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does he ? please answer is he giving signals
theres this 1 boy who always stares at me & sometimes looks away he stares me in the eyes
and also only talks to me online .. today i first talked to him and i asked him if it was really him online last night he said yeah and like smiled /got all happy type..lol and then i looked back and he put his hand up like come here or something and i kept on walking idk who he ment it to i thought it was one of his friends or something but there was no1 infront of me.. then he was in the same class as me & i came from a different class and i was outside near the lockers he came out and looked and then went back in the room he also has a gf .. but she lives like an hour away from here. the other day (friday) he did that nod thing i asked him online what it meant he said it meant hey .. hes been with his gf since june 05 .. also at lunch time he stands up and looks over at my table he said when he nodded to me i turned my head i didnt realize that he nodded to me.he also seems to follow me around school . alot of kids are acting differnt to me so i dont know why.he talks to his bestfriend in the same class as me and talks about other girls to like get me jealous what could he be trying to do ? and he talks about cars and goes online w/ them and looks at cars and girls . my 2 bestfriends think that he likes me .and in gym class he got out .... he was folding his arms like he was mad & staring at me .. then my friend was trying to take pictures of me & i blocked her cellphone with my hand and yelled no he looked at me .. do you think he like sme?
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he probably do but is to shy to tell you or cause he don't kno if he wants you or his gf.so he's gonna keep doing whats suppose to be normal guy stuff and keep staring at you cause he's probably thinking about the subject while he's staring at you.thinking tons of stuff about you until his girlfriend come in his mind and then the people in his head start arguing.so don't sweat it theres a strong chance that he likes you
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I think he's sending signals, but he's afraid to fully act on them. The reason why is obvious: the girlfriend he's had for a year and a half. When people are dating for that long, they reach a certain comfort level - but they can also begin to get bored with each other. I suspect that he feels the need to try meeting new people, and he's feeling a certain attraction to you, but at the same time he doesn't want to let go of what he has.
You can do two things at this point: wait him out, or make a move.
If you wait, you may be waiting for a long time. If I'm right, then he's reluctant to end his current relationship without at least the possibility of having someone new to go with, and so he's not likely to make any moves of his own until he gets that you're interested.
So, how do you show you're interested? By flirting a little more obviously. For instance, if you catch him staring at you, call him on it:
"Were you staring at me just now? Because, if you were, I wouldn't have a problem with it." (smile over your shoulder as you turn away.)
Of course, it's also possible that there's nothing to any of it, in which case you'll make a move and be "shot down", as it were. But hey... that's part of the game!
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