were you, i'd kick his sorry virgin ass to the curb.
good luck, be smart, be safe
hope i helped
xo
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Oh my goodness, you want to know if he loves you? You started out by saying Im hangin out with this kid. Whoa!!! Stop right there. You have to b in a relationship for him to love you. My guess is he is gonna lose his virginity to u and let u go. No you shouldnt trust him. He can say he loves you but he has to show you. Tell him that sleeping with him requires a relationship, if he doesnt like that tell him to go elsewhere, good luck!!!
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Only you can know if you can trust him.
I would wager, that if he gets made fun of about his virginity, then he is in a hurry to loose it.
"I love you" is only a phrase. It can be said by anyone, to anyone, for any reason. That means it never has to be heartfelt.
Meaning, if you are not sure if he loves you, then he probably doesn't. How do you tell? It's different for each person, really, but it's something you will know.
I would be willing to bet that he is just saying it to get into your pants. Many guys before him have used that line. They will say what they think you want to hear in order to get what they want.
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