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I dont fit in
Well i need help fitting in at my school. I dont have the kind of popularity like the other kids do. So if you can help me to fit in please help!!!
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you know what?fitting in isnt important..standing out and being an individual is so much better! but as for ways to make more friends(and by the way..people who arent popular are MUCH MUCH better friends and wouldnt you rather have people who accept you for who you are?) well basically..just talk! be caring and try to make others feel good, because you feel good in return..and everyone wants to be around someone whos nice. introduce yourself to people,smile often,get to know people and be confident with who you are because confidence is a great quality..popularity isn't something to search for..having amazing friends and being able to be yourself and have fun in any situation will provide you with more happiness than "fitting in" ever will.
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I agree with the last person. You should try joining a club or doing some other extra-curricular activity..you'll meet people with similar interests as you. Don't ever try to change yourself to fit in. I know how much pressure there is to try being popular. It's difficult..when I was in High School, I would think about all the popular kids...you know what? Half the time (or more) kids act a certain way to be accepted by their peers.. it sounds to me like you are more grounded and decent that many "popular kids." I know it's hard, but try thinking more about meeting decent, like-minded people that trying to
"fit in." Maybe join a club, sports, or something you like..
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Well I mean its alwyas hard to fit in. I was the same way really. I think mabye you should join a club or an afterschool activity you really like. You will eventually make friends there because you have things in common. Hope I helped
Bianca
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Sit somewhere new at lunch in your school. Just walk to a table that has someone you'd been wanting to meet and ask if it's alright to sit there. Then just join into the conversation. Don't not talk, otherwise they'll think you're boring and their first impression of you will be that. When you get to know them, you get to know other people. Make connections.
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