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How do i know?
So I kind of secretly like this one boy.
He has a girlfriend, but we had a past.
Not neccasarrily a relationship past,more of like a friendship and sex past,[yeah i know,dumb idea]
Well we both kinda act like we dont like eachother, he's kinda mean to me but not as much as he used to.
Im not really mean to him , i just act like I dont care about him,when i do.
His best best friend told me that he DOES like me and wants me to think he hates me.
I cant really talk to him because he still has a girlfriend but how can I tell if he likes me or not??!
Just by seeing him around, i see him alot.
Sometimes I see him staring and If we have to be together for school reasons, he usually messes around with me and stuff.
I need help!
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i think you should like someone else since he is mean AND has a girlfriend!!!
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ok hun, i dont wanna sound mean or whatever but its not a very good i dea to like a guy with a girlfriend.... ok i want you to think for a minute prentend you the girl hes with imagine if your boyfriend was messing around with some other girl, and he dumped you for her or cheated on you with her. what if that girl is in love with him. that could seriously hurt someone so just wait until they break up or something its not good to get yourself in that kind of mess trust me i know. do what you want but im telling you if the girl is in love with him it will put you through hell. dont put yourself through that. just be carefull ok?
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Well this is what you do. Well first, maybe you should try to break his idea that you have to think he hates you. Because even tho he has a girlfriend, he wants a friend, and definitley you in general. Gradually become a little nicer more and more each day (but still not making it seem like you like him). The fact that you see each other often is A BIG ADVANTAGE. one day find a reason to have a deep conversation (like maybe you neen advice, or homework help, or something clever like that) but the conversation shud be one that, he feels like he can open up to you, and trust you, so you are on his min even more than you already are. Then slowly become better and better freinds with him, so that you are close enough to invite him over, or ineractive things like that. Eventually he shud realize that he likes you to much to stay with his girlfriend, then after tht it shud go really smooth and in your favor.
I really hope i helped
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