Question Posted Thursday February 22 2007, 9:49 pm
It seems that lately my friends have been letting me down. They always say I am being walked over by people when in fact it usually ends up being them doing it. I have been dating my boyfriend for several months now and I love him alot, and he makes me so happy. That in mind, my friends don't like me dating him and always criticize me for it and make me feel like crap because he is relatively older than me. Aren't friends supposed to be happy for you? Well mine aren't. I know they see it as lookign out for me, but I don't and neither does he. This is where my problem is. He tells me to not stay friends with people who treat me like this and almost gets mad at me for putting up with it. I'm just so confused lately, what should I do?
yourrtrustyhelpline answered Thursday February 22 2007, 11:35 pm: your friends aren`t worth it if they won`t accept you for who you are and who your friends/boyfriend/family are. find yourself true friends that don`t give you shit about stuff like that, it`s honestly not worth it. i mean, if they genuinely care, that`s good, but they should respect your decision and it sounds like they don`t, it sounds like they just try to get you to be who they want you to be. [ yourrtrustyhelpline's advice column | Ask yourrtrustyhelpline A Question ]
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