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controlling much?
ok so recently my bf has been ignoring me when he's wit his friend..(not answering my calls texts)..wen he's wit me he's great and very attentive..we've been togethere for a year and a hafl and..this has happened in the past..but we fixed it..and now it is starting to happen again.. He gets really mad at me for really stupid reasons( like if im running a few mins late to his house) but whenver i get mad he for some reason gets mad at me for being mad becuase he doesn't think my reasons are legitimate. For examplle tonite he basically ditched me to hang out with friends. I wanna put my foot down but i'm afraid he won't take my seriously, or will just get mad at me..what do i do?
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Rebel. Rebel against being respectful towards your boyfriend. The hell with his opinions or concerns about you! Don't care what he thinks, it's all you. Don't even bother to explain why you're mad because the way you describe it he can't manage to get it through his thick head that you're upset! Just say "That's it. I've had it, we're done!" Yes it will save him future girlfriends if you don't explain why but that's his problem if he doesn't get another girl as soon as he snaps his fingers. I mean... I doubt he has a waiting line of girls with the way he's acting. So dump him. I know I sound kind of rude considering I don't even know him, and I'm sorry for that but I'm trying to help YOU-not HIM. Obviously... lol
So anyway... I honestly think he sounds like a jerk and you deserve so much better. No girl deserves somebody like that!
~ Hope I helped, Lauren
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he won't take you serious cause you don't put your foot down and if your scared that he'll get mad then how do you expect him to take you seriously.when you get mad at him and he tell you your reason isn't legitimate you simply chuckle and "say my reason isn't legitimate..."and bring up something stupid he got mad at you for.and when he wants to get loud and angry,you get louder and angrier to prove your serious and that you mean business
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Well before you start a big fight just remember that he needs to have some guy time so set aside time for his guy time adn your girl time you dont need to spend every weekend together, that being said, if hes always with his friends and he just DITCHED you tonight then i think thats a legitimate reason to be mad
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