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Blew me off?
I like this guy, Jake.
My birthday was this past Friday, and I invited Jake to my party. He said that he could come.
On Weds. or Thurs., he IMs me and says that he can't come. I figured that he got in trouble or something legit had actually come up.
I just found out that he decided not to come so that he could go to Six Flags with a girl that would soon become his girlfriend.
I'm kind of bothered by this, but I'm not sure if I should talk to him about it or not.
If you were in my situtaion, what would you do?
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move on! he obviously cared more about this going to six flags than your party, or maybe he just didn't wanted to miss the chance with this girl and because you are his friend you wouldn't mind too much if he couldn't go to your party, guys are strange any way, even either way he thinks, move on cause he might be having a new girlfriend and its better to look for someone new than beeing crying over someone that's already taken
good luck
diane
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Well, I'm guessing that you and Jake are friends so if I were you, I would talk to him about it. Just tell him it upset you that he lied to you. Do NOT bring the other girl into this though. Casually say something on the lines of: "I didn't appreciate you lying to me and saying you couldn't come, you could have just told me you were going to six flags, I would've understood".
Based on the fact that your still having birthday parties I'll assume that your still pretty young... After saying that, he's not the only guy in the world so if it doesn't work with this guy, your life is not over.
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Well if this girl he went out with will become his girlfriend, i would move on. I may confirm the story with him, bring it up casually, but I don't really see a point in giving him a whole bunch of shit for it.
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I think i would defenitly tell him how you feel and that you know about the six flags thing and if he cares he wont denie it or wahtever, and if he acts like he doesnt care hunny try to move on i know its hard but you will find better
love always & forever
<3 kristen
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